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If you could direct your own event, what theme and season(if applicable) would it be? What would be the plot? And which Servants would be summonable?(Completely new servants and/or existing servants with class change)

2020.09.21 21:28 Daviddaprodigy If you could direct your own event, what theme and season(if applicable) would it be? What would be the plot? And which Servants would be summonable?(Completely new servants and/or existing servants with class change)

Personally, Welp with all these bunny sprites going around... Nothing like an Easter Playboy bunny event with Moriarty as Hugh Hefner(spiritron outfit) or perhaps Hans just to trash all the bunny girls(especially Kiara) and simpy bois(Lancelot) as he edits all the magazines.
Plot: Singularity that occurs on easter Island during a trip to see the Mo’ai. Now everyone must participate in a huge easter egg hunt while wearing bunny outfits(yes males too, and also including the gudas) With part 2 being a contest of who can publish/edit the best Playboy Bunny Magazine(No nudity because Gudas innocence) with Hans as your partner. Similar to Summer 3’s MHXX, Raikou would be the one constantly wrecking havoc on set and killing off servants, in the name of decency of course!
Summonable servants would have to be New: Whore of babylon(SSR), Saint Mary/Virgin Mary(SR)
Existing Servants: Jalter(SSR), Medb(SR), Xuanzang(SR), Drake(SR)
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2020.07.27 21:47 Ed_The_Riddler Consent means nothing in absence of respect and acknowledgement of human dignity.

We’re told that there’s a so-called rape epidemic in the university system. I don’t know if there’s any genuine evidence of this epidemic, but it is apparent that colleges are places where millions of young people pass the time by getting black out drunk and sexually exploiting (if not always abusing — though the distinction is murky) each other. But the problem doesn’t begin in college:
Where can a person go to get away from these deviants?
What’s left then? What’s the next profession to be revealed as a breeding ground for rapists? Plumbers? Electricians? The pizza boy?
This stuff is everywhere. It really can’t be broken down on political, or religious, or even gender grounds. Men seem more likely to be the abusers, but the problem is not exclusive to them. Though we tend to brush these kinds of cases to the side, the fact remains that an enormous number of female teachers have been found guilty of sexually harassing or assaulting their pubescent male students. Any attempt to place the blame on one particular group falls apart. The crisis it too widespread. It encompasses too many different types of people. It has leaked into too many corners of our society.
It appears that there’s a serious problem with our culture as a whole. Of course, the first problem with our culture is the same with every culture: we are a fallen and vicious species.
We seem to have a very confused notion of sexual morality. Mostly because we have no notion of it. We’re making it up as we go along. One minute we’re calling a creepy 90-year-old man a hero because he coerced a bunch of girls to get naked for him, the next we’re crucifying a creepy 65-year-old man because he did something quite similar.
Let's look at the death of Hugh Hefner, an elderly pimp with an affinity for bathrobes who spent six decades sexually exploiting young, desperate women. Then let's examine the professional death of Harvey Weinstein, a slightly younger pimp with an affinity for bathrobes who spent three decades sexually exploiting young, desperate women. But, as I’m sure you’ve noticed, the reaction to these two men has been drastically different.
For just one illustration, take a look at how "The Daily Beast" has reported on the physical and professional demise of Hefner and Weinstein, respectively. They’ve published many blaring headlines rightfully calling Weinstein a “predator” whose “reign of terror” left countless victims in its wake. As for Hefner, they lauded his “civil rights legacy” and credited him with “bringing sex out of the shadows.” The fact that he “brought sex out of the shadows” by objectifying thousands of women, while keeping a harem of teenage girls who performed sexual acts on his elderly, decrepit body because they thought it was the best way to advance their softcore porn careers, is apparently irrelevant.
These kinds of glaring inconsistencies are par for the course in our culture. Our society celebrates the porn industry even as we decry the sex trafficking that fuels it. We mock Mike Pence for respecting boundaries even as we panic over the sexual harassment that Pence’s policy is meant to avoid. Our society encourages guys and girls in college to get together for booze-fueled coed parties even as we wring our hands over the supposed “rape epidemic” these parties cause. None of this makes any sense at all.
Now, I’ll be told that one important word separates and distinguishes the acceptable from the unacceptable in the examples listed above: consent.
But how so? Even consent is defined haphazardly. Are we supposed to believe that Hefner’s concubines had orgies with him because they found his decaying crust irresistible? Are we supposed to believe that the playmates in the magazine had true feelings of joy and personal fulfillment in becoming masturbatory material for millions of lonely men? If so, then I suppose we have to believe that the young Hollywood starlets gave Weinstein naked massages because they were really into it. And if the 19-year-old blonde “consented” to prostituting herself for Hefner, then we must in that case believe that the actresses who slept with Weinstein for film roles did the same.
Of course, Weinstein is accused of assault and rape as well as coercion. We can all agree that it’s even worse to rape someone than to tell them they must sleep with you in order to advance in their field. Yet in the case of Weinstein, those two things are painted as evils not that far removed from one another. And I think that’s the right way of looking at it. But then why does Hefner get a pass for, at the very least, coercing women into becoming faceless vessels for the sexual satisfaction of men? Why do all pornographers get a pass on that front? And why do we say that we must respect a woman’s right to consent to becoming vomitously drunk around a bunch of frat boys, but we shouldn’t respect her right to consent to having sex with them afterward — a result that, by the way, is the main point of college parties? And why do we say that a man automatically rapes a drunk woman when he has sex with her, but a woman doesn’t automatically rape a drunk man when she has sex with him?
If “consent” is the one single sexual ethic left in our society, we may want to come up with a more consistent definition of it.
Or, alternatively, we could finally admit that consent is only one moral law that ought to govern our sex lives. It is not the only one.
It’s clear that Weinstein and Hefner and other pornographers and oversexed college students all represent basically the same point of view: sex is inherently selfish and transactional, and the other person’s body is an object to be exploited for your own pleasure.
It’s not that any of these people are categorically opposed to consent — it’s just that they see consent as a sort of irrelevant technicality. If the whole point of sex is simply for me to get mine, then why does it matter if the other person says yes or no?
If I can get my partner to say yes by dangling some promise or threat over his head, even better. He's just a body to me anyway. A mechanism for my sexual gratification. I’m having sex with him for pleasure, he's with me for career advancement — there’s consent enough in that arrangement, isn’t there? Well, who cares if there isn’t? I’ve already started from the premise of not recognizing the human dignity of the other person and rejecting the sacredness of the sexual act. Whatever kind of sex I have from that starting point — consenting or not or somewhere in between — is going to be exploitative and objectifying by definition.
If “consent” is all that matters, then it’s hard to explain why it matters at all, or at least why it matters all that much. If sex is something intimate and sacred, if it should always be loving and committed, if the human body has inherent dignity, then I know why it is repulsive and evil to have sex without consent, or with pseudo-consent or coerced consent or purchased consent.
But if sex is just a game, just about having a bit of selfish fun and nothing more, and the human body just an empty shell to be enjoyed by the masses — if sex is “just sex,” as people like to say nowadays — then sex for professional favors is perfectly fine and outright raping someone isn’t much worse than punching them in the face. If Hefner is a hero, then Weinstein may not be a hero but he certainly can’t be as bad as he’s presented.
But Weinstein is that bad. He’s worse, really. He’s a wicked, despicable man. He treats his fellow human beings like objects to be used and thrown away. He treats them just as Hefner did, just as a lot of people do. Indeed, the scariest thing about Harvey Weinstein isn’t that he’s a unique monstrosity — it’s that, in our culture, he isn’t very unique at all.
In conclusion, our fallen and corrupted nature seems to be manifesting itself more and more in the form of degeneracy and sexual predation. Why?
Well, perhaps we should consider the possibility that the "Sexual Revolution" was a catastrophic failure. It probably is not a coincidence that the vanguards of the revolution — Hollywood and academia — harbor the highest level of deviants. It also is probably not a coincidence that the male-on-male rape epidemic in the Church began in the ’60’s, precisely when the leadership of the Church, especially in the United States, decided to adopt a more enlightened and culturally acceptable view of sexuality. They loosened the rules a bit, started being more tolerant, and almost instantly their ranks were filled with boy-raping men.
Maybe we ought to consider adopting again some semblance of sexual morality in our culture. Maybe it was not such a stellar idea to throw out every ethical rule governing sexual activity. Maybe we should think about reevaluating other things, too, like:
1) Our love of pornography.
2) Our belief that sexually-charged young people should wait until they’re 35 to get married and finally channel their sexual energies in a positive and procreative direction.
3) Our foolish insistence that every single thing in society be co-ed, and that there ought to be no socially enforced codes of conduct governing how men and women interact with each other.
Maybe all of these ideas and strategies are terrible and have blown up in our faces in spectacular fashion. Maybe if you’re a proponent of the modern and feminist approach to sexuality, you are just simply wrong about everything.
Or maybe we should continue doing exactly what we’re doing, because it seems to be working out so well.
I think I know which option we’ll choose.
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2020.05.26 20:17 TheRoyalGodfrey Dr Dre and Jimmy Iovine: ‘We’re thinking about who’ll be the next Steve Jobs’ – Talking beginnings, business and billion-dollar Beats, Dr Dre and Jimmy Iovine reveal how their partnership kickstarted a digital revolution... British GQ Cover Story

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It takes a beat to find music mogul Jimmy Iovine’s Los Angeles mansion. Hang a right off Sunset Boulevard, swerve up past the Armand Hammer Golf Course and soon you’ll find yourself staring at Hugh Hefner’s old place, the Playboy Mansion – or, rather, what is left of it.
Jimmy’s place, pretty much directly opposite the late Hef’s lair, was designed by Wallace Neff, the architect who developed what became known as the “Californian style”. It’s a sprawling, multilevelled labyrinth, with bright, white-washed walls, a John Pawson-style pool house, a home cinema the size of your local Everyman and a football pitch in the back garden; the house and gardens are influenced by Spanish and Mediterranean buildings of the mid-20th century. “I’ve been here three decades,” Iovine confesses as he welcomes us, a catheter hanging out of his left arm from a saline and vitamin IV he took earlier this morning in a bid to banish an encroaching head cold. “Still not entirely happy with it, if I’m being totally honest...”
Iovine, as one might imagine, isn’t a man who gets complacent or comfortable. I’d first met him a year ago at London’s Connaught hotel, where he and his wife, Liberty Ross, pretty much always stay. “She’s currently doing up a large place in the countryside,” he explained over Earl Grey and chipotle smoked salmon finger sandwiches. “This suits me fine, as this hotel is walking distance from Annabel’s. You go? I’m there pretty much every night for an hour or so.”
Yet, unlike some puffed-up billionaire moguls who lock themselves away behind a wall of head-bowing flunkeys or behind a convoy of blacked-out G-Wagen windows, Iovine was nothing but convivial and happy to talk about it all: how he got his first foot on the ladder as a music engineer with John Lennon in the early 1970s; the production he did on Born To Run with Bruce Springsteen; working with icons such as Tom Petty and Patti Smith; becoming cofounder of Interscope Records; how he came to sign controversial rapper Tupac Shakur at the dawn of “gangster rap’s” commercial success; his dalliances with Suge Knight, Biggie and Death Row Records; his global success with Eminem, 50 Cent and, of course, his unique business partnership with Dr Dre and the formation of Beats Electronics and Beats By Dre, their headphone and music streaming company that was sold to Apple for a jaw-slackening $3 billion.
Despite the heaps of cash, the cultural markers achieved and the hard work already put in, however, there was something else simmering away underneath Iovine’s skin during that first meeting. Something that perhaps wasn’t dealt with in The Defiant Ones, the stunning four-part series about Iovine and Dre’s lives and dovetailing career paths that came out in 2017, a piece of filmmaking that not only entertained, but educated an entire new generation about the pair’s rise and impact on music, technology and culture. I got the distinct impression that Iovine felt – and feels – that he still has work to do. He has an innate restlessness. I felt it while in London and I can feel it today as we take a tour of his pad, artworks by Jasper Johns, Jean-Michel Basquiat and Andy Warhol dropping in and out of shadow as we walk and talk.
Dr Dre (real name Andre Young) is also somewhere in the house; he’s here to talk, a coup considering Dre just doesn’t do interviews any more. (I mean, why would he? He’s Dr Dre.) Iovine and I poke our heads into one of the upstairs rooms where the producer, rapper and hip-hop icon – fresh from working with Kanye West – is getting camera-ready. Dre, ever polite, stands, grins and does something entirely unnecessary: he introduces himself. As we leave him to get a fresh trim, Iovine quips to everyone but no one in particular, “Why’s Dre got a bigger dressing room than I do? It’s my fucking house!”
We walk back down the stairs to find a place to talk. Iovine and I settle in what can only be described as an “office” of sorts. “I guess this is a den,” the mogul explains. “I do a lot of thinking in here. Some phone calls. I was just in here the other night playing guitar...”
While the rest of the house is a hue of ivory and biscuit with pops of antique furniture, the chosen room has walls the colour of charcoal. In the centre is a large Damien Hirst sculpture – “Baloo” the bear on his back, tumbling with “Mowgli” from The Jungle Book, both covered in pieces of luminescent coral – from a series entitled “Treasures From The Wreck Of The Unbelievable”, while on the far wall is an enormous image of an eye’s iris (Iovine’s own, as it turns out). But it’s the details you want to zoom in on here, as that’s where you’ll find the clues and show-stoppers, all priceless relics from Iovine’s distinct career and life.
Against the window there’s an original black and red U2 iPod from 2004, when Iovine was still chairman of UMG’s Interscope Geffen A&M Records. It is under well-polished plexiglass and signed by the band, Iovine and Steve Jobs.
On the far bookshelf is a single black Maxell C46 cassette tape with “Because The Night” scrawled in red pen on the “A” side label. As Iovine explains to me, “That’s the original demo that Bruce [Springsteen] gave to Patti [Smith] in September 1977. I was working with both of them. Bruce had recorded the track but he wasn’t happy with it. It was, as he said, ‘just another love song’. Incredible song, of course. I told him I thought Patti deserved a hit and asked if I could take it to her. He told me, ‘If she can do it, she can have it.’ Patti added her own lyrics and it went on to become her biggest single.”
In the corridor that leads from the office to one of many sumptuous living spaces is perhaps the single most important framed piece of paper Iovine owns: the original (2006) patent for the Beats By Dre headphones Dre and Iovine designed and manufactured for Beats Electronics. Looking at it, it’s like peering at Iovine’s very own Rosetta Stone: a grail after which everything would be different.
“Beats Electronics, Beats headphones and Beats Music streaming service were formed and were successful for two reasons,” Iovine explains, as Dre sits down to join us, the pair on two suede armchairs. “Streaming was coming, we knew this from Napster – although the music industry was in denial and had tried to shut it down, the genie was out of the bottle. Piracy on the internet was going to be a problem and it was just a matter of time before more and more people listened to music through a streaming service. The other problem was hardware: the products that people were using to listen to the music. That’s where Dre came in. Dre was the sound connoisseur – here was someone who had spent an entire career in a studio, working with music and beats.”
A quality streaming platform and great-sounding headphones: Iovine knew, even back then, that these were two of Apple’s blind spots. Yes, Apple had put “1,000 songs in your pocket” with the iPod – and beautifully so – but Iovine, ever the pioneer, knew that eventually the company would need more than the flat-out purchasing power of iTunes; they would need a streaming service, available via a subscription that connected all their products and customers in a hub of algorithmically enhanced content.
“We came along at the right time with the things they needed,” he continues. “That’s why the sale [of Beats to Apple] made sense. I’ve said before that Beats to me always felt like it belonged with Apple, because of the way Steve [Jobs] and Tim [Cook] were able to marry technology with culture. They knew, as I know, that the really cool shit is happening at the intersection of the most rapidly expanding industries. This is why education has got to change too.” Education? “Yes, education. That’s the goal.”
Ah, so there’s the source of that niggle. Who would have thought this would be Jimmy Iovine and Dr Dre’s next moonshot: to revolutionise the way institutions, first in America, and then ultimately internationally, educate future generations. “I think [Dre and I] are now in a position to think about who’s going to be the next Steve Jobs, the next Bob Iger, the next Dr Dre... It’s always been something at the back of my mind,” Iovine explains, “and it’s staggering to me why no one else is looking at it like we are.
“Look, we always wondered what would happen. Now we know: companies, content companies, are being bought by tech companies. Right? And when we were working on Beats we had a similar problem. We couldn’t find employees who could speak both languages: employees that were savvy at the tech and business, the back end, while also kings of creativity, liberal arts and content. It was a problem even before we launched Beats Music. That’s why we started looking into it, due to a shortage of hire options for Beats. Now it’s no longer an option – this is happening. In 2020, if you want to run with the best, you have to speak both languages; you need to know the ‘why’ of the other person down the line. And this is what our school is aiming to do: to bring those worlds together to create the next generation of leaders.”
On 2 October 2019, Dre and Iovine cut the ribbon on the Iovine And Young Hall, a permanent home for their one-of-a-kind school. The programme started in 2013, with the music entrepreneurs gifting the University Of Southern California $70 million to create their academy, a school where students could earn a unique bachelor’s degree in arts, technology and the business of innovation. “I met with Jimmy early on,” explains Erica Muhl, an accomplished composer of contemporary classical music who became the first executive director of the Jimmy Iovine And Andre Young Academy and then its new dean when the academy was named the university’s newest professional school in 2018 – only the 20th full-standing school in USC’s 140-year-old history. “Right from the start it was obvious that what Jimmy wanted was something that had never been done before: to specifically address the need for hybrid thinkers, people who understand all sides of the way business is done today.”
Surely, I ask Muhl, trying to breed a generation of multi-skilled innovators isn’t without its challenges? Usually, whether in the UK or the US, students will, sooner or later, have to home in on a particular set of attributes – whether that be law, music production, tech or business. Can these challenges be taught to the same students all in one course? “The idea is to find industries where these skills intersect and see what we can learn from them. Take the music industry, for example, [which] is going through its third or fourth largest disruption in under ten years.”
For Muhl, Iovine and Dre, ultimately it’s about getting students more career-ready: “We have a limited number of years and classes with each student that comes in,” Muhl continues. “And the generation that comes in today is more impatient than ever, mostly due to the fact that their access to information has never been so uninhibited. Thus their expectations of their daily lives have changed. But it’s not just about going to work sooner; it’s about wanting to have an impact once they are there. They have more power in the palm of their hand than any generation in history – and it’s power to influence, to understand and to do good. We are what we like to call career agnostic here. For the first time in history students can come to our school, define or redefine their horizons and then become empowered to follow a particular path that might be very different to the one they’d previously thought about.”
Students from the Jimmy Iovine And Andre Young Academy have already gone on to land roles with some of tech’s biggest companies, becoming product designers at Facebook, AI engineers at Apple, marketing and development executives at Google. “We’ve also had some students already aiming bigger with their own innovations,” continues Muhl. “An extraordinary group that graduated last year have founded a company called Wren and they’ve developed an application that allows an individual to calculate their carbon footprint within minutes and then do something about it by directly funding a carbon protection programme. They just got their first $1.5m in seed funding. I also have a graduate team developing mock MRIs for paediatric patients and another called Infinity Box, which is all about recyclable shipping materials.”
For Dre, such educational opportunities, such a springboard, was something he never even dreamed about growing up. “I grew up around violence. It was only about survival where I was from, you understand?” Dre started out by attending Vanguard Junior High School but was transferred due to gang violence and was mostly raised by his grandmother in the New Wilmington Arms housing project in Compton. Although further down the line he did attempt to enrol in an apprenticeship programme at Northrop Aviation Company, his poor school grades meant he didn’t get in. From that point on he focused on his social life and music, becoming DJ “Dr J” at a club called Eve After Dark in the early 1980s. It was here that he met an aspiring rapper called Antoine Carraby, who would later become DJ Yella of NWA. “We know that one of these kids that comes out of our academy has the potential to do something that will change the world,” continues Dre. “That’s the number one thing for me. To provide that nurturing and start that I never received.”
So what about those kids from underprivileged backgrounds? The academy takes around 25 students a year, from about 400 applications, and all presumably must pay fees. Iovine, as always, has an answer: “So we’re going to start a high school,” he announces, with typical nonchalance. “We’re starting it right outside of USC. And it’s for that neighbourhood. And it’s going to be free. We’re doing it with Laurene Powell Jobs [Steve Jobs’ widow] and XQ [a fund launched in 2015 to change state schooling in America] and the USC. We want to give underrated kids an edge. We want to market our high school, we want to make it appealing for kids to stay in school and learn. Most don’t want to be there.” Dre is firmer still: “Most [kids] hate it.”
What was Dre’s experience of high school? “To be honest with you, it was a pain in the ass. I never liked school. Fortunately for me I was able to build a life and career without it, but that’s not possible for everyone. I [now] understand the possibilities it can create. Back in my old school, sure there was math and reading and all that, but nothing for me to get my teeth into. I’m an artist. This thing we’re building, it has everything I needed.”
“I hated every second of school,” nods Iovine, smiling at his business partner. “There wasn’t one second of it I enjoyed. Kids nowadays won’t stand for that, not the smart ones. All they see all day is Instagram and this and that, while millennials read time and time again how Mark Zuckerberg left school and became a trillionaire. What kids want nowadays is a shot at the ring – that’s what they want. So the best way to empower these impatient kids is to give them the tools for this new world we live in: give them an education, combining liberal arts with tech. The thing that Dre and I can sprinkle over the curriculum is our hustle. That’s what we as individuals can offer, that “don’t quit” attitude. I’ve never claimed to be smarter than anyone else; I just had more hustle. I could just take more pain than anyone else.”
“I don’t remember not having hustle,” agrees Dre when I ask if he too had that same ferocious drive growing up. “I would hustle if I was cutting grass, just to be able to buy shoes. I came from a place where you had to go out and do your thing if you wanted to have those nice things. It was never going to come to you; you had to go out and fight for it.” So who taught you how to strive for the top? A mentor? A teacher you remember? Another artist? “Yeah, I’m sitting next to him,” say Dre, laughing as he points at Iovine. “I never liked the business side of things, I just knew I had to take care of it. Beforehand, I had to figure it out myself. Teach myself how to create, be a DJ, how to engineer, and so on.”
What about Iovine? Did he have good teachers? “I was very fortunate along the way,” he explains. “I came out of Brooklyn, no skills whatsoever. I got a job, I met a woman called Ellie Greenwich, who took me from a job in a clothing store and got me a gig at three different recording studios. Then inside those studios I found my own mentors, people who taught me everything, from how to sweep floors to working a console. A guy named Roy Cicala at the Record Plant studios, while working with John Lennon, taught me how to record a record. Literally step by step, all the while with Lennon on the other side of the microphone. Incredible generosity. And the other man is David Geffen. He’s someone who’s been a constant with me; I always check in with him. He’s turned business into an art form. Great taste, killer instinct. In fact, I’ll see him this week. I’ll fly to where he’s at and then just sit and talk.”
Time is almost up; the LA sun is dipping just below the swaying trees that line up like guardsmen at the back of Iovine’s yard. After our conversation, we all bump shoulders and continue to dip in and out of topics as we roll back through the house. Dre has family waiting and has to shoot, and Iovine has a 4pm meeting waiting in the living room, although, to be fair, his guests are more than absorbed with the rolling TV news about the death of basketball star Kobe Bryant that happened yesterday. “What a terrible tragedy,” Iovine says, shaking his head. “Awful. And [Bryant] was probably just rushing as he knew he had kids waiting for him at his own institution, the Mamba Academy. He didn’t want to let them down.” Does it make you wonder, I ask, about maybe slowing the pace, about putting the breaks on the hustle? “Slowing down?” Iovine walks off, laughing quietly to himself. After a few paces, he turns, looks at me with his arms outstretched, his palms upturned to the wide, royal blue Californian sky. “What do you mean slow down? I told you: I’m officially retired!” And with that Jimmy Iovine goes back into his house, back to his extraordinary life and back to work.
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2020.05.17 17:54 anotheruser60 Abstaining from Sexual Immorality

N. B. Feel free to share this post in other communities and to those in need. The more people helped, the better. If this has benefited you in anyway, please do leave a comment.
Below is a very practical post, created to help people abstain from pornography and/or masturbation. It is broadly divided into two sections. The first section is what Christianity and the Scriptures say about sexual matters, and the second section is short term and long term strategies to overcome PMO.
I will say it at the start, true victory comes through Christ. What does this mean? It means that you must be willing to change your ways and then believe upon the Lord Jesus, who died on the cross two thousand years ago to forgive you of your sins. To fight the 'flesh', the carnal nature that you have, you need the Spirit of God, and this only comes through faith in Christ, a Christ who saves us from our sins, yes, even our sexual sins.
If you are unsure of your salvation and if you're heart is not right with God, please don't delay, seek God while you can :

Christian Sexual Ethics and Morality

Sex has unfortunately become an obsession in the western world today. It is often thought that it is only men that suffer from sexual lust, pornography and masturbation, but there is a secret epidemic amongst women, particularly young women. The time has come for the Church to acknowledge this reality so that solutions can be explored.
It is estimated that 30 percent of all data transferred across the Internet is pornography. Many films produced by Hollywood contain nudity and soft-core pornography. Children are taught Sex Education in our schools, with the curriculum widening each year. Media networks write articles and report on it. 64% of young people, ages 13-24, actively seek out pornography weekly or more often. (Barna Group). Young girls are exposing their naked bodies online, sometimes in exchange for money and a "hook-up" culture is evident and strong.
A hundred years ago, in Protestant and Catholic Europe, things were not as they are now. Much has changed, but "sexual obsession" is nothing new.
For example, in Ancient Rome, prostitution was "legal, public and widespread." Pornographic paintings were featured among the art collections in respectable upperclass households. In ancient Greece, pederasty was practised and accepted by the middle and upper classes.
After WWI in Berlin, prostitution abounded, initially as a means of survival for desperate women, but it became normalised in the 1920s, with youths of both genders prostitution themselves. The German army issued coupons for sexual services at approved brothels. Thrill-seekers came to Berlin to frequent the erotic night entertainment venues. Berlin even had a museum of sexuality during the Weimar period.

Sexuality in Scripture

The Bible was written by men who transcribed the revelation of God. To understand the views of God in regards to His finest creation, one must have a good knowledge of His Scriptures.
The apostle Paul wrote extensively on sexual matters, and Christ also spoke against lust, fornication and adultery:
Romans 13:13 - 13 Let us walk properly as in the daytime, not in orgies and drunkenness, not in sexual immorality and sensuality, not in quarreling and jealousy.
Galatians 5:19-21 - 19 Now the works of the flesh are evident: sexual immorality, impurity, sensuality, 20 idolatry, sorcery, enmity, strife, jealousy, fits of anger, rivalries, dissensions, divisions, 21 envy, drunkenness, orgies, and things like these. I warn you, as I warned you before, that those who do such things will not inherit the kingdom of God.
1 Corinthians 7:1-2 - 1 Now concerning the matters about which you wrote: “It is good for a man not to have sexual relations with a woman.” 2 But because of the temptation to sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife and each woman her own husband.
1 Corinthians 6:18 - 18 Flee from sexual immorality. Every other sin a person commits is outside the body, but the sexually immoral person sins against his own body.
Matthew 19:8-9 - 8 He said to them, “Because of your hardness of heart Moses allowed you to divorce your wives, but from the beginning it was not so. 9 And I say to you: whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery.”
Matthew 5:27-28 - 27 “You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall not commit adultery.’ 28 But I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lustful intent has already committed adultery with her in his heart.
Leviticus 18

The Bible is clear. Pre-marital sex, pornography, lustful looking, adultery, orgies, etc. are all sins, transgressions of God's Law. The Law, the Old Testament, shows us that we have failed to live up to God's standard, but fortunately, God sent His Son (a Person of the Trinity), Jesus Christ to die on a cross 2000 years ago for yours and my sin, so that if we have faith in Him, our sins might be forgiven and we may have eternal life! Now that is a love that lasts.
Though we obtain salvation through faith in Jesus Christ, we are still tempted by the Devil to return to former ways. God will sanctify us and make us more like Christ but we have to cooperate in this sanctification process.
Below is some information and a plan of action, to help you find relief from the temptations of the flesh. I pray a prayer, that we all might be released from the grip and slavery of the vice of pornography and sexual immorality.

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SHORT TERM KNOWLEDGE

In the fight against sexual immorality, I believe it is helpful to break the fight down into short term and long term knowledge and strategies.
1. Learn about the Addiction Cycle
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  1. Stress trigger e.g. studies, relationships, sleep deprivation, expectations, etc.
  2. PMO
  3. Guilt and remorse
  4. Shame and depression
  5. Recommitment
  6. Abstinence
2. If you suffer from porn-induced OCD, learn some management techniques
3. Recognise that you are NOT alone in your struggle
1 Cor. 10:13 - 13 No temptation has overtaken you that is not common to man. God is faithful, and he will not let you be tempted beyond your ability, but with the temptation he will also provide the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it.
4. Recognise that you have been born into a cultural war. The Sexual Revolution, starting in the 1950s, has gathered pace and forced our parliaments to change its laws so that we, later descendants, would be burdened down by sexual immorality and vice. Despite previous generations allowing this sin, we must take responsibility for our own actions. A brief overview of the key events in the Sexual Revolution:
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5. Tell and involve a trusted friend, church member? Although this is not a necessary step, many people have found this a healthy thing to do. Your friend may also struggle with the same problem and both of you may benefit be confiding in each other. Older church members may be able to give you good advice, however, it should be noted, that few of them will understand totally your predicament as porn was not so readily available back then and people did not really talk about sexual matters. Church counsellors are a safer bet, as they won’t attend your church and are likely to have no barriers when it comes to talking about sexual matters.
6. Recognise that you are most at risk when you are H.A.L.T. – Hungry, Angry, Lonely, Tired
7. Research the Allen Carr Method – PMO EasyWay book download - https://www.pdfhost.net/index.php?Action=Download&File=1be79b10d1b533c2030f2ee2f2e65405
Introduction to the method (applied to smoking in the video, but it is equally applicable to PMO) can be found here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0TL2Vh7goJc
Myth Truth
“PMO’ers need willpower to quit” Allen Carr's EasyWay requires no willpower
“PMO relieves stress” PMO increases stress
“PMO helps me to concentrate” PMO impedes concentration
"PMO helps me sleep" PMO worsens the quality of sleep
“PMO relieves boredom” PMO increases boredom
Stress, lack of concentration, sleep deprivation and boredom are, according to the Addiction Cycle above, all triggers for PMO.
The realisation of Allen Carr is that the act of smoking/PMO/drug taking etc. creates the symptoms with which the next cigarette/orgasm/injection etc. relieves. Therefore, the best time to stop is not tomorrow or next week, but rather today. Stop creating symptoms that you will then relieve through PMO.

Strategy

  1. Register using your email
  2. Create a Custom Goal e.g. NoPMO
  3. Set the length of the goal e.g. at least longer than 27 days
  4. Set a stake e.g. $50 or $5/week
  5. Get a friend to become your Accountability Partner
  6. Use the Journal Log to document your progress
  7. When the goal is completed, consider starting a new one, that is much longer
On Streaks:
The success of a streak is not the length but rather the quality. During a streak, you should occupy yourself as much as possible, either in work, studies, outdoors etc.
Isaac Newton; "The way to chastity is not to struggle directly with incontinent thoughts but to avert the thoughts by some imployment, or by reading, or meditating on other things"
On Relapsing

LONG TERM KNOWLEDGE

To truly stay away from the evils of pornography and masturbation, one needs a deeper understanding of the problem.
1. Contemplate the evils of the industry. Many people think that the porn industry and the sex trafficking industry are completely separate, however, this is not true. By watching pornography, you are generating demand, through your views, for more underage women to be exploited in horrific ways (note, we acknowledge that not all porn is non-consensual). As Christians, we should run a million miles away from industries that make profit from devaluing any humans, who are ALL made in the image of God, and who all deserve a chance at life, where they don't have to carry sexual guilt and shame around for the rest of their life, not to mention, the disease they could contract.
Additionally, porn can costs childhoods. Studies show a 1-in-14 chance of a child typing in a misspelled URL and stumbling upon a porn site by accident.
2. Meditate on the loneliness of the act. If this were a normal behaviour, why does one feel uncomfortable doing it in public? Why does one do it often in the dark, away from others? Is it because our subconscious knows that it is wrong? This rule can apply to most things: if you would not be willing to do it in the open, do not do it.
3. Consider the origins of pornography
Have you ever wondered who produces the content that many consume? Have you ever wondered why it is hard to track down the owners of pornography sites?
Below is a list of some not-so-pleasant people who are owners of the top global pornography sites. Investigate and read for yourself if you want, what kind of people they are and whether you want to be under their influence.
Have you ever wondered why it is offered for free?
It is because porn is a "weapon", a tool of perception. By warping individuals' minds, sexual dysfunction can split relationships apart and stop women from living their life to the fullest.
If it is made free, more people will consume it, and more people will be weakened and not live their best life. Do not believe that these individuals have your best interests at heart. They want to use you, to make themselves rich and famous, regardless if your life is ruined or damaged.
4. How pornography warps our perceptions of intimacy
Peggy Orenstein: “Porn is much more accessible, and at much younger ages. Because there’s so much of it, and because it’s trying to be competitive with itself to get more viewers, it becomes more extreme. It presents an image of sexuality that is about as realistic as pro-wrestling and an image of women and women’s bodies and women’s pleasure that is about as accurate as ‘The Real Housewives’ is to marriage… Everything in porn is a performance, and it’s encouraging girls to see sex as a performance and boys to see girls’ sexuality as a performance.”
Exploitation:
Organisation Findings
International Labor Organization (ILO) 4.5 million people are trapped or forced into sexual exploitation globally.
Thorn In one survey, 63% of underage sex trafficking victims said they had been advertised or sold online.
ILO While only 22% of global trafficking victims are trafficked for sex, sexual exploitation earns 66% of the global profits from human trafficking. The average annual profit generated by each woman in forced sexual servitude ($100,000) is estimated to be six times more than the average profits generated by each trafficking victim worldwide ($21,800)
Rescue:Freedom In 9 countries, 49% of sexually exploited women said that pornography was made of them while they were being sold for sex.
Below are some scientific and scriptural reasons, backed up by evidence, that show pornography to be a menace to our bodies, minds and souls.
Scientific
Reason Evidence
It will lead to escalation in genre and potentially to acting out https://fightthenewdrug.org/why-consuming-porn-is-an-escalating-behavio
It increases social anxiety and weakens your confidence https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/rebooting-porn-use-faqs/is-porn-making-my-social-anxiety-confidence-depression-anxiety-ocd-bipolar-worse/
It will ruin intimacy in marriage https://www.verywellmind.com/is-pornography-destroying-your-marriage-2302509
It can triggeaggravate depression, particularly if the content is traumatic to the viewer https://www.psychologytoday.com/gb/blog/inside-porn-addiction/201111/can-pornography-trigger-depression
It increases the concentration of DeltaFosB in the brain, leading to dependency and mental impairment https://www.nhs.uk/news/neurology/watching-porn-associated-with-male-brain-shrinkage/
It may cause ‘sex headaches’ https://www.jonbarron.org/article/pornography-headaches
Scriptural
Reason Evidence
It will lead to other sins Romans 1:28-31
Your inheritance of the kingdom of God is at stake Galatians 5:19-21
It will rob you of your peace Psalm 119:165
It will diminish your assurance of faith 2 Cor. 13:5
You sin against your own body 1 Cor. 6:18
It will sear your conscience 1 Timothy 4:2
You grieve the Holy Spirit Ephesians 4:30

Strategies

1. Cultivate a practice of Spiritual Thoughtfulness
2. Memorise relevant scriptures
3. Exchange lies for truth
Lie Truth
“God is stingy” God is good – Deuteronomy 10:12-13
“Sinful pleasures are filling” Sinful pleasures are fleeting – Hebrews 11:24-26
“People are objects” People are image bearers – Genesis 1:27
“Sexual sin is harmless” Sexual sin is defrauding – 1 Thessalonians 4:3-6
“I can turn back to God whenever I want” You may harden your heart to such a point that you don’t want to turn back – Hebrews 3:13
“My past defines me” Christ’s blood defines you - 1 Corinthians 6:11
“I have no option but to give into temptation” God provides a way of escape – 1 Corinthians 10:13
4. Join online communities that encourage you in your faith
e.g. Facebook groups
5. Make a practice of prayer and confession
6. Female individuals who struggled with lust but gained victory:

Summary

IN CLOSING

Closing Quotes:
"Sex is the mysticism of materialism and the only possible religion in a materialistic society" Malcolm Muggeridge

"If God is dead, somebody is going to have to take his place. It will be megalomania or erotomania, the drive for power or the drive for pleasure, the clenched fist, or the phallus, Hitler or Hugh Hefner." Malcolm Muggeridge

Pornography. Literally, the writing of harlots; the depiction of erotic behaviour intended to cause sexual excitement. Since sex is of almost universal interest, allusions to it are legitimate and necessary if dramatic or literary descriptions of human life are to be truthful or educative; but an enormous market exists for those who exploit sex for gain. Psychologically, the over-stimulation of imagination by sexual images renders the whole personality oversexed by disproportionately concentrating thought and desire, often to the point of pornographic addiction; it coarsens feelings and attitudes toward the other sex as tools for sexual indulgence, unrefined by affection, tenderness, or respect; it inverts the sex drive into sterile, self-absorbed, physical pleasure alone - "mental masturbation"; and because over-stimulation brings diminishing effects, it leads readily to mental indulgence in increasingly coarser, sadistic perversions - "hardcore" pornography.
Socially, the problems are protection of the immature and unstable; the danger that the emotions stimulated may erupt in antisocial sexual aggressiveness; the tendency to devalue women (mainly) and marriage; and the effect of sensualist displays and opportunities on the whole tone of society. Legally, suppression of "obscenely offensive" materials has been difficult to enforce because of variable public taste and the unanswerable statement, "The offensiveness is all in the viewer's mind".
Christians acknowledge the obligation to preserve purity of mind and heart. Jesus condemned the lustful look as equivalent to adultery, and declared the only defilement was that which comes from within (Matt. 5:28; Mark 7:20). The NT abounds in warnings concerning lust of the flesh, lust of the eyes, concupiscence, uncleanness, following the inclination to sensuality, and "the cravings of our sinful nature" (Eph. 2:3) on the principle that as we think, so we are. The Christian response to pornography is: "Clothe yourselves with the Lord Jesus Christ, and do not think about how to gratify the desires of the sinful nature. ... Whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable - if anything is excellent or praiseworthy-think about such things". The Concise Evangelical Dictionary of Theology, R. E. O. White on Pornography
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2020.04.26 11:47 The_Riddler_24 Reclaiming our sexual morality - Why consent was never enough to sustain an ethical sexual relationship.

We’re told that there’s a so-called rape epidemic in the university system. I don’t know if there’s any genuine evidence of this epidemic, but it is apparent that colleges are places where millions of young people pass the time by getting black out drunk and sexually exploiting (if not always abusing — though the distinction is murky) each other. But the problem doesn’t begin in college:
Where can a person go to get away from these deviants?
What’s left then? What’s the next profession to be revealed as a breeding ground for rapists? Plumbers? Electricians? The pizza boy?
This stuff is everywhere. It really can’t be broken down on political, or religious, or even gender grounds. Men seem more likely to be the abusers, but the problem is not exclusive to them. Though we tend to brush these kinds of cases to the side, the fact remains that an enormous number of female teachers have been found guilty of sexually harassing or assaulting their pubescent male students. Any attempt to place the blame on one particular group falls apart. The crisis it too widespread. It encompasses too many different types of people. It has leaked into too many corners of our society.
It appears that there’s a serious problem with our culture as a whole. Of course, the first problem with our culture is the same with every culture: we are a fallen and vicious species.
We seem to have a very confused notion of sexual morality. Mostly because we have no notion of it. We’re making it up as we go along. One minute we’re calling a creepy 90-year-old man a hero because he coerced a bunch of girls to get naked for him, the next we’re crucifying a creepy 65-year-old man because he did something quite similar.
[ Let's look at the death of Hugh Hefner, an elderly pimp with an affinity for bathrobes who spent six decades sexually exploiting young, desperate women. Then let's examine the professional death of Harvey Weinstein, a slightly younger pimp with an affinity for bathrobes who spent three decades sexually exploiting young, desperate women. But, as I’m sure you’ve noticed, the reaction to these two men has been drastically different.
For just one illustration, take a look at how "The Daily Beast" has reported on the physical and professional demise of Hefner and Weinstein, respectively. They’ve published many blaring headlines rightfully calling Weinstein a “predator” whose “reign of terror” left countless victims in its wake. As for Hefner, they lauded his “civil rights legacy” and credited him with “bringing sex out of the shadows.” The fact that he “brought sex out of the shadows” by objectifying thousands of women, while keeping a harem of teenage girls who performed sexual acts on his elderly, decrepit body because they thought it was the best way to advance their softcore porn careers, is apparently irrelevant. )
These kinds of glaring inconsistencies are par for the course in our culture. Our society celebrates the porn industry even as we decry the sex trafficking that fuels it. We mock Mike Pence for respecting boundaries even as we panic over the sexual harassment that Pence’s policy is meant to avoid. Our society encourages guys and girls in college to get together for booze-fueled coed parties even as we wring our hands over the supposed “rape epidemic” these parties cause. None of this makes any sense at all.
Now, I’ll be told that one important word separates and distinguishes the acceptable from the unacceptable in the examples listed above: consent.
But how so? Even consent is defined haphazardly. Are we supposed to believe that Hefner’s concubines had orgies with him because they found his decaying crust irresistible? Are we supposed to believe that the playmates in the magazine had true feelings of joy and personal fulfillment in becoming masturbatory material for millions of lonely men? If so, then I suppose we have to believe that the young Hollywood starlets gave Weinstein naked massages because they were really into it. And if the 19-year-old blonde “consented” to prostituting herself for Hefner, then we must in that case believe that the actresses who slept with Weinstein for film roles did the same.
Of course, Weinstein is accused of assault and rape as well as coercion. We can all agree that it’s even worse to rape someone than to tell them they must sleep with you in order to advance in their field. Yet in the case of Weinstein, those two things are painted as evils not that far removed from one another. And I think that’s the right way of looking at it. But then why does Hefner get a pass for, at the very least, coercing women into becoming faceless vessels for the sexual satisfaction of men? Why do all pornographers get a pass on that front? And why do we say that we must respect a woman’s right to consent to becoming vomitously drunk around a bunch of frat boys, but we shouldn’t respect her right to consent to having sex with them afterward — a result that, by the way, is the main point of college parties? And why do we say that a man automatically rapes a drunk woman when he has sex with her, but a woman doesn’t automatically rape a drunk man when she has sex with him?
If “consent” is the one single sexual ethic left in our society, we may want to come up with a more consistent definition of it.
Or, alternatively, we could finally admit that consent is only one moral law that ought to govern our sex lives. It is not the only one.
It’s clear that Weinstein and Hefner and other pornographers and oversexed college students all represent basically the same point of view: sex is inherently selfish and transactional, and the other person’s body is an object to be exploited for your own pleasure.
It’s not that any of these people are categorically opposed to consent — it’s just that they see consent as a sort of irrelevant technicality. If the whole point of sex is simply for me to get mine, then why does it matter if the other person says yes or no?
If I can get my partner to say yes by dangling some promise or threat over his head, even better. He's just a body to me anyway. A mechanism for my sexual gratification. I’m having sex with him for pleasure, he with me for career advancement — there’s consent enough in that arrangement, isn’t there? Well, who cares if there isn’t? I’ve already started from the premise of not recognizing the human dignity of the other person and rejecting the sacredness of the sexual act. Whatever kind of sex I have from that starting point — consenting or not or somewhere in between — is going to be exploitative and objectifying by definition.
If “consent” is all that matters, then it’s hard to explain why it matters at all, or at least why it matters all that much. If sex is something intimate and sacred, if it should always be loving and committed, if the human body has inherent dignity, then I know why it is repulsive and evil to have sex without consent, or with pseudo-consent or coerced consent or purchased consent. But if sex is just a game, just about having a bit of selfish fun and nothing more, and the human body just an empty shell to be enjoyed by the masses — if sex is “just sex,” as people like to say nowadays — then sex for professional favors is perfectly fine and outright raping someone isn’t much worse than punching them in the face. If Hefner is a hero, then Weinstein may not be a hero but he certainly can’t be as bad as he’s presented.
But Weinstein is that bad. He’s worse, really. He’s a wicked, despicable man. He treats his fellow human beings like objects to be used and thrown away. He treats them just as Hefner did, just as a lot of people do. Indeed, the scariest thing about Harvey Weinstein isn’t that he’s a unique monstrosity — it’s that, in our culture, he isn’t very unique at all.
In conclusion, our fallen and sinful nature seems to be manifesting itself more and more in the form of degeneracy and sexual predation. Why?
Well, perhaps we should consider the possibility that the "Sexual Revolution" was a catastrophic failure. It probably is not a coincidence that the vanguards of the revolution — Hollywood and academia — harbor the highest level of deviants. It also is probably not a coincidence that the male-on-male rape epidemic in the Church began in the ’60’s, precisely when the leadership of the Church, especially in the United States, decided to adopt a more enlightened and culturally acceptable view of sexuality. They loosened the rules a bit, started being more tolerant, and almost instantly their ranks were filled with boy-raping men.
Maybe we ought to consider adopting again some semblance of sexual morality in our culture. Maybe it was not such a stellar idea to throw out every ethical rule governing sexual activity. Maybe we should think about reevaluating other things, too, like:
1) Our love of pornography.
2) Our belief that sexually-charged young people should wait until they’re 35 to get married and finally channel their sexual energies in a positive and procreative direction.
3) Our foolish insistence that every single thing in society be co-ed, and that there ought to be no socially enforced codes of conduct governing how men and women interact with each other.
Maybe all of these ideas and strategies are terrible and have blown up in our faces in spectacular fashion. Maybe if you’re a proponent of the modern and feminist approach to sexuality, you are just simply wrong about everything.
Or maybe we should continue doing exactly what we’re doing, because it seems to be working out so well.
I think I know which option we’ll choose.
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2020.04.02 18:31 southernenglishbede Required Knowledge and Strategies for Sexual Self-control

Required Knowledge and Strategies for Sexual Self-control
N. B. the full and updated version of this post can be found here. Feel free to share this post in other communities and to those in need. The more people helped, the better.
Below is a practical post, created to help people abstain from pornography and/or masturbation. It is broadly divided into two sections. The first section is what Christianity and the Scriptures say about sexual matters, and the second section is short term and long term strategies to overcome PMO.
I will say it at the start, true victory comes through Christ. What does this mean? It means that you must be willing to change your ways and then believe upon the Lord Jesus, who died on the cross two thousand years ago to forgive you of your sins. To fight the 'flesh', the carnal nature that you have, you need the Spirit of God, and this only comes through faith in Christ, a Christ who saves us from our sins, yes, even our sexual sins.
If you are unsure of your salvation and if you're heart is not right with God, please don't delay, seek God while you can :

Christian Sexual Ethics and Morality

Sex has become an obsession in the world, and particular, western society, today.
It is estimated that 30 percent of all data transferred across the Internet is pornography. Many films produced by Hollywood contain nudity and soft-core pornography. Children are taught Sex Education in our schools, with the curriculum widening each year. Media networks write articles and report on it. 64% of young people, ages 13-24, actively seek out pornography weekly or more often. (Barna Group)
A hundred years ago, in Protestant and Catholic Europe, things were not as they are now. Much has changed, but "sexual obsession" is nothing new.
For example, in Ancient Rome, prostitution was "legal, public and widespread." Pornographic paintings were featured among the art collections in respectable upperclass households. Pederasty was practised.
After WWI in Berlin, prostitution arose, initially as a means of survival for desperate women, but and became normalised in the 1920s, including youths of both genders. The German army issued coupons for sexual services at approved brothels. Thrill-seekers came to Berlin to frequent the erotic night entertainment venues. Berlin even had a museum of sexuality during the Weimar period.
Are there any dangers to a sexually-obsessed society?
Definitely.
Pitirim Sorokin, a Russian sociologist, found that virtually all political revolutions that brought societal collapse were preceded by a sexual revolution in which marriage and family were devalued.
J. D. Unwin, author of Sex and Culture (1934), is quoted as saying; "in human records there is no instance of a society retaining its energy after a complete new generation has inherited a tradition which does not insist on pre-nuptial and post-nuptial continence."
How does an unhealthy preoccupation with sex endanger individuals and the collective?
  • People become distracted and therefore blind to the external threats to their society e.g. infiltration and subversion, foreign armies, environmental degradation etc.
  • People care less about what goes on within their society e.g. injustices, liberties being lost, disease, education etc.
  • Sex overloads the dopamine receptors which causes less people to enjoy the small pleasures in life in the way they used to. Academic studies and athletic pursuits all suffer for the sexually-obsessed.
  • Increased sexual activity almost always leads to the outbreak of new venereal diseases, which can wreak havoc on a society's population
Clearly, a pornographic culture is evident in the West today, but how should we respond to this?
Only by repenting and believing upon Jesus Christ, can the chains of sexual sin be truly loosed.

Sexuality in Scripture

The Bible was written by men who transcribed the revelation of God. To understand the views of God in regards to His finest creation, man, one must have a good knowledge of His Scriptures.
The apostle Paul is the most prolific writer on sexuality, but Jesus also talked about lust and adultery. The Patristic Fathers followed in their footsteps, advocating chastity and sexual self-control.

Romans 13:13 - 13 Let us walk properly as in the daytime, not in orgies and drunkenness, not in sexual immorality and sensuality, not in quarreling and jealousy.
Galatians 5:19-21 - 19 Now the works of the flesh are evident: sexual immorality, impurity, sensuality, 20 idolatry, sorcery, enmity, strife, jealousy, fits of anger, rivalries, dissensions, divisions, 21 envy, drunkenness, orgies, and things like these. I warn you, as I warned you before, that those who do such things will not inherit the kingdom of God.
1 Corinthians 7:1-2 - 1 Now concerning the matters about which you wrote: “It is good for a man not to have sexual relations with a woman.” 2 But because of the temptation to sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife and each woman her own husband.
1 Corinthians 6:18 - 18 Flee from sexual immorality. Every other sin a person commits is outside the body, but the sexually immoral person sins against his own body.
Matthew 19:8-9 - 8 He said to them, “Because of your hardness of heart Moses allowed you to divorce your wives, but from the beginning it was not so. 9 And I say to you: whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery.”
Matthew 5:27-28 - 27 “You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall not commit adultery.’ 28 But I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lustful intent has already committed adultery with her in his heart.
Leviticus 18

The Bible is clear. Pre-marital sex, pornography, lustful looking, adultery, orgies, etc. are all sins, transgressions of God's Law. The Law, the Old Testament, shows us that we have failed to live up to God's standard, but fortunately, God sent His Son (a Person of the Trinity), Jesus Christ to die on a cross 2000 years ago for yours and my sin, so that if we have faith in Him, our sins might be forgiven and we may have eternal life! Now that is a love that lasts.
Though we obtain salvation through faith in Jesus Christ, we are still tempted by the Devil to return to former ways. God will sanctify us and make us more like Christ but we have to cooperate in this sanctification process.
Below is some information and a plan of action, to help you find relief from the temptations of the flesh. I pray a prayer, that we all might be released from the grip and slavery of the vice of pornography and sexual immorality.

N.B. if you are using a mobile smartphone, when you reach the tables below, you may have to scroll left to see all the columns.

SHORT TERM KNOWLEDGE

In the fight against sexual immorality, I believe it is helpful to break the fight down into short term and long term knowledge and strategies.
1. Learn about the Addiction Cycle
https://preview.redd.it/jh5rxumcrfq41.png?width=246&format=png&auto=webp&s=002f690a373a8abb77ec97ec07ae265d8f83f5ac
2. If you suffer from porn-induced OCD, learn some management techniques
  • The Schwartz OCD 4 Steps Rule: https://hope4ocd.com/foursteps.php
  • When compulsions arise, recognise that nothing happens if you refuse to act. Nothing dreadful is going to happen to you. Just allow the thought to pass over your mind, through one ear and out the other. It may help to visualise this.
3. Recognise that you are NOT alone in your struggle
1 Cor. 10:13 - 13 No temptation has overtaken you that is not common to man. God is faithful, and he will not let you be tempted beyond your ability, but with the temptation he will also provide the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it.
  • "In terms of basic results, they found that 73 percent of women and 98 percent of men reported internet porn use in the last six months, for a total of 85 percent of respondents. For porn use within the last week, the numbers were lower: 80 percent of men and 26 percent of women." Psychology Today
  • "Thirty-seven percent of male clergy of various faith traditions report Internet pornography as "being a current struggle," and 57 percent of that group report compulsive Internet pornography use, according to a paper, "The Internet and Pornography,"" NCR Online
  • Know that there are many testimonies of people that have overcome their dependency to internet pornography. These can be found on YouTube or websites through a simple Google search.
4. Recognise that you have been born into a cultural war. The Sexual Revolution, starting in the 1950s, has gathered pace and forced our parliaments to change its laws so that we, later descendants, would be burdened down by sexual immorality and vice. Despite previous generations allowing this sin, we must take responsibility for our own actions. A brief overview of the key events in the Sexual Revolution:
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5. Tell and involve a trusted friend, church member? Although this is not a necessary step, many people have found this a healthy thing to do. Your friend may also struggle with the same problem and both of you may benefit be confiding in each other. Older church members may be able to give you good advice, however, it should be noted, that few of them will understand totally your predicament as porn was not so readily available back then and people did not really talk about sexual matters. Church counsellors are a safer bet, as they won’t attend your church and are likely to have no barriers when it comes to talking about sexual matters.
6. Recognise that you are most at risk when you are H.A.L.T. – Hungry, Angry, Lonely, Tired
7. Research the Allen Carr Method – PMO EasyWay book download - https://www.pdfhost.net/index.php?Action=Download&File=1be79b10d1b533c2030f2ee2f2e65405
Introduction to the method (applied to smoking in the video, but it is equally applicable to PMO) can be found here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0TL2Vh7goJc
Myth Truth
“PMO’ers need willpower to quit” Allen Carr's EasyWay requires no willpower
“PMO relieves stress” PMO increases stress
“PMO helps me to concentrate” PMO impedes concentration
"PMO helps me sleep" PMO worsens the quality of sleep
“PMO relieves boredom” PMO increases boredom
Stress, lack of concentration, sleep deprivation and boredom are, according to the Addiction Cycle above, all triggers for PMO.
The realisation of Allen Carr is that the act of smoking/PMO/drug taking etc. creates the symptoms with which the next cigarette/orgasm/injection etc. relieves. Therefore, the best time to stop is not tomorrow or next week, but rather today. Stop creating symptoms that you will then relieve through PMO.

Strategy

  1. Register using an email
  2. Create a Custom Goal e.g. NoPMO, NoFap etc.
  3. Set the length of the goal e.g. 7, 14, 21 days etc. (above 27 the better)
  4. Set a stake e.g. £50/goal or £5/week
  5. Set a daily reminder on your phone e.g. "stickK - nofap - £5"
  6. Optional: get someone to become your Accountability Partner (AP)
  7. Use the Journal Log to document your progress
  8. When the goal is completed, consider starting a new one, that is much longer
  • Install blockers on internet browsers e.g. Foxfilter, Blocksite, Adult Blocker
  • Leave seductive social media e.g. Instagram, Snapchat, Tumblr, Tinder, etc.
On Streaks:
The success of a streak is not the length but rather the quality. During a streak, you should occupy yourself as much as possible, either in work, studies, outdoors etc.
Isaac Newton; "The way to chastity is not to struggle directly with incontinent thoughts but to avert the thoughts by some imployment, or by reading, or meditating on other things"
  • Never put faith in the length of your streak as pride will follow. "Pride commeth before a fall."
  • Expect relapses early on. The pleasure-centre of the brain takes time to recover.
On Relapsing
  • Pray and ask for forgiveness but appropriate the forgiveness that comes through Christ. Emotion is understandable but don't give way to wallowing in self-pity (this will only allow Satan to gain a foothold). Upon confession, try not to dwell upon the setback again, trusting that God really has forgiven you, as His Word declares He will.
  • Read through Psalm 51 and meditate on its truth. Psalm 51 is one of the penitential psalms and it is traditionally claimed to have been composed by king David as a confession to God after he sexually sinned with Bathsheba.
  • Do not be tempted to think that because you have relapsed that you can do so again; when you get into a damp and stinky trench, you climb out as soon as you can.
  • Do not think too much about the length of the streak: if you can, focus on the general trend of greater control over your sexual impulses, as evidenced through longer and longer streaks.
On nocturnal emissions (wet dreams)
As the length of the streak grows, the chance of a nocturnal emission increases.
I am of the opinion that such an occurrence is not a relapse, as it is involuntary, regardless of whether is was accompanied by a lustful dream or not.
One must be careful not to allow such an occurrence to tempt one to a deliberate relapse. After a few days, the immediate memory of it will pass, setting back on course again. However, if you are not married, and will not be for some time, you will have to learn to live with these happenings.

LONG TERM KNOWLEDGE

To truly stay away from the evils of pornography and masturbation, one needs a deeper understanding of the problem.

1. Meditate on the Western concept of nudity. This may seem an odd remark but I believe this thought may prove of use. In more primitive societies, especially ones that are hot, women tend to not wear many clothes, therefore exposing their legs, arms and breasts. Now, because this was and still is their cultural norm, the men in those societies were and are less stimulated by the images of female nudity, than we are in the West, where the norm is where women cover the bodies, thus creating a taboo out of nudity. Now, I am neither endorsing one or the other, because clothing is often solely linked to the environmental climate in which people live, but I am saying that our Western reaction to nudity is somewhat socially and cultural constructed.
2. Meditate on the loneliness of the act. If this were a normal behaviour, why does one feel uncomfortable doing it in public? Why does one do it often in the dark, away from others? Is it because our subconscious knows that it is wrong? This rule can apply to most things: if you would not be willing to do it in the open, do not do it.
3. Contemplate the evils of the industry. Many people think that the porn industry and the sex trafficking industry are completely separate, however, this is not true. By watching pornography, you are generating demand, through your views, for more underage women to be exploited in horrific ways (note, we acknowledge that not all porn is non-consensual). As Christians, we should run a million miles away from industries that make profit from devaluing any humans, who are ALL made in the image of God, and who all deserve a chance at life, where they don't have to carry sexual guilt and shame around for the rest of their life, not to mention, the disease they could contract.
Additionally, porn can costs childhoods. Studies show a 1-in-14 chance of a child typing in a misspelled URL and stumbling upon a porn site by accident.
4. Consider the owners and producers of hard-core pornography
Have you ever wondered who produces the content that many consume? Have you ever wondered why it is hard to track down the owners of pornography sites?
Below is a list of some not-so-pleasant people who are owners of the top global pornography sites. Investigate and read for yourself if you want, what kind of people they are and whether you want to be under their influence.
Have you ever wondered why it is offered for free?
It is because porn is a "weapon", a tool of perception. By warping minds, sexual dysfunction can split relationships apart and stop men reaching their full potential: stop men turning the tables on the sexualised society.
If it is made free, more people will consume it, and more people will be weakened and not live their best life. Do not believe that these individuals have your best interests at heart. They want to use you, to make themselves rich and famous, regardless if your life is ruined or damaged.
5. How pornography warps our perceptions of intimacy
Peggy Orenstein: “Porn is much more accessible, and at much younger ages. Because there’s so much of it, and because it’s trying to be competitive with itself to get more viewers, it becomes more extreme. It presents an image of sexuality that is about as realistic as pro-wrestling and an image of women and women’s bodies and women’s pleasure that is about as accurate as ‘The Real Housewives’ is to marriage… Everything in porn is a performance, and it’s encouraging girls to see sex as a performance and boys to see girls’ sexuality as a performance.”
Exploitation:
Organisation Findings
International Labor Organization (ILO) 4.5 million people are trapped or forced into sexual exploitation globally.
Thorn In one survey, 63% of underage sex trafficking victims said they had been advertised or sold online.
ILO While only 22% of global trafficking victims are trafficked for sex, sexual exploitation earns 66% of the global profits from human trafficking. The average annual profit generated by each woman in forced sexual servitude ($100,000) is estimated to be six times more than the average profits generated by each trafficking victim worldwide ($21,800)
Rescue:Freedom In 9 countries, 49% of sexually exploited women said that pornography was made of them while they were being sold for sex.
Below are some scientific and scriptural reasons, backed up by evidence, that show pornography to be a menace to our bodies, minds and souls.
Scientific
Reason Evidence
It will lead to escalation in genre and potentially to acting out https://fightthenewdrug.org/why-consuming-porn-is-an-escalating-behavio
It increases social anxiety and weakens your confidence https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/rebooting-porn-use-faqs/is-porn-making-my-social-anxiety-confidence-depression-anxiety-ocd-bipolar-worse/
It will ruin intimacy in marriage https://www.verywellmind.com/is-pornography-destroying-your-marriage-2302509
It can triggeaggravate depression, particularly if the content is traumatic to the viewer https://www.psychologytoday.com/gb/blog/inside-porn-addiction/201111/can-pornography-trigger-depression
It increases the concentration of DeltaFosB in the brain, leading to dependency and mental impairment https://www.nhs.uk/news/neurology/watching-porn-associated-with-male-brain-shrinkage/
It may decrease your testosterone levels which could cause erectile dysfunction, reduced bone mass, hair loss etc. https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/rebooting-porn-use-faqs/any-connection-between-orgasm-abstinence-and-testosterone-levels/has-too-much-masturbation-decreased-my-testosterone-levels/ and https://www.healthline.com/health/side-effects-of-low-testosterone
It may cause ‘sex headaches’ https://www.jonbarron.org/article/pornography-headaches
Scriptural
Reason Evidence
It can lead to other sins Romans 1:28-31
Your inheritance in the kingdom of God is at stake Galatians 5:19-21
It will rob you of your peace Psalm 119:165
It will diminish your assurance of faith 2 Cor. 13:5
You sin against your own body 1 Cor. 6:18
You will grieve the Holy Spirit Ephesians 4:30
It will sear your conscience 1 Timothy 4:2

Strategies

1. Cultivate a practice of Spiritual Thoughtfulness
  • Think of your hour of death. Will you be pleased with yourself for doing such actions? Will you want to look back on your life, and wish you had lived a life of obedient faith more?
  • Think of yourself stood before Christ, to receive reward for the deeds done in the body. Are you positively contributing positively towards your treasures in Heaven?
  • Think upon the power of God and the forgiving power of Christ and how greater they are when compared to the power of darkness and Satan
  • Consider the physical and social consequences of such actions
  • Consider the immediate spiritual consequences of such actions
  • Consider that we may be close to the return of Christ and how we should want to receive Him and be received by Him as a holy people
2. Memorise relevant scriptures
  • Romans 8:1
  • 1 Corinthians 6:18
  • 1 Corinthians 6:11
  • John 6:37
  • Hebrews 2:18
3. Exchange lies for truth
Lie Truth
“God is stingy” God is good – Deuteronomy 10:12-13
“Sinful pleasures are filling” Sinful pleasures are fleeting – Hebrews 11:24-26
“People are objects” People are image bearers – Genesis 1:27
“Sexual sin is harmless” Sexual sin is defrauding – 1 Thessalonians 4:3-6
“I can turn back to God whenever I want” You may harden your heart to such a point that you don’t want to turn back – Hebrews 3:13
“My past defines me” Christ’s blood defines you - 1 Corinthians 6:11
“I have no option but to give into temptation” God provides a way of escape – 1 Corinthians 10:13
4. Join online communities that encourage you in your faith
e.g. Facebook groups
5. Make a ‘covenant with your eyes’
  • Job 31:1-4 - 1 “I have made a covenant with my eyes; how then could I gaze at a virgin? 2 What would be my portion from God above and my heritage from the Almighty on high? 3 Is not calamity for the unrighteous, and disaster for the workers of iniquity? 4 Does not he see my ways and number all my steps?
6. Make a practice of prayer and confession
  • Relationship with Christ, is developed and cultivated through prayer and confession. Although Christ has forgiven every sin at the Cross, we still need to confess our sins before Him (1 John 1:9). You will feel so much better after giving the burden of sin to Christ.
7. Individuals who struggled with lust but gained victory:

Summary

  • If one is to live, one should live a peaceful and clean life
  • Sex is not our god, but rather we serve the creator God, I AM
  • One is not alone in this struggle, and your struggle with sin is a good sign
  • We are in the midst of a cultural war, that started probably before we were born. And this cultural war is really the earthly manifestation of a battle in the heavenlies.
  • Willpower is not required to defeat this "learned habit". Once one realises that relapse creates the symptoms for the next relapse to "relieve", one realises the game and trick that has been played on them, and can then gain victory.
  • Hunger, anger, loneliness and fatigue are possible vulnerable states.
  • NEVER place pride in one's streak.
  • Recall the evil of the industry. Does one want to contribute towards this?
  • Recall the Addiction Cycle. Recognise the reality of this.
  • Recall the health consequences, mental and physical: depression, lower self-esteem, guilt, escalation in content, loss of intimacy, loss of peace, diminishing of faith etc.
  • Exchange lies for truth, using scripture as a standard.
  • Use StickK and ALWAYS put a money stake up. If money is used, you are more likely to achieve your goal.
  • Recognise that many believers in the past struggled with such lust, overcame it, and became famous believers, with a close relationship with God.
  • Believe Christ really is the bread of life: “whoever believes has eternal life. I am the bread of life” (John 6:47-48).

Concluding Quotes:

"Sex was designed by God to be linked to procreation and marriage. It was not meant to be a full-time obsession."

"Sex is the mysticism of materialism and the only possible religion in a materialistic society... If God is dead, somebody is going to have to take his place. It will be megalomania or erotomania, the drive for power or the drive for pleasure, the clenched fist, or the phallus, Hitler or Hugh Hefner." Malcolm Muggeridge

Pornography. Literally, the writing of harlots; the depiction of erotic behaviour intended to cause sexual excitement. Since sex is of almost universal interest, allusions to it are legitimate and necessary if dramatic or literary descriptions of human life are to be truthful or educative; but an enormous market exists for those who exploit sex for gain. Psychologically, the over-stimulation of imagination by sexual images renders the whole personality oversexed by disproportionately concentrating thought and desire, often to the point of pornographic addiction; it coarsens feelings and attitudes toward the other sex as tools for sexual indulgence, unrefined by affection, tenderness, or respect; it inverts the sex drive into sterile, self-absorbed, physical pleasure alone - "mental masturbation"; and because over-stimulation brings diminishing effects, it leads readily to mental indulgence in increasingly coarser, sadistic perversions - "hardcore" pornography.

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2019.09.05 05:45 lalasugar "We All Know What It Is If It's Not Sugar …"

Commenting on: https://www.reddit.com/sugarlifestyleforum/comments/cznl8q/unpopular_opinion_i_think_those_who_view_suga
My take:
  1. Yes, we all do. That's why the prostitutes juggling multiple clients are desperately lying to themselves to justify what they are doing and pretending to be SB's.
  2. Most "bunnies" at the Playboy mansion were of course prostitutes and sex-workers, not SB's. In much of Hugh Hefner's life, aside from the wives, more or less only the 3 concurrent girlfriends near the end of his life just before his final marriage could qualify as SB's as they were not seeing someone else at the same time. Every single model posed nude for the magazine spread was of course a sex-worker in the same way that camming is sex-working; please don't tell me they were SB's of the magazine buyers. LOL! Every single bunny at the mansion available for one-off sex with VIP's was of course a sex-worker and a prostitute. Hugh Hefner's enterprise had special dispensation during the Cold War because a relatively lax attitude towards girls' sexual availability was a strategic necessity as the communist regimes in the Soviet Union and Red China were experts at recruiting men with sex then blackmailing them into working for those regimes. Almost every single western intellectual who wrote glowingly about the Soviets and the communist Chinese in the 1920's through 1970's was generously provided with pretty girls (regime-owned prostitutes/sex-slaves) and consequently implicitly blackmailed into praising those regimes and working for those regimes. The native anti-communists of Russia and China literally lost their countries to the communists to a large degree because they were too uptight about girls' sexual "virtue" and consequently driving the over-supply of over-educated young men with little marketable skills into communist revolutionary movements (a factor second only to external material/logistical/financial support; e.g. German military intelligence in WWI financing Lenin's organization to overthrow the Russian government in war against Germany; Russian "Communist International" financing under-employed young Chinese intellectuals to form the latter's communist party then mass transfer of WWII surplus weapons and ammo). After the communist spy ring in the State Department was exposed in the early 1950's, it became obvious that moral standards had to be relaxed and girls had to become more available sexually in this country if we were to win the fight against communists. Men like Hefner and Weinstein were hired to do the job.
  3. While it is a social necessity for the bottom strata of girls to function as prostitutes (for the reason mentioned above, and for keeping the low-skilled day laborers content sexually by having sex once in a long while), at least before sex robots are advanced enough to take over the job, . . . it's silly for a girl to volunteer to be a prostitute (not an SB) by juggling multiple men, especially when she is still young: she would lose her ability to keep a heavily invested reproductive partner, as all her clients would strive for the lowest price and least investment in her.
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2019.07.13 02:27 Twiottle Will I regret not wanting to find "a guy to grow old with"?

I'm the opposite. I'm in my late 30's and guys always want to date me. After about 5 fucks they get very attached and want to move things further. I just like LTR FWBs. I enjoy having a long term friendship with a guy that involves sex. We bond, hang out, get to know each other and fuck. My longest FWB lasted 10 years, on average my FWBs last about 5 years. I like having a few FWBs at a time so I can invite a couple over to chill, then at the end of the night it ends in orgies. Usually my FWBs end when either they move or they find a bf. I'm never lonely. I always have guys in my life that I'm close with, but none are what you'd call "the one to grow old with." I've thought about it and I don't feel I want that. I'm not a needy guy. I don't feel lonely when I'm alone. Its very easy for me to keep myself entertained. I feel I'm content with having a few guys I'm close with that tend to revolve every 10 years. Will I regret it when I'm older? I don't think I will, but who knows. I have thought about it alot. Personally, I feel that changing the guys every 10 years keeps life lively. Its forever changing and never gets boring. Will I regret never settling down with one guy? Will I regret turning down all the guys that want to date me? I might be open to it one day if they are cool with an open relationship. I've gotten close to being in an LTR, but ultimately decide to move on. Will I regret it? Was Hugh Hefner lonely in the end?
When I'm a gay senior, I figure there will be other gay seniors I can hang with. I don't really see myself ever being old and lonely. I don't feel I need a partner to "grow old with." But, will I regret it once I'm older?
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2019.06.19 12:13 umdumdumdum Jeffrey Star is a honeypot and if you really care about Shane you need to wake him up coz he's in danger

I'm going to drop some bombs. At first you'll think this has nothing to do with Shane. But stay with me and I'll take you on a ride. You can choose to believe this is just a story, but I do have one call to action. I want you to remember what I've told you here, even if you think its baloney.
Question: What is a honeypot and why are they used?
Answer: ...
Question: Who are the targets of honeypots?
Answer: Celebrities, politicians, business leaders, influencers.
Question: How do celebrities get caught in honeypots?
Answer: Ego. Desire. The belief that no one is watching ... or recording.
Question: How has the internet disrupted the traditional influencer model and changed 'celebrity'?
Answer: Now anyone can be a celebrity if they make popular content online.
Question: How do you invade a nation without bloodshed and war?
Answer: You brainwash children who grow up believing in your values.
Question: What's the most effective way to plant ideas in the minds of children?
Answer: ... I think you all know ...
Question: Again I'll ask: How has the internet changed the traditional influencer model?
Answer: Famous YouTube millionaires.
Jeffrey Star is the new Hugh Hefner. He is rich. He has no moral values when it comes to sex. For example: he often talks about his boyfriend sharing him with other men when they travel.
Jeffrey Star is a mystery that many YouTubers want solved. How did he go from a cheap hooker to owning a 100 million dollar + company. Oh, sorry, I mean co-owning a 100 million dollar company with Ashley 'Ash' Avildsen. More on Ash soon.
In Shane's series about Jeffrey, he was shook about Jeffrey's company. Shook I say. Shane couldn't wrap his head around how someone came out of nowhere and built a 100 million dollar company in only 2 years. Shane has been on YouTube since the beginning and he's not that rich.
At this point, you're thinking it's because Jeffrey is in the beauty community. But so are many others who are just as popular.
It's just too easy to attribute his success to luck. Not when no one is asking questions about who Jeffrey's silent business partner is: Ash Avildsen. A filmmaker who made the movie 'American Satan'.
Question: How many times has Jeffrey joked about being in the Illuminati?
Answer: At least once that I've seen, in which he says he's now in the Illuminati.
Question: Which American president does Jeffrey sing about sucking his clit?
Answer: ...
Homework: Comment below verbatim what Jeffrey says when Shane asks him if he's had sex with any famous celebrities.
Question: What did Jeffrey say will happen if he ever tells a soul which male celebs he's secretly had sex with?
Okay dear readers. Let's slow this rollercoaster of conspiracy down for a moment and remember how much we loved Shane's old conspiracy videos. They were sooo entertaining right? Did you ever look into any of them yourself after you watched one of them? Remember that one he made about Taylor Swift? Apparently, she's part of the 13 families who are bloodlines of the Illuminati. Bloodlines from what though? (If you ever look this up be prepared to be shook).
Okay, so let's return from the break and keep this shit show going...
Imagine if Shane was spilling too many beans? What if one or two of his videos were actually true? What if, even though they're just for entertainment, there was a spike in the number of people who started Googling the conspiracies Shane talked about? Oh no. What if a decent portion of Shane's audience ended up choosing the red pill, like Neo in the Matrix?
Sure, his videos are entertainment. But what if one of Shane's viewers was not just an ordinary young person, but someone with the skills, knowledge, background, and influence to look into some of these things and found some of them carried weight?
Okay... so let's just pretend for a sec ... Beyonce? Taylor? Hillary? ... these are all people who Shane made videos about. Umm. Aliens... Okay, let's go with aliens.
Say an alien watched Shane's video and was like, "girl, you are spilling all the tea about my secret conspiracy!" That gay alien can't kill Shane because he's too famous. AND he's made all those videos, his audience would totally believe that he was killed for speaking out.
So that gay alien applies some makeup and decides, "oh I know, let's befriend Shane. Let's show him how rich he could be if he just stop making those silly food and conspiracy videos, but actually makes some *edit* makeup."
Then that gay alien comes up with a plan. They'll send in a secret agent. So they recruit Jeffrey Star, artificially make him rich by having his company take over the merchandising of all these other brands, and give him lots of media attention. They send their other agents (celebrities) in to build up his social standing by making them have fueds with J*.
And then suddenly Shane and he meet. Shane sees just how rich he could actually become. Because if you know anything about Shane from watching his videos, you can tell he wants more more more. He wants Netflix. He wants this, and that. Never satisfied with the mega success he has that new YouTubers would kill for.
So J* shows Shane a whole new world, and Shane gives up his conspiracy videos. But not entirely.
We keep hearing the word 'conspiracy' associated with Shane. Enough that we think we're getting more of the content we love. J* files a patent for a makeup thing and calls it "Conspiracy". Shane releases 2 x feature length conspiracy videos that are full of mild shit, that most people know to be Illuminati propaganda.
And so Shane is neutralised.
He is lured into the world of Jeffrey Star with money signs for eyes.
He maybe even has been seduced by Jeffrey into doing something naughty at Jeffrey's house. Maybe not with Jeffrey himself but with someone ... something that J* could have secretly recorded ... something that could be used as blackmail should Shane ever *think* about exposing Jeffrey ...
Question: What is a honeypot? Answer: Jeffrey Star.
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2019.05.29 18:01 daprice82 Wrestling Observer Rewind ★ May 7, 2001

Going through old issues of the Wrestling Observer Newsletter and posting highlights in my own words. For anyone interested, I highly recommend signing up for the actual site at f4wonline and checking out the full archives.
PREVIOUS YEARS ARCHIVE:
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1-1-2001 1-8-2001 1-15-2001 1-22-2001
1-29-2001 2-5-2001 2-12-2001 2-19-2001
2-26-2001 3-5-2001 3-12-2001 3-19-2001
3-26-2001 4-2-2001 4-9-2001 4-16-2001
4-23-2001 4-30-2001
  • Remember Johnny Valentine died in the last issue but Dave didn't have time to write up a proper obituary? Good lord, does he correct that this week. This sucker is LONG. Valentine died nearly broke and Dave rants about how the wrestling industry doesn't take care of its own after they're done giving their bodies to it. Valentine's long-time rival Wahoo McDaniel is in poor health but he's been fortunate to collect a pension from his years playing football for the AFL which was later absorbed into the NFL. Other wrestlers are part of the Screen Actor's Guild due to having small movie roles, which provides them insurance and things like that. Valentine was paralyzed from the waist down in the plane crash back in the 70s (Dave says these days, if that happened, he likely would have collected some big legal settlement but that didn't happen back then) and the medical bills piled up and left him broke. Dave includes a quote from Ric Flair here, talking about how messed up it is that the business doesn't have a union or health insurance or something to prevent this from happening to past stars. Dave talks about all the heartbreaking stories we never hear about from these older wrestlers who fade into obscurity after retirement and end up destitute because there's no pension, no 401K, so on and so forth and the savings they build up during their career goes away pretty quick when it's time for these old guys to get those knee replacements and neck surgeries and whatnot with no insurance. There's a lot of quotes in here from other wrestlers here talking saying that the business abandoned Valentine, who was one of the top stars of his era and it's pretty sad. And unfortunately, little has changed in the 20 years since.
  • Anyway, other obituary stuff. Dave recaps a story from Lou Thesz's book about Valentine who once went to a bull-riding show and decided to try it but got thrown off. According to Thesz, the bull then charged Valentine and Thesz thought he was for sure a dead man. But Valentine stood his ground and punched the bull right in the face as hard as he could, stunning the bull long enough to make it turn away for a minute so he could escape. Valentine was notorious for being an incredibly hard hitter, legendary feuds with McDaniel, and on and on. Man....this is a REALLY long and good obituary and absolutely worth reading but I can't recap all this haha. Dave goes into detail on pretty much every major angle or moment of Valentine's career and it's incredible but it's not news and this issue is long enough already.
  • WWF's Backlash PPV is in the books and it was...fine. Dave almost feels like it's unfair to compare it to recent PPVs because the last few WWF PPVs have been off-the-charts awesome. This one was still good but it felt like a let-down in comparison to the last few months. Dave thinks the Benoit/Angle 30-minute submission match was good but not as great as expected and without near falls, it dragged too long. Same with the main event, good but too long. They announced it as the 18th consecutive sellout in a row in Chicago, which isn't exactly true. 17 of the last 18 Chicago shows were indeed legit sellouts, but one of those shows didn't, so it's not 18 in a row. But hey, still impressive! And at least it wasn't like the XFL, where they repeatedly announced sellouts despite most of the stadiums being 3/4 empty for every game.
  • Other notes from the PPV: Jerry Lynn made his TV debut on the Heat pre-show, winning the light heavyweight title from Crash Holly. Lita also worked the pre-show and Dave says it's clear they're preparing to do a Lita vs. Chyna angle for the women's title (yup, but they only had 1 match before Chyna leaves the company). Raven vs. Rhino was the sleeper match of the night, way exceeding expectations. Shane McMahon took another crazy bump from the top of the TitanTron, as he tends to do. Triple H became the 2nd grand slam champion ever (behind Shawn Michaels) having now held the World, IC, European, and now tag team titles. And the cameras missed part of the finishing sequence of the main event, leading Dave to ask, "how in the WCW does this happen?"
WATCH: Shane McMahon leaps from the top of the TitanTron
  • Jim Ross spent the past 2 weeks in meetings with WCW talent to put together the roster for the new WCW that's now expected to launch next month. As of press time, the plan is for the first episode to air on June 16th, and TNN will be bumping their "Grand Ole Opry" show to make room. Ross met with Rob Van Dam and his agent for the first time and described the meeting as very positive. Several years ago, RVD rubbed many in WWF the wrong way when he and Sabu refused to do a job on TV during the ECW invasion angle. No word on a deal being made yet, but it's looking more likely now than it did before. Ross also met with an agent who represents several former WCW guys like Booker T, DDP, Billy Kidman, Kanyon, and others. Ross made it clear that if any of these guys want to come in, they will not be offered anywhere near what WCW was paying them as far as guarantees go, but if they're successful, they will still make really make good money based on incentives and whatnot. Most of the people who have met with Ross praised him and said he's been very honest and forthcoming in the negotiations and isn't trying to fill their heads with lies about how much money they'll make and stuff like that. Plus WWF wrestlers earn a portion of gate money and WWF runs a lot of successful live shows, although the relaunched WCW brand won't be running house shows, at least not at first, so that's obviously something they have to take into consideration.
  • Booker T has close to 2 years left on his WCW deal, at $750,000 per year and would be giving up a lot of money if he accepts a buy out to sign with WWF, but he's made it clear to people around him that he still wants to go. WWF has pretty much given up on pursuing Goldberg because he's got nearly 3 years left on his WCW deal and will make more than $6 million by simply sitting at home, and WWF has no intention of offering anywhere near the same amount. DDP has about 9 months left on his WCW deal which will net him more than $1 million but like Booker T, he's also made it clear that he wants to work for WWF even if it means losing out on some of that money in the short-term. Kidman has more than a year left on a $300,000-per-year deal so he's probably going to sit it out also. Same with Ric Flair, 2 years left on his big money deal and doesn't seem anxious to give it up. Several other wrestlers who were on 90-day contract cycles will officially become free agents in July and the biggest name among them is Rey Mysterio, who WWF allegedly has interest in but haven't spoken with him yet. All the rest will likely start working indies or in foreign promotions in Japan, Mexico, or Europe. We're beginning to see how the deaths of WCW and ECW left so many people scrambling to figure out how to put food on the table and pay their mortgages.
  • Ross also had meetings with Reno, Chavo Guerrero, Chuck Palumbo, and Sean O'Haire. Then he went to the UPW show that night in California and met with Nathan Jones, John Heidenreich, and former XFL player Josh Wilcox. Ross was high on Wilcox and there was talk of using him to cross-promote the XFL if they end up having a 2nd season (lol). Speaking of, around half of the XFL players have requested contract releases so they can negotiate with the NFL and several have already signed NFL deals. Wilcox is said to be pretty good in UPW, especially with his mic work. Anyway, the plan is to finalize a WCW roster in the next 2 weeks and then put together the non-wrestling crew (agents, referees, announcers, etc.) a few weeks later before the re-launch. The main names being considered for announcers are Scott Hudson, Mike Tenay, Joey Styles, Mark Madden and, believe it or not, Jerry Lawler, though he's a long-shot. Lawler reportedly still won't come back without his wife and Vince McMahon is pissed at him for the things Lawler has said and done since walking out, so there's some fences that need to be mended there. Vince is reportedly not willing to budge on bringing Lawler's wife back. The idea is to tape on Wednesdays, near whatever city Smackdown is taping in on Tuesdays, since they will use the same production crew and production trucks. The WCW group will have its own writing team, but they will work with the WWF writers to make sure they don't conflict with each other's angles (for instance, both shows promoting a major cage match during the same week or things like that).
  • Dave has examined the ECW chapter 11 bankruptcy filing in detail and it shows a realistic picture of what kind of shape ECW has been in during the last two years. In 1999, ECW grossed $5.8 million in income (WWF grossed $259 million while WCW grossed more than $160 million during the same year). In 2000, same kind of situation. Long story short, while many people considered ECW a strong candidate for the #2 promotion in the U.S., the reality is that the wrestling industry was pulling in roughly half a billion dollars during those years and ECW amounted to less than 1% of that market share. WWF, NJPW, WCW, and even PRIDE ran numerous single shows that grossed more than ECW did in those entire years. ECW's income drastically declined in 2000 (though not as bad as WCW's) which is interesting because that's the first year they ever had a national TV deal. The problem is, that TV deal came with enormous costs that TNN wouldn't cover and ECW essentially went broke trying to fund it themselves. ECW was owned 85% by Paul Heyman, with the Acclaim video game company owning the other 15%. At the time they folded, ECW was facing numerous lawsuits from around the country for nonpayment of bills and left tons of other unpaid bills in its wake that they weren't yet sued over. The bankruptcy filing included a list of all the people or companies ECW owed money to. Wrestlers, Heyman's family, radio stations, business partners, lawyers, travel agencies, credit card companies, loan companies, even the company that makes wrestling title belts. There was also a clear lack of comprehensive bookkeeping. On the recent Observer radio show, Tommy Dreamer talked about how some last ditch efforts to raise money for ECW failed because ECW couldn't provide any verifiable financial records. Many of the debtors listed in the bankruptcy are rounded off estimates rather than exact figures. Many wrestlers were listed as being owed money, but the amount was listed as "unknown."
  • Among the people/companies owed money: Acclaim is owed $1 million. Heyman himself was owed $128,000 in back-pay from money he spent out of his own pocket to keep things afloat. Heyman's father, who funded the company for many years, is owed $3.5 million while his mother is owed $226,500. MSG Cable is owed $244,000. InDemand is owed $150,000. And WWF is owed $587,500. And that's just a few of the companies. As for the performers:
William Alfonso (Fonzie) - $5,000
Scott Antol (Scotty Anton) - unknown
Joseph Bonsignore (Joey Styles) - $50,480
Mike Bucci (Nova) - $4,000
Don Callis - $12,000
Lou D'Angeli (Lou E. Dangerously) - $7,000
Michael DiPaolo (Roadkill) - $21,250
Joseph Dorgan (Swinger) - unknown
John Finnegan - unknown
Francine Fournier - $47,275
James Fullington (Sandman) - unknown
Terry Gerin (Rhino) - $50,000
Matt Hyson (Spike Dudley) - unknown
Francisco Islas (Super Crazy) - $5,000
Mike Kehner - unknown
Patrick Kenney (Simon Diamond) - $9,000
Tom Laughlin (Tommy Dreamer) - $100,000
Jerry Lynn - unknown
James Maritato (Little Guido) - $25,000
Troy Martin (Shane Douglas) - $48,000
Jim Mitchell (Sinister Minister) - unknown
James Molineaux - unknown
Dan Morrison (Danny Doring) - $2,100
Peter Polaco (Justin Credible) - $7,990
Dawn Psalpis (Dawn Marie) - $9,000
Jon Rechner (Balls Mahoney) - $4,000
Ken Reininhaus (Jack Victory) - $3,000
Robert Szatkowski (Rob Van Dam) - $150,000
Yoshihiro Tajiri - $5,000
John Watson (Mikey Whipwreck) - $12,000
  • More bad news on the "professional wrestling is bad for kids" front, as a new study from Wake Forest found that teenagers who are wrestling fans are more likely than their peers to have violent romantic relationships. The story was picked up and carried in newspapers nationwide and basically found that a higher percentage of teens on dates are more likely to get into physical altercations on dates and be abusive in their relationships. A WWF spokesman responded saying WWF is not a children's show and that the parents should determine what's appropriate and yada yada. The usual response. Long story short, teens (particularly boys) who watch wrestling tend to be meaner and more physically abusive to girls, and it blames the way women are portrayed and demeaned every week in wrestling on TV. Interestingly enough, girls were also found more likely than boys to be violent and do drugs if they were wrestling fans. Dave breaks down all the numbers on this and discusses what it means, the flaws and cavets involved in a study like this, etc. but regardless, it's pretty clear that wrestling (and WWF in particular) seems to be having somewhat of a negative influence on teens and this isn't the first study to say so.
READ: Watching Wrestling Positively Associated With Date Fighting, Say Researchers
  • Throughout his tenure in WCW, Rey Mysterio occasionally headed down to Tijuana to work indie shows with other big name Mexican stars, but as of this week, Time Warner informed Mysterio he can no longer do that or he'll be in breach of his contract. And like everybody else who is still collecting big money WCW deals, he doesn't want to lose that so no more Mysterio in Tijuana for now. Dave talks about how Tijuana is a pretty hot city for wrestling right now, with several companies all running weekly shows there and drawing big crowds.
  • Hey there. Guess what? I have the flu! Yup, as I write this, it's Dec. 6, 2018 and I'm siiiiiiick as shit. I've been cooped up in my house, sweating through the mattress for four days now, shivering like a newborn baby lamb. But my entire body aches from laying around for 90-something hours and I just can NOT lay around and sleep anymore. Also, did I mention my wife is also sick? She caught it from me the next day so we've both been lumbering around the house like feverish zombies. And oh man, I just can't begin to tell you how delightful she is to be around right now. A sheer joy, I must say. So much so that I decided I needed a break from it, lest I be overwhelmed with gratitude. So I have come upstairs to my quiet office to reflect on how lucky I am. I'm so lucky. Right? RIGHT?!
  • 5/29/19 Update: I'm okay now.
  • The AJPW vs. NOAH war has reached a new level of petty. Last week, NOAH announced that they would be holding a Jumbo Tsuruta tribute show in his hometown in June. Not to be outdone, a few days later, AJPW announced they were going to do their own Tsuruta tribute show, and they're doing it in May so they can beat NOAH to the punch. Jumbo Tsuruta was one of the biggest stars in AJPW history but he retired and left the company almost immediately after Giant Baba passed away in 1999. Tsuruta died last year right around the time AJPW was splitting up and had made it clear to everyone that he was on Misawa's side (I think it's come out in the years since that Motoko Baba pretty much fired Tsuruta right after Giant Baba died. Seems like the 2 didn't exactly get along).
  • When Vampiro's WCW contract expires in a few months, he's expected to start working in AJPW (yeah, he's worked a few tours there off and on over the years).
  • Antonio Inoki was in the U.S. a couple of weeks ago and when he came back to Japan, he showed the media 2 photos of himself with Mike Tyson, in order to "prove" that his negotiations with Tyson for a match against Naoya Ogawa weren't just a bullshit claim. Apparently Tyson and Inoki met in Las Vegas at the end of April, but Dave doesn't say if there's anything to the negotiations. One of the photos was of them shaking hands and the other was of Inoki pretending to choke Tyson (I can't find either of these pics anywhere and googling "mike tyson antonio inoki" just pulls up a billion pictures of the Muhammad Ali vs. Inoki match).
  • Dave talks about 21-year-old Japanese female wrestler Meiko Satomura and says she's the most promising young female wrestler in Japan right now. In case you're wondering, she's 39 now and she absolutely stole the show in this year's Mae Young Classic. So yeah, she's dope.
  • Stu Hart is going to have surgery to have a pacemaker put in due to his recent health issues. Former manager Sir Oliver Humperdink also had a heart bypass surgery recently.
  • Don Callis was on the Observer Live show and said he's going back to school to get his MBA. He said he never wants to end up in the same position he's in now, where circumstances beyond his control left him with no job. Soon after ECW folded, he was supposed to go to the Eric Bischoff-owned WCW, but then that fell through too and suddenly he had no other wrestling options (yup, he got his MBA in 2003 and now he runs Impact Wrestling).
  • UPW wrestlers Prototype vs. Frankie Kazarian headlined a recent indie show in Massachusetts (I'm only mentioning it because I found the match. Spoiler: LOLPROTOTYPEWINS).
WATCH: Prototype vs. Franke Kazarian
  • Former ECW valet Elektra recently did a photo shoot for an upcoming issue of Playboy (it was actually part of a larger thing. Throughout her time in ECW, she also appeared as an extra on Sopranos in several episodes, as a stripper at the Bada Bing strip club on the show. The Playboy shoot was a "Girls of the Bada Bing" type thing, with her and a bunch of the other strippers from the show).
  • The lines between MMA and wrestling are even blurrier than normal in PRIDE, because this week they announced the upcoming PRIDE event later this month will feature NJPW wrestler and current IWGP champion Kazuyuki Fujita vs. NOAH wrestler Yoshihiro Takayama. To make it even more interesting, Takayama challenged Fujita to put the IWGP title on the line in the fight, but NJPW has made it clear that ain't happening on a PRIDE show in a shoot match.
  • UPN is reportedly looking to follow NBC's lead and no longer air XFL games, which puts the chances of a 2nd season into even further doubt. UPN only had a 1-year deal to carry XFL and it was by far the network's lowest rated show. That would leave TNN as the only network still on-board to carry XFL games and XFL president Basil DeVito has already said that the league wouldn't be able to continue if TNN is their only TV deal. Long story short: XFL is almost certainly dead.
  • OVW wrestler Randy Orton worked a dark match against Billy Gunn, and cut a promo before the match (here's video, but the audio is super low for some reason).
WATCH: Randy Orton vs. Billy Gunn (2001 dark match)
  • When reviewing Smackdown, Dave gets a pretty good dig in at Russo. There was a segment during the show where Grandmaster Sexay was talking about fat women. Dave jokes, "See, this proves Russo's point. WWF was allowed to call women fat and that's why they still draw sellout houses." If you recall, last year in WCW, the standards and practices people nixed a segment where Russo wanted to have Roddy Piper call a woman fat and Russo threw a fit about how the Turner S&P people were the reason why he wasn't able to turn WCW around. It's obviously a ridiculous argument because it's not like calling a woman fat was going to boost Nitro's ratings an extra 3 points or anything, but that didn't stop Russo from throwing a temper tantrum about it every time and using it as an excuse for why he totally could have saved WCW if only his oh-so-brilliant and creative mind hadn't been handcuffed by the censors.
  • Talent agent Barry Bloom's agency has filed a lawsuit against Chyna for failing to pay commissions they say she owes them. Bloom's agency represented Chyna for most of the last 3 years and negotiated her WWF contract as well as consulted and advised her on many outside business dealings including her autobiography, her Playboy shoot, acting gigs, etc. Chyna apparently owes them somewhere between $150,000 and $250,000. The lawsuit says she hasn't responded to numerous attempts they've made to contact her and she has refused to pay.
  • Jerry Lawler was recently on Mancow's radio show and made some waves by implying that Bruce Prichard and Stephanie McMahon were sleeping together and that he wouldn't care if Vince McMahon died in a car wreck. Lawler later went on his website and tried to clarify that he was just joking, but the internet picked it up as serious news and it spread like wildfire. In the website post, Lawler said everything on the Mancow interview was said in jest and that he doesn't hate Vince McMahon and was sorry if anyone took his comments about Stephanie and Prichard seriously (On his podcast, Prichard has talked about this and said it actually caused some problems at home with him and his wife because I guess he had been unfaithful in the past and his wife already didn't fully trust him. So Lawler saying this really ruffled some feathers for Prichard's home life). Lawler also said he has over a million dollars in cash and has no interest in begging for his WWF job back and said he doesn't even know if he'd go back even if Vince begged him to now. He said WWF's lawyers had told him that he's burning his bridges by talking about this so much in the media but Lawler said he's not saying anything that isn't the truth and if the truth hurts, it's their problem not his. He also said WWF wrestlers and developmental guys have been told they'll be fired if they talk to Lawler and and that some indie wrestlers had been told they'll never have a chance to work in WWF if they work any shows Lawler is booking. Lawler also thought it was bullshit that WWF pulled their developmental deal away from Power Pro Wrestling just because Lawler was part of that show, saying it was unfair to PPW and the other wrestlers there. Lawler also claimed that when he was still with WWF, he had talked to Hugh Hefner about his wife Stacy posing in Playboy, but WWF threw a fit because they felt it was their decision to decide which of their women should be in Playboy and that Lawler shouldn't be trying to pursue those kinds of deals for his wife on his own. Stacy has since tried to get a Playboy photoshoot but was rejected by the magazine. However, Playboy did send a letter basically saying that they would reconsider if their relationship with WWF were to ever come to an end, so basically, she's even blacklisted from Playboy because of WWF. He also claimed that he hasn't gotten paid for the artwork he did on Mick Foley's Christmas Chaos children's book (published by WWF) and that he's planning to write an autobiography. And finally, Lawler said he's had talks with Hulk Hogan about coming in to Memphis and working some matches together, which would likely do pretty big business.
LISTEN: Bruce Prichard and Conrad Thompson discuss this briefly on the Something To Wrestle podcast
  • UPW had a big show last week and Dave was there. In fact, they hosted the Observer Live show from right there in the building before the wrestling show began. Edge & Christian worked the main event, beating Frankie Kazarian and Nova. Molly Holly also came in and put over WWF developmental wrestler Victoria. The match was bad but Dave thinks Victoria has some real star potential. UPW champion Samoa Joe beat Tommy Dreamer. Later, in the big angle of the show, they had a thing where Samoa Joe and a bunch of other heels attacked Prototype and broke his arm with a chair to write him out of the promotion because he's leaving for OVW in a couple of weeks. Eventually Tommy Dreamer ran in and saved him. Fun fact: the Rock was supposed to show up as a surprise to save Prototype from the beat down because he's currently staying in Los Angeles right now taking acting classes. But some scheduling issues at the last minute kept it from happening. Another match featured the tag team of Nathan Jones and John Heidenreich. Dave thinks Nathan Jones is almost a sure thing to become a big star unless injury or his age gets in the way (he's starting pretty late, at age 30). Ring wise, he's obviously still green, but he's got the look, charisma, and all the athletic credentials and WWF had signed him to a developmental deal before he even wrestled his first match (turns out he could never quite get the whole in-ring part down and he ended up quitting WWF because he didn't like the travel). As for Heidenreich, he's got the look but not as much charisma. Other notable names on the show: Luther Reigns, Rocky Romero, and Mike Knox. Interestingly enough, Christopher Daniels was the one running the show backstage. Jim Ross and Paul Bearer were also there, scouting talents. (This paragraph has just about the most eclectic list of names ever, from all different eras and promotions that would eventually go in all sorts of weird directions, all under the same roof for one show. 2001 was wild y'all).
WATCH: Samoa Joe vs. Tommy Dreamer - UPW 2001
  • Big Show did an interview recently talking about a few things. Regarding his recent stint in OVW, he said Jim Cornette would fine guys if faces and heels were having dinner together and would blow a gasket if they were even in the same place, like a bar or night club, even if they weren't socializing together. After the big Louisville Gardens 30th anniversary show awhile back, there was a big party in a private room at a night club that was closed off to the public and for that one night, Cornette reluctantly allowed the wrestlers to socialize and party together but he was still pissy about it because there was a door to the room where people in the public part of the club were hanging out and for those brief few seconds every now and then when the door was open, people outside could see inside and that drove Cornette bonkers. Classic. Also, in regards to the segment that was bleeped on TV a few weeks ago, Big Show said he called Kaientai a couple of "goofs" but the people in the truck misheard it and freaked out and bleeped it, which made everyone think he had used the other racial slur, but he swears he didn't.
  • Boxer Butterbean did an interview talking about his WM14 match with Bart Gunn. Butterbean said that Rock and Austin had a backstage bet on who was going to win. Austin was apparently foolish enough to pick Bart and needless to say, Rock won that bet. He also said back in 1998 that Vince McMahon had made him a huge offer (near 7 figures, although Dave says he finds that hard to believe, but then again, Butterbean was a huge cult star at the time) to come in as a full-time WWF wrestler. But Butterbean turned it down because he wanted to continue boxing (since he was already making big money doing that) and Vince's offer wouldn't allow that.
FRIDAY: NJPW holds a disastrous Fukuoka Dome show, WWF Insurrextion PPV fallout, WWF ratings in major decline, and more...
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2019.02.13 20:45 Complex_League I'm tired of porn/sex industry apologism

I'm tired of such blatantly evil things seemingly going entirely uncriticized within mainstream culture, or being supported. I'll source EVERY claim I make within this in the end, I'm tired of this cultminded bs. So this is going to be a rantful essay.
ALL evidence of "legal prostitution" points to it increasing human trafficking and damaging the livelihoods of the "Sex workers" [1] (fun fact, over 90% of women in prostitution state not wanting to be in it: there's an active movement speaking out against the term/s 'sex work/er'" [2])
On top of this, the damage being done to women/girls within the industry is being glossed over by the left, silencing distressed voices with "well its like flipping a burger, no one likes it but oh well." Seemingly both acknowledging that sex work does infact suck, but diminishing the act of being raped for a living to generic manual labor and telling those who complain to quit stepping out of line. WHY ARE WE OK WITH THIS? How is this "progressive"?
And why, in a culture so enamored with criticizing rape-culture, racism, and sexism, is porn excused?
The sole premise of pornography is to objectify women. Pornogrophers, heck even Heffner himself, are not even remotely apologetic in that BEING WHAT PORN IS ABOUT. [3]
But that isn't porn anymore; porn went from objectification to being straight up HATRED. Any front page result of any given pornsite is quasipedophilia, rape, incestual abuse, and so on. Even under the BS seemingly omniscient idea that its all "fantasy" (more on that in a bit), porn is still communicating a desire to rape and damage women, and to fetishize sex-based crimes and the lived traumatic events of the victims of them. ( I don't need to source this. Just turn of images on your browser and read the titles off front pages outloud to yourself.)
Back to the "fantasy" part: Consent hardly exists in porn. Its just not there. Contract breaches, manipulation, grooming, all account more for the "mainstream" porn than any gleeful consent. Again, this is coming straight from the horses mouth: If its not exited/retired "performers" stating this, its the porn producers themselves: Most of the time THE WOMEN DON'T WANT TO BE THERE. The CONSTANT out pour of performers detailing abuse and filmed rape seems to just go uncared for. [4]
Outside of the mainstream, videos uploaded ameteurly to pornhub in the like, well there is no regulation at all. Many, MANY girls trafficked in countries like Thailand, Brazil, Indonesia, etc have come forward saying that pimps have uploaded their videos onto mainstream pornsites, or that the Johns themselves have uploaded their session to them. [5] In watching amateur porn, there is 0 guarantee that consent is involved, far less so than that of the "regulated mainstream industry." Hell, there's an ENTIRE DOCUMENTARY on the BS of the glamorous "amateur" trade and how it doesn't escape ANY of the trappings of the industry. [6]
All psychological analysis on porn also points to it being demonstrably a bad thing; It doesn't even take frequent viewing of pornography to have noticeable effect. Effects range from: increasing sexually aggressive attitudes, being less sympathetic to rape or rape victims, desire continuously more perverse/violent material, become less attracted to one's partner, TO LITERALLY COMPARTMENTALIZING WOMEN AS "OBJECT", and it just goes on and on and on. [gonna mix em all up]
Screw it, my bloods boiling, I don't feel like engaging this anymore than I have to.
SOURCES:
[1] https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0305750X12001453 https://orgs.law.harvard.edu/lids/2014/06/12/does-legalized-prostitution-increase-human-trafficking/
[2] https://www.researchgate.net/publication/254381847_Prostitution_and_Trafficking_in_Nine_Countries http://www.prostitutionresearch.com/pdf/Prostitutionin9Countries.pdf
[3] https://www.independent.co.uk/voices/hugh-hefner-dead-death-playboy-mansion-bunny-women-misogynist-predatory-enemy-a7972046.html
[4] loudly breaths in https://66.media.tumblr.com/beef6670d30d3eca83fd290adb92324b/tumblr_ng1l2aXRPl1qeh4t2o2_1280.jpg
https://66.media.tumblr.com/9f6ceb08f8db9070a35ef8c6a750d1e5/tumblr_ng1l2aXRPl1qeh4t2o4_1280.jpg
https://66.media.tumblr.com/1d35258aa7a7f8965f1df0fec9d10293/tumblr_ng1l2aXRPl1qeh4t2o5_1280.jpg
https://66.media.tumblr.com/1d71899f39b26fe1e8df3a1683ee9d77/tumblr_ng1l2aXRPl1qeh4t2o7_1280.jpg
https://66.media.tumblr.com/9a275bf9f0c3625001c554e9d2caed13/tumblr_ng1l2aXRPl1qeh4t2o8_1280.jpg
https://66.media.tumblr.com/22c8e50474e4893cbc9de9d02f0551d7/tumblr_ng1l2aXRPl1qeh4t2o9_1280.jpg
[4 but this time from the producers' perspective]
https://78.media.tumblr.com/b0a2f3afd205d580eaf651d78e0396ff/tumblr_ng1la2btOE1qeh4t2o9_r1_1280.jpg
https://78.media.tumblr.com/73227f99cccf1ab508241a637a9d7cd8/tumblr_ng1la2btOE1qeh4t2o10_r1_1280.jpg
[5] http://humantraffickingsearch.org/the-connection-between-sex-trafficking-and-pornography/
https://fightthenewdrug.org/tricked-into-porn-countless-japanese-actresses-forced-to-have-sex-on-camera/
[6] Hot Girls Wanted
[The Great Porn Research Mash Up] https://66.media.tumblr.com/0a0e9905d70407f3279442a1e5204863/tumblr_inline_pe2svk2Gp11rmd8mn_1280.png https://66.media.tumblr.com/c0c6350699582c0f944d28f0b42ee625/tumblr_inline_pe2svtzmp11rmd8mn_640.png https://66.media.tumblr.com/e19b639736d8fa5d23fb6d8fdbd1e662/tumblr_inline_pe2suxFg6S1rmd8mn_1280.png https://66.media.tumblr.com/236a4a6a76aa8f949502aa6c98cf294a/tumblr_inline_pe2svbtOwI1rmd8mn_1280.png
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2019.01.04 18:01 daprice82 Wrestling Observer Rewind ★ Sept. 25, 2000

Going through old issues of the Wrestling Observer Newsletter and posting highlights in my own words. For anyone interested, I highly recommend signing up for the actual site at f4wonline and checking out the full archives.
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  • The Delaware Supreme Court ruled against the USA Network in their appeal to prevent WWF from accepting the Viacom deal. The decision makes it official that WWF is moving to TNN next week and ends the 17-year WWF/USA relationship. The appeal process has been lingering for over a month and because of it, USA, Viacom, WWF and ECW were all pretty much paralyzed and waiting to see how things turn out. But now that it's all finalized, ECW's final TNN show will air on 9/22 and the first Raw on TNN will air on 9/25. It doesn't give Viacom much of an opportunity to promote the move. They had set aside $7 million to promote Raw's TNN debut but because of the lingering court proceedings, they kept having to delay it and now there's almost no time. On Raw's final show on USA, Jim Ross mentioned repeatedly that this was the last episode on the network and plugged the move to TNN (and hyping that Austin will be there live). But that's pretty much it so far. During the next few days, you can expect Viacom to bombard all media outlets with as much promotion as they can cram into the short amount of time, but it's going to be impossible to promote it as much as they'd hoped to. And considering they're moving from the #1 rated network to the #15 rated network, they need all the promotion they can get.
  • Needless to say, this all gives WCW a golden opportunity to put their best foot forward for Nitro on 9/25 and hopefully gain some much-needed ground (in case you're want spoilers for next week, Russo uses this opportunity to make himself the WCW champion). In the short run, Raw's ratings will almost certainly fall, but in the long-run, being with Viacom is going to be hugely beneficial to WWF. As for ECW, this opens the door for them to continue negotiations with USA. They desperately need a TV deal, on a strong network, and most importantly, they need outside financial support if they are going to survive. Having a TV deal is useless if you can't afford the production costs. As mentioned last week, ECW missed payroll and has had to cancel several house shows due to the financial crunch they're under.
  • Also this week, TNN announced that it's renaming itself The National Network (instead of The Nashville Network) and will be moving its base of operations from Nashville to New York. They're planning to debut a new logo and target their programming to a more diverse audience. Dave recaps the history of WWF on the USA Network, dating back to 1982 when they aired monthly WWF MSG shows. Then WWF got a weekly show called All-American Wrestling on the network in 1983, which then became Prime Time Wrestling and Tuesday Night Titans, the creation of Raw in 1993, the Monday night wars, and now to this.
  • There was a frightening moment at WCW's Fall Brawl PPV with Paul Orndorff suffering a stinger that left him motionless in the ring. The good news is that it was only temporary paralysis. He was treated and released from the hospital that same night. It was reminiscent of the injuries suffered by Droz and Buff Bagwell in recent years, but fortunately for Orndorff, it didn't end up being as bad. There was immediate suspicion that the whole thing was a work, which Dave thinks is a pretty sad reflection of WCW these days. When Orndorff went down, everyone else in the match basically panicked and continued working the match on the other side of the ring, taking bumps that kept jarring the ring, all while the EMTs and trainer were trying to tend to Orndorff. Finally, almost 2 minutes after he collapsed, referee Charles Robinson finally took charge and ordered the match stopped. The match was scheduled to go several more minutes and run-ins were scheduled, but it all got scrapped when Robinson ended it. The injury happened when Orndorff tried to piledrive Mark Jindrak but Jindrak didn't go up correctly for the move. Orndorff had to deadweight lift him and when he did so, his hamstring went out. He completed the piledriver but landed awkwardly, causing something with his neck and spine to jam up and that was it. Dave talks about Orndorff's health problems over the year, specifically his arm injury that caused his right arm to atrophy severely and never recover. He retired twice before due to health issues (87 and 94) only to return both times when he probably shouldn't have. (This was his final match for 17 years. But it looks like he came out of retirement last year and worked a 6-man tag match at an indie show in Canada. But otherwise, this Fall Brawl match was the end of the road for Orndorff).
WATCH: Paul Orndorff injury at Fall Brawl 2000
  • This whole thing brings up questions about Nitro this week, which has a match scheduled between Booker T and Vince Russo. Just a few weeks ago, Russo suffered a concussion during an angle and has been dealing with headaches and such ever since, and it's probably not a good idea for him to be in the ring. They could probably work around it, but Dave thinks it's bad enough to have untrained people in there doing moves anyway, much less ones who are already injured. Dave notes the recent example of Kurt Angle wrestling on Smackdown 2 days after getting severely concussed at Summerslam, which he never should have done and led to him getting another concussion because you're always more susceptible to further concussions during the period after suffering one. Russo has openly claimed to have had 3 concussions in the last year and has only worked about 6 matches. If that's true, he probably shouldn't be in there taking bumps again. But maybe they'll book something safe that doesn't require it. Either way, Dave is just concerned about the overall safety of all these guys.
  • Oh yeah, other notes from Fall Brawl: crowd was 8,600 although only about half of that (4,311) was paid, the rest were freebies. Dave notes all the excitement people in WCW had last week when the Nitro rating was higher than usual, and points out how it obviously didn't mean dick when it comes to ticket sales. TV ratings are nice but it's a vanity metric. The real numbers that matter are the ones that make money. Ticket sales and PPV buys. And, well, those are still horrible. There was a guy in the crowd facing the hard cam who was seen constantly throughout the show wearing a Destroyer mask. Destroyer was a famous wrestler back in 60s and 70s who wore a red and white mask. Anyway....turns out that was the real Destroyer (real name Dick Beyer), just sitting in the crowd at a WCW PPV at 70 years old, still doing his old gimmick. Kevin Nash cut a promo earlier on the pre-show claiming he was hungover from hanging out at the bar last night and essentially telegraphing that he was going to lose his match (he did). Right after the Orndorff match, Shane Douglas cut a pre-match promo saying Kidman would be joining Paul Orndorff at the hospital. Even his partner Torrie Wilson seemed to drop her TV smile and give him a "what an asshole" look for that one. The scaffold for the scaffold match was way wider than any other ones before and the area underneath was padded and safe, but Torrie still seemed legitimately terrified up there. After Madusa took a bump off the scaffold (which the crowd booed because it was clearly gimmicked for safety), the announcers also tried to compare her injuries to Orndorff's injury earlier in the night. Dave is just disgusted. Torrie never took a bump off the scaffold, which was the original plan but she refused, and good for her Dave says. It would have meant nothing for the match anyway. Negative 1 star. They did a segment with David Flair beating up a mailman in his yard and Dave says the whole segment was actually hilarious and more interestingly, it was all David Flair's idea. ICP did commentary on Vampiro's match again, which once again was funny. Mike Awesome came out with former child actor Gary Coleman. There's been a lot of news stories lately about Coleman working as a security guard for $6 an hour these days, so at least WCW probably didn't have to spend a lot to get him. Naturally, he got involved in the match and it was hilarious because he knew he was going to take a guitar shot from Jarrett. So he had a hat on with a towel folded up in it to cushion the blow. But during the chaos, his hat got knocked off. So just before the guitar shot, he picked up his hat, calmly put the towel back in, put it back on, and took the hit. Goldberg vs. Scott Steiner was a shockingly good match and Dave gives it 4.25 stars. And of course, Booker T won the title from Nash in the main event.
WATCH: Fall Brawl 2000 highlights
  • We get the usual long obituary for Professor Toru Tanaka, one of the biggest heels of the 60s and 70s, who died at age 70 in California. Dave recaps his career and of course, he was a Hawaiian who got booked as a typical salt throwing Japanese heel. Worked for WWWF feuding with Sammartino, won titles in all the territories, etc. He also tells an interesting story from 1977 when Pat Patterson returned to the San Francisco territory after being gone for 8 months and was supposed to face Mr. Fuji in a show that ended up drawing 12,000 people. But Fuji had a falling out with promoter Roy Shire and left the territory 2 weeks before the match. So Shire brought in Tanaka and put him under a mask and tried to pass him off as the real Fuji. The crowd didn't buy it and the media got ahold of the story and started claiming fraud and the athletic commission got involved. Shire nearly lost his promoter's license but he claimed he didn't know and thought it was the real Fuji under the mask. Tanaka and Shire were both fined but the commission seemed to buy the story (others backed it up to protect Shire) and let them off with just the fine. The real Fuji caught all the heat and was legitimately banned by the commission for life from wrestling in California, but that was overturned in 1984.
  • The current plan for AJPW's Triple Crown title is to hold a tournament soon, which is expected to be won by Toshiaki Kawada, who will then defend the title against NJPW champion Sasaki in a title vs. title match at the Jan. 4th Tokyo Dome show. And the plan from there is for Kawada to get the surprising win, since most people don't expect NJPW to book their champion to lose to AJPW's champion. But the way Riki Choshu (NJPW booker) sees it, AJPW is pretty much doomed and he's not too concerned about them as competition anymore, and he's well aware that this inter-promotional feud is the only thing keeping AJPW alive right now. But there's still money in an AJPW/NJPW feud and they want to prolong it, so Kawada will have to win. The idea is to keep Kawada strong because NJPW loves the gimmick of a strongly booked outsider coming in and shaking things up. In the past, that person has been Naoya Ogawa but Choshu is tired of the headache that comes with dealing with Antonio Inoki and Ogawa because Inoki is intent on making Ogawa an unbeatable superman and NJPW can never get him to put anyone over. Choshu is pretty much trying to do anything he can to get Inoki's influence as far away from the company as possible. So the idea is to keep Kawada strong and milk this angle for all it's worth.
  • New Jersey Governor Christine Todd Whitman officially signed into law the bill to regulate so-called "extreme wrestling." The bill bans children under 18 from attending extreme wrestling shows. It also adds an athletic commission tax to promotions running extreme shows, mandates an ambulance and 2 doctors must be on hand at every event, and even though it's a state law, the city officials where the show is to be held must specifically give permission for the event. This bill doesn't affect ECW, which was categorized as one of the 3 major companies which are exempt from the law. The bill is a not-so-subtle effort to drive Jersey All Pro Wrestling and Combat Zone Wrestling specifically out of the state, JAPW in particular. They're planning to still run shows but will be forced to get rid of bladejobs, no more light tubes or thumb tacks or barbed wire, etc. JAPW owner Frank Iadeavia has said they are considering legal action. But at this point, if they want to continue to run shows as they have, they're going to be forced to leave the state of New Jersey to do so.
  • Raw did well in the ratings again, facing stiff competition from the Olympics and Monday Night Football. But they had one segment that was a major bomb. Mick Foley came out, cutting a promo once again trying to get George W. Bush and Al Gore to appear on Smackdown for a debate. The segment was right before the main event and caused a full 700,000 homes to change the channel, which is an unheard of drop for a Raw episode. That led to the Rock/Undertaker main event that followed to be the lowest rated Raw main event of the year.
  • The Wrestling Observer Hotline has been officially killed off. 1-900 hotline numbers have been dying anyway and the numbers were down and Dave says more importantly, he needed to stop because he's so busy with the newsletter and the Eyada online radio show and wants to concentrate fully on those and the daily hotline stuff took up too much time.
  • Motoko Baba threatened a lawsuit against Nippon TV over their decision to drop AJPW and start airing NOAH instead, and due to the lawsuit, NOAH currently isn't airing on NTV, which is a major blow for the fledgling new company. In the meantime, Misawa has started negotiations with TV Tokyo, which is another one of the major networks in Japan.
  • Former WWF and ECW wrestler Nicole Bass made headlines after being arrested in New York after getting into an argument with someone on a street corner. It turned into a fight and when the police tried to break it up, she allegedly bit one of the cops. Bass was one of several people arrested.
  • Notes from OVW: Jim Ross did announcing on some of the shows there this week, because he was down there scouting talent. Shelton Benjamin is showing a lot of promise and Jim Cornette says Benjamin is progressing even faster than Kurt Angle and believes he's guaranteed to be a big star. Brock Lesnar still hasn't debuted on TV there yet but Bob Orton's son Randy Orton recently did. They're also strongly pushing Leviathan (real name Dave Bautista) and Jim Cornette predicts he will headline Wrestlemania within the next 5 years. (yup, exactly 5 years later in fact)
  • Ed Farhat, better known as The Sheik, is said to be in very grave condition. He's down to 150 pounds and can only communicate through blinking his eyes or lightly squeezing if you hold his hand (he ended up living another 2+ years after this. His Wikipedia page says he was working with a biographer and did extensive interviews before he died, with plans to have a book on his life released. But it says the interviews "provided a highly explosive look" into the business and as a result, the interviews and draft of the book were sealed at the time of his death and to this day it's never been released. Interesting. When I originally wrote this up a few months ago, I tweeted Dave about this and he responded saying he didn't know anything about it either. I'd love to find out more.)
  • The latest revival of Stampede Wrestling is in bad shape. They have no more shows scheduled and have only done 10 shows in the last few months. Their TV show has been airing old tapes rather than new episodes lately.
  • Ken Shamrock broke his silence on his recent PRIDE loss to Kazuyuki Fujita. Shamrock pretty much blamed himself and admitted he wasn't in proper shape to fight and said things happened which contributed to him not having time to train properly (he doesn't go into detail but I think Dave mentioned something in an earlier Observer but I can't find it right now. But I think Shamrock was going through some personal shit around this time. Something like a divorce or a custody battle or something. That doesn't get mentioned here, it's just something I vaguely remember reading awhile back, I might be wrong).
  • Nobuhiko Takada has announced he's going to face Igor Vovchanchyn at next month's PRIDE show and that if he doesn't win, he'll retire. Takada had a reputation as a shoot fighter from his years as the founder and star of UWFi, which was a worked shoot promotion. But then he started doing real shoots and it's been bad news ever since, including 2 high profile losses to Rickson Gracie. He's had a couple of wins, but they were worked matches. His real MMA fights have all been losses and Dave says the real fighters in PRIDE have pretty much no respect for Takada as an actual fighter. He doesn't like Takada's chances next month (indeed, Takada gets punched into submission in the 2nd round. But he still didn't retire).
  • Notes from Nitro: the building was mostly full, with not that many freebies. But only because it was a small arena that only holds about 5,000 people. It was also in Canada and the crowd was pretty much only there to see Lance Storm (who ended up jobbing to Jim Duggan in an undercard match) and Bret Hart (who wasn't there at all). They hated Goldberg with a passion, probably due to the Hart stuff, and booed him mercilessly.
  • On his personal website, Mark Madden apologized to Lou Thesz for his comment on Nitro last week where he joked that Lou Thesz beats up women. Madden said he was only joking and that he has a ton of respect for Thesz.
  • Pamela Paulshock apparently injured her ankle doing an angle on Thunder last week. Dave thinks it's bad enough when they have untrained wrestlers in there getting hurt, but now untrained ring announcers are getting hurt too.
  • WCW is pitching an angle for Vampiro to team with singer Billy Idol in a feud against Mike Awesome and David Cassidy, of Partridge Family fame (Never happened but.....yeah. That was a thing evidently).
  • Dave only has a couple of thoughts on this week's Thunder: he begs someone in WCW to PLEASE send Major Gunns to get acting lessons. He also wants someone to save Mike Awesome from a gimmick worse than the Red Rooster. And finally, I guess there's been a lot of commercials for the new Meet The Parents movie and Dave thinks it looks funny.
  • Various WCW notes: DDP is likely being brought back soon, though Kimberly won't be. Nitro Girl Spice was released. She was being groomed to co-host WCW's Saturday morning show, but then the show got canned and they didn't have anything else for her. And after being world champion for a couple of months, WCW has finally decided to start making some Booker T merch. Seems like a good idea to finally get around to. The Harris Twins taped segments for both the Maury Povich and Jenny Jones shows, no word on what they are or when they'll air. Goldberg will be on an episode of The Daily Show this week. Gene Okerlund is expected to be given a grumpy old man gimmick where he swears a lot.
  • Next month might be a surprisingly good month for WCW ticket wise. They have shows in Australia that are expected to do big numbers because Australia is so starved for wrestling that even WCW can do big business there. And they have a PPV in Las Vegas which will do good because the casinos are buying up a lot of tickets to give away.
  • Kevin Nash and Scott Steiner are reportedly being total team players right now, because there's concern that a regime change could come at any time (a lot of people are pushing for Johnny Ace to replace Vince Russo) and they're basically being on their best behavior until they see who their next new boss might be. The only person right now who's really stirring up shit is Goldberg, who is said to be openly pissed about pretty much everything and isn't shy about expressing it (yeah, even Goldberg has since admitted that he was frustrated and probably wasn't very pleasant to be around back then).
  • Scott Hall is expected to return to Nitro next week. Brad Siegel reportedly gave up on fighting with Nash about it and is willing to bring Hall back. Siegel and Hall spoke last week and Hall was basically told this is his last chance and if he fucks up one time, he's gone for good. Of course, Scott Steiner has been told that a dozen times in the past, so you know how that goes (Hall doesn't end up coming back. Not sure if it fell through or Dave got bad info or what, but it never happens).
  • They held a Miss WCW Pageant in Las Vegas last week with Carrot Top as one of the judges and of course there was a bikini contest. Nitro Girl Chae ended up winning over Torrie Wilson, Major Gunns, Baby, Chiquita, Midajah and Stacy Keibler. Pamela Paulshock was supposed to be in it but no-showed due to her ankle injury (there's some good catty drama coming out of this in the next week or two).
  • So the deal with Konnan is....pretty messed up, actually. He had tricep surgery a few months ago and has no business back in the ring yet. But WCW cut his paycheck in half so....he came back and he's wrestling. But here's the problem. The doctors still haven't given him a medical release yet because, well, they're doctors and he's still fucked up. They're like, "Dude...no." Anyway, because he doesn't have his medical release, WCW is still only giving him half his pay. But they're still allowing him to wrestle. He's hoping to get a medical release this week so he can start getting full checks again. Dave just thinks this whole policy is so screwed up on so many ways.
  • Disqo Inferno has been bringing out some plastic duck to the ring called the Disqo Duck. (I should stop for a second and explain something for the younger readers. R&B singer Sisqo had a HUGE hit called "Thong Song" around this time and WCW, in their infinite wisdom, capitalized by changing the spelling of Disco to Disqo.) Anyway, the duck is fucking stupid and apparently at Nitro this week, Konnan literally handcuffed himself to the duck backstage to try and keep Disqo Inferno from taking it out to the ring. Someone had to try to save him from himself.
  • Jeremy Borash will be doing announcing at this week's Thunder tapings. Dave says there's a lot of heat here because Borash is close to Vince Russo, so he's getting a lot of chances to do things like commentary even though he hasn't really earned it yet and hasn't shown any real aptitude for it. Dave says if Borash ends up replacing one of the main announcers on Nitro, there'll probably be a meltdown.
  • Steve Austin and Debra got married last week in Las Vegas (fun fact: same wedding chapel Triple H and a drugged out Stephanie McMahon got married in. Funner fact: also the same wedding chapel I got married in).
  • The plan for Sunday Night Heat, now that it's moving to MTV, is for it to be more of a humor and skit type show, with a lot of Tom Green-style humor (oh man, 2000 was such a weird time). They want to bring in musical guests and celebrities for it and will do a lot of the stuff from the WWF New York restaurant as well as at MTV's Times Square headquarters.
  • Notes from Raw: a lot of the show was built around trying to seemingly bury Kurt Angle, by turning him into a goofy heel character and implying that he's gay. They showed a lot of footage of him crying at the Olympics and had Triple H make fun of him and all that stuff. Dave thinks it's a pretty weird thing to do one week before the biggest match of Angle's career (he's got a No DQ match with Triple H at next week's PPV) and sure didn't do him any favors for people taking him seriously. Hugh Hefner was on to plug Chyna's upcoming Playboy appearance and Dave thinks it's nice that Playboy and WWF could come together again in the interest of making money after all the nasty legal issues they had with the Sable fallout. And finally, Steve Regal debuted.
  • Since we were talking about WCW's injury policy, Dave decides to let us know what WWF's policy is. A WWF wrestler that is out with an injury receives their downside guarantee. WWF contracts give you a guarantee (say, $300,000 per year for example) but you can make a lot more money on the road because everyone gets a cut of house show gates and PPV revenue and whatnot. So if you're injured and not on the road, you won't get all that extra money, but you still make the $300,000 guarantee. Of course, that leads to the same incentive for guys to sometimes come back before they're ready, because they're losing money by being at home, but from everyone who talks to Dave, there's not nearly as much pressure from the WWF to hurry up and come back as there is in WCW.
  • Various WWF notes: Big Boss Man will be out for a few weeks after having his knee scoped. Grand Master Sexay needed 14 stitches in his ear after getting legit cut from the belt shot on Raw. Tori should be back in Oct. or early November after shoulder surgery. Billy Gunn should be back in a few weeks. Road Dogg's wife had surgery for a collapsed lung so he's out tending to her. Davey Boy Smith was in a motorcycle accident last week and Dave says if you know how many times Smith has been in and out of the hospital this year, it would scare you to death.
  • Four different wrestling promotions have videos in the Billboard Top 20 charts....and none of them are WCW. Of course, WWF is all over the charts with their various releases taking up 12 of the 20 spots. ECW has videos at #5 and #7. XPW, which currently isn't running new shows and doesn't even have a building to run shows in right now, has videos at #12 and #19. And Insane Clown Posse's JCW promotion has a video at #13. All that, but no WCW.
  • Kurt Angle and Taka Michinoku worked a UPW show in California along with a few other WWF developmental signees who started out at the UPW school (I decided to look it up and see who else of note worked that show: Franie Kazarian, Simon Dean, Rocky Romero, Mike Knox, Vic Grimes, Christopher Daniels, Samoa Joe, and John Cena were all on the card. 2000/2001-era UPW had a ton of future stars come through the doors).
  • One of the XFL teams is already moving before it even starts. The San Jose Demons have now been renamed the San Francisco Demons and will be playing in San Fran after negotiations with Spartan Stadium in San Jose fell apart. Dave thinks it might be a bad move. San Jose is a wealthier community with a large population and their hockey and soccer franchises do huge business. San Francisco already has a major team in every sport and he doesn't know if a B-level football team is going to draw as well there as it would have in San Jose. He also notes that in the spring, the weather is a lot warmer in San Jose at night than it is in San Francisco, and California isn't exactly the type of place where people want to sit out in the cold weather at night and watch football games. This isn't Green Bay or Chicago where freezing to death for football is almost a tradition (the cities are, like, an hour apart so I can't imagine the weather is that much different? Although I guess San Francisco is right there on the bay so maybe wind? I dunno. Anyone from the area care to chime in?)
  • A New York newspaper reported that Vince McMahon tried to stop VH1 from airing an episode of "The List" because the show featured appearances by Kevin Nash, Booker T, Scott Steiner, Sting, and other WCW stars. VH1 is owned by Viacom, which now owns 3% of WWF's stock and McMahon decided to try to throw his weight around and get the episode canned. Didn't work and it actually was one of the highest rated episodes of the show ever. But he did succeed in getting VH1 to agree to not air reruns of that episode. A WWF spokesman responded to the story, saying, "It is highly unlikely that took place. It's not something we would do." But of course, you'll note that they didn't outright deny it and the idea that Vince McMahon wouldn't do something like that is laughable since he has a long history of doing exactly that sort of thing.
  • The Slam! Wrestling website wrote an article criticizing the WWF policy of not allowing wrestlers to do interviews with other websites without company approval because they see all other websites as competition to their own WWF.com site. The article noted they had an interview with Gerald Brisco awhile back and Brisco told them he could talk freely about his pre-WWF years but if it has to do with WWF, he'd have to clear it with the office. Jim Ross responded on his WWF website column, saying not a single interview request has come across their desk from any other wrestling websites. Dave talks about when the policy was put in place and says WWF told him he could still get anyone he wanted to interview on the Observer website, but he would need to go through the office first. Since that time, Dave says he's talked to wrestlers who agreed to appear, but when he tried to get it cleared by the office, it stalled and has been pending approval ever since with no answer sooooooo......
  • WWF is wanting Big Show to drop down to 400 pounds. At his heaviest in WCW he was 505 and currently weighs a legit 480.
  • Someone writes in with a conspiracy theory. He thinks Shane McMahon's death-defying fall from the TitanTron at Summerslam was done to prove a point given the upcoming Owen Hart wrongful death lawsuit, with the idea being that the WWF side can point to it as an example that, "See! Even Vince McMahon's son is sometimes asked to perform stunts like this and they're usually done safely." Dave responds, saying that normally he'd think that's reading too much into things. But the day after Summerslam, several people in WWF as well as a couple of legal experts he talked to all had basically the same theory and said they wouldn't be surprised if it gets brought up in the trial. But time will tell, Dave says.
  • Dave Lagana writes in, talking his experience working on "Friends" and talking about how most TV shows are written by writing teams and how stories are crafted in TV writing rooms and so on and so forth. Basically, it leads to the one big question every writer, booker, and performer should ask themselves: how will the audience react to the long-term story? Not how loud the momentary pop is or how much you were able to swerve the audience with a surprise that doesn't make any sense, etc. The point he's trying to make is that Vince Russo is doing literally everything wrong and he has no idea how to write television. He's also pretty fed up with Russo's constant everything-is-a-shoot booking, where they openly acknowledge scripts and bookers and shit in every segment. He's not the only one.
  • Lots of letters talking about what a total trainwreck WCW is. Russo isn't the only problem. From management to marketing, the ball is being dropped everywhere. None of the stories are coherent. Characters change gimmicks or go from face to heel from week-to-week with no explanation, fans have no idea what's happening. Wrestlers themselves are out of control backstage. Merchandising is dead. Basically, the ship is sinking and the worst part is that nobody seems to care. Everyone is just drilling more holes in the ship. Even when they luck into something that works, they always manage to fuck it up immediately. So there's all that. But also, a lot of piling on Russo from a lot of people who think he's killing the company.
MONDAY: Raw debuts on TNN, Steve Austin returns, ECW not yet cancelled on TNN after all, WWF Unforgiven fallout, and more...
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2018.10.21 21:06 Eric_eats_a_Banana Motive To Kill, Motive To Frame, Motive To Represent

This post is probably a bit redundant now, with Part 2 having come out and some great recent posts by other users but I had most of it written up so thought I'd post it anyway.
 

Motive To Kill

 
Steven Avery
Steven was about to become a multi-millionaire, people will say he wouldn't have got the full 36 million, that is probably true, but that is assuming more damning information didn't come out in more depositions and cross checking of facts prior to any trial being arranged. So whilst it's possible the claim would have been quite a bit less than 36 million, it's equally possible it could've gotten a lot closer to it with new information. Regardless, he was soon to be a multi-millionaire, there can be no argument about that. Are there examples of rich people committing murder? Definitely there are, but did they have a privileged or at least financially stable or normal life before they became rich and committed murder? I'd say in the majority of cases they did. How many rich people that committed murder had a very poor life becoming rich and then a murderer, how many had spent 18 years in prison and were living in an ice shack before becoming rich and then committing a murder? My point is, how many rich people, became rich when they had nothing and never had a decent life before that and then threw everything away by committing a murder?
 
Let's explore the sexual and violent sides of the Steven Avery argument. Steven was in a relationship, he was in love with Lori in my opinion, he had also stopped drinking to lessen any chance alcohol on his part could add problems to his life. Jodi was in jail, but it wasn't going to be a long term thing and so he knew she would be back in his life fairly soon.
 
Steven's interest in porn seems very minimal. No internet searches for porn, with none deleted, after a forensic examination of his computer. A very, very old Playboy magazine, possibly a Hustler and he had watched some porn through his direct TV service. It's safe to say the type of porn you would be able to receive through the TV service would have been very standard stuff, especially in 2005, it would be nothing niche. Even if he was sexually frustrated and was sick of Jodi (there's zero evidence of this) he could potentially make himself Wisconsin's answer to Hugh Hefner, build a mini mansion and have different escorts every night, not to mention his new found wealth would potentially attract women with ulterior motives who would be willing to show him a good time thinking they may have hit the jackpot. Again I say, would he really throw this chance away?
 
Guilters will use Steven's letter to Lori where he threatens the kids, they always screenshot this letter, but they never include the fact that Lori wrote first and mentioned harm to the kids, Steven was replying, neither of them look good in this exchange, but it's clear to see it was done out of frustration of their respective situations, one of them on the outside struggling with the kids, one on the inside struggling without them all.
 
Domestic violence: There are allegations of domestic violence against Steven, some are more credible than others. You also have to look at when these allegations were made, some of the most negative statements against Steven in CASO (assuming Dedering hasn't just fabricated them) come at a time when the media and LE had painted him as a monster, personally I believe it is human nature to want to distance yourself from someone like that, perhaps expand a story that is only partially true, you see it all the time in statements in criminal cases. Having said that, I'm not giving Steven a pass here, do I think at stages in his life he was possibly capable of domestic violence? Yes I think he was. However, how much of that was the shock at being in prison for 18 years when you knew you were innocent and how much is it being put in prison at such a young age and only having male role models in their who may have a negative view of women, even if it was just an act to impress people? Don't think for 1 minute I'm minimising Domestic Violence, I have previously mentioned I witnessed my Dad beat my mother severely before raping her when I was 9 years old, he didn't become a murderer, he committed suicide instead a few months later, which I also saw the end results of. I understand that people who have experienced or have experience of domestic violence will see these claims about Steven and it will perhaps be enough for them to assume he is capable of murder, many women who have suffered this horrible type of incident have extreme trouble trusting men again and rightly so, but it is my opinion the connection to murder is simply not there in this case.
 
To tie all of the above together, Even if we stupidly ignore the fact he was about to become a multi-millionaire and in my opinion he wouldn't have thrown that chance away, I do not see an 'anger' issue with Steven that would make him commit a murder. Did he even once look angry during all the media interviews? When he hugged Penny? Even when the media came to his trailer when Teresa was missing? I do not believe Steven has the acting skills with all the media attention in the months before the murder around him that his mask wouldn't have slipped at some point if he was that 'angry' with the world.
 
Steven has never been accused by any female he has just picked up in a bar or had a quick casual fling with of any violence. Only those that have had an established relationship with him over a period of time have made any allegations, no strangers have ever alleged anything.
 
But the final most important point I'd like to make is that in cases of murder 70%-80% of those killed are murdered by somebody they Know. There is an important distinction to make here somebody they know is not the same as somebody they know of.
 
Somebody they know is;
  • A current or former lover
  • A family member
  • A current or former friend
  • A current or former business partner
  • A current or former work colleague
Basically it is someone with an established relationship that has devloped over time and involves or has involved regular contact with the victim, even if this is only observing them regularly at work or meeting them a few times a month for a coffee etc.
 
Somebody they know of Steven falls in to this category, if asked prior to the murder, assuming he remembered her name, he would probably say something like "Teresa is that girl who works for auto-trader, she's photographed a few vehicles for me". Teresa might have said "Steven Avery has been in the news, he was recently freed from prison after spending time in prison for a crime he didn't commit, I've actually photographed a few vehicles for him". I believe prior to October 31st Steven had seen Teresa 5 times at ASY, as you can see from the re-enactment video and from witness statements their exchanges are very brief, less than 5 minutes, not even time for the type of small talk you might have with your hairdresser. There was no evidence Steven ever saw or spoke to Teresa outside of vehicle photo shoots.
 
Conclusion: Steven did not know Teresa, he just knew of her, through some brief appointments at ASY, just 5 of them lasting a few minutes which took place over several months. Steven has never had even an allegation of any violence by any stranger or someone he had known very briefly. Steven had given up drinking, wanted to marry Jodi was in love and was about to become a multi-millionaire. Steven had no motive to commit this murder.
 
 
Ryan Hillegas
Ryan was of course Teresa's boyfriend for several years during what I believe was their college years. Not a great deal is known about their relationship, however Tom Pearce, who was Teresa's former mentor (as he puts it) and who she shared the studio with believes Teresa had been in an abusive relationship during that period in her life and that he believed Ryan was the one who had been that abusive partner. In Teresa's email to her friend, which isn't that too far away from her murder she describes knowing Ryan was checking her out, this is in 2005, many, many years after the relationship had ended. Teresa had clearly moved on, but had Ryan? There is also a reported fight between Ryan and the next person I shall mention in the lead up to Halloween, was Ryan also jealous?
 
Bradley Czech
Bradley was a DJ and he and his wife at the time had employed Teresa to do some boudoir photography, at some point in time Teresa began a sexual relationship with Bradley and was also named in the eventual divorce between Bradley and his wife. There is an audio file of someone calling dispatch more than once when Teresa goes missing, the caller is clearly disturbed that Bradley could be involved because he has a history of violence. If the reported fight with Ryan is correct you have two people who have been reported as violent or abusive, who have had a sexual relationship with Teresa and who may have feelings of jealously or animosity towards Teresa.
 
Scott Bloedorn
Scott was of course Teresa's room-mate and had also according to statements been intimate with Teresa at least once. In Teresa's email to her friend she described Scott as a "pig" and that she was avoiding him, a motive for Scott could have been a heated argument that got out of hand.
 
Ryan, Scott and Bradley knew Teresa intimately, they also knew her socially and saw each other outside of anything to do with her photography. All three of these men had a greater motive for killing Teresa as they were still in Teresa social/home life at times and she had sexual relations with all three. I think it's safe to say Scott didn't kill her as KZ states Teresa did not make it home to put the planner there, KZ also cleared Bradley Czech quite some time ago. It is my personal opinion it is not Ryan, although I do believe he is involved with the RAV, however I definitely wouldn't rule him out as the murderer.
 
Bobby Dassey
Bobby Dassey is a sexual sadist in my opinion. "Sexual sadism disorder is the condition of experiencing sexual arousal in response to the extreme pain, suffering or humiliation of others." There are a lot of Bobby's internet searches you can discount or explain with a devil's advocate argument, I did a post on this a while ago. But importantly there are some you cannot discount or explain away. Guilters try and minimize his searches as "just porn" and "just gore like rotten.com", this is complete rubbish. I have previously said I very occasionally visit a gore website, mainly because of what I saw as a 9 year old and also because I'm interested in psychology and the mind of a criminal. I don't search the gore site I visit for a particular type of video, I just see what the latest ones are. Whilst there are various videos of different types of accidents, disasters and suicides, which will have men, women and children in them, the majority of videos feature men and teenage boys been killed by drug cartels, terrorists and lynching mobs. Bobby was limiting his gore and death searches to only females he wanted to see females dead, tortured, being raped and in pain. He was looking for items being forcibly being inserted in to vaginas to cause pain, not as some kind of stunt for the camera. The biggest type of searches you cannot discount or explain are those that show his interest in paedophilia nobody can watch a video of a child being sexually abused and raped, seeing the obvious pain and distress on the child's face and not know it is wrong and the child is being abused however in Bobby's case he was clearly sexually aroused by seeing such images, therefore I stand by my opinion of what he is. Bobby Dassey also liked to look at photos who resembled Teresa and had commented to Steven each time Teresa had previously been to ASY, saying "I see your girlfriend was over", I think it's fair to say Bobby had obviously noticed Teresa long before the October 31st appointment. The amount of internet searches was increasing in the lead up to the murder, including some throughout the morning of the murder. If anyone has a sexual urge or sexually deviant motive for the murder, it's Bobby Dassey.
 
 
A current or former member of local LE or the DOJ
This is best covered in my next section, Motive To Frame basically you take the motive to frame and you apply it to one member of LE/DOJ who let the situation regarding why they needed Avery locked up again get so intense in their head that they arranged for Teresa's murder, most likely via a third party. Cops have killed for far, far less and I'm not talking about whilst arresting or chasing a suspect, I'm talking about premeditated murder.
 

Motive To Frame

 
As we know Steven was suing Manitowoc County, Thomas Kocourek and Denis Vogel for a total of $36 million. Kocourek and Vogel were at risk financially individually, whilst the County was at risk financially collectively. A Guilter argument is nobody other than Kocourek and Vogel were personally liable so why would they risk committing a murder or framing someone for murder, just to save the County some money? There are several articles you can find that state Manitowoc County were in financial hardship in that period, there are also documents in the Civil Suit case record that clearly state the insurance companies for Manitowoc County would not pay out on their behalf if the civil suit uncovered deliberate misconduct. That is partly why we see a whitewash of an investigation in to the 1985 case by the DOJ and Peg L. There was no way that 'investigation' was ever going to find anything that would invalidate their insurance cover, because they knew financially the claim would have to come from the County budget, which they could not afford. As I said earlier, this is only going on the information we have up until the point the depositions were cancelled. In the last round of depositions, which you see in MaM, you can clearly see the panic in the faces of those being interviewed nothing there is edited, you can almost hear the sirens going off in the heads of those in front of the camera. It is my strong belief that the most damaging information for individuals and the County had yet to be discovered, that the information would be discovered when further interviews had taken place and that information had been cross checked with facts known from 1985 and since. I also strongly believe more defendants would have been added to the Civil Suit and that it would have been apparent the DOJ investigation findings were false and that the County would not have been covered by insurance, nor anyone else added to the Suit. All of this would mean job losses in various LE & DOJ departments & loss of pensions. Even those not directly involved in the 1985 case would be at risk because of what their colleagues had done who were involved, it would have required Manitowoc County and the DOJ to clean house by getting rid of anyone who could be associated with any wrongdoing, the implications of that are huge.
 
The above is mostly about financial losses, job and pension losses. I want to also look at the human nature side of why someone, or some people, would be motivated to frame Avery for murder. The fact is several people in the local community disliked the Avery's, some people hated them, a lot of that negative feeling was because of the way LE felt about the Avery's, Steven in particular, I have no doubt that some members of MTSO & The DOJ were more than happy to tell family and friends what a 'hardened' criminal Steven Avery was and that he was basically a 'disgusting' human being. Gossip, allegations, all of that stuff travels fast in the community, I'm sure most people bought the description of Steven that LE were happy to portray.
 
Fast forward to the Civil Suit, you now have the worst member of a 'trashy' family suing some of the people, with a strong possibility more to be added, who told the community this person was a disgusting person and who deserved to be in prison for a long time. The members of LE and their family and friends are about to be shown up as hypocrites and liars, by this 'trashy' man from a poor family. They are about to be exposed as corrupt members of a profession that is about truth and justice, knowingly and maliciously sending a man to prison for a crime he couldn't have committed. Cops, District Attorneys, all of these types of people can still be affected by basic human emotions that would provide the motivation to frame someone for a crime, jealously of the attention Avery was getting, their egos being fractured the community would know they were liars, anger that Avery was going to be rich and that he was going to get the last word, their reputation being tarnished forever in their own community with people they see everyday. That's if you ignore the potential job and pension losses, if you add the human nature motivation along wit the financial/job/pension motivation you can clearly see there would be several people who would be pushed in to doing something they wouldn't ordinarily do.
 
 

Motive To Represent

 
I already thought this about Kathleen Zellner but seeing her speak at length in Making A Murderer Part 2, really hammered it home for me, the passion and the words she used just cemented my opinion. Guilters say she only took this case for fame and money, but that statement doesn't add up on so many levels. The actual facts are;
  • She is already highly regarded in her field, she receives thousands of letters over the years of people begging for help. She gets to hand pick the cases that interest her, the ones she gets mad at the injustice of them. Therefore she does not need any 'fame'.
  • She nearly always takes cases pro bono, which means if she does not get the conviction overturned and win the civil suit it is highly unlikely she will see any money at all. Therefore to make money from the Avery case she would have to get the conviction overturned and win the resulting civil suit, if she achieves this it means Steven was innocent all along, not that she took the case for money! Regardless of that, if you take the lowest estimates of her % of the cases she has already won, she is already a millionaire at least, definitely not someone desperate for money.
  • She will not represent a guilty person. I realise that's an easy thing for a lawyer to say, but you could see how representing the serial killer Larry Eyler affected her. That shook her up, she didn't want to represent someone guilty like that again. It's clear that motivated her in to the hardest part of criminal law, wrongful convictions. As she says in part 2, Steven Avery would have to be stupid coming to her to prove his innocence if he was in fact guilty.
 
I have zero doubt in my mind she would have dropped Steven's case if she thought there was even a chance he was guilty. Kathleen Zellner is all about the truth she is all about justice. At this stage of her life with a decades old amazing reputation behind her, there is no way she would risk that on a guilty man, no way at all.
 
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2018.09.11 06:03 MenStandUnited Does Size Really Matter?

We all have basic instincts, that to eat, to discrete and survive. Every single of one of us (male or female) share basic qualities that makes us humans. Besides survival, which includes eating, shelter and logical thinking, all humans share a more animinalistic instinct, Sex.
Now to pretend that Sex is the same to males as it is to females is a massive fallacy we must debunk.
Most male's (especially today) are raised by porn; A fantasy world where there ultimate desires, whatever they may be, can be fulfilled. It's common to assume that most male's have been watching porn and masturbating since the age of at least twelve, many years before we're mature enough to understand the idea of sex and what goes where! But still, we have already seen Anal, threesomes, naked grandma's and so on....
Female's may watch porn and be active at masturbating from a younger age too, but it's certainly more likely that female's develop this behavior later on in life (late teen to twenties).
Also pornography in general is heavily engendered to entertain men more so then women.And from a very young age all men are being programmed to see women as sexual objects. Women who boasts amazing bodies and aren't timid to show it all!
Sex is a natural desire that exists in all species, but male's sexual desire is exploited from as soon as the young boy understands why his penis is erect!
From then on, that young boy with the erected penis will strive to relief himself of this urge everyday through watching porn; vicariously having sex with women through a screen. This is formulating a certain imagery in the young boy's mind. Implementing into his mind what sex looks like and feels like before actually experiencing it for himself. he has already built expectation and a certain standard.
Eventually, when the erect boy gets off certain age (let's presume late teens to early adulthood) fantasizing no longer does it for him. He's grown up (all the while praying that he would lose his virginity to his teacher or his hot aunt!) and now wants to experience the pleasure, the ultimate climax in real life. Much like all the men he's seen dominate women in the videos, and how he seen dominant male celebrities have women off all ages ready to give up a leg for a chance to be with him, he wants to become that dominant man (dominance is corespondent with testosterone which is corespondent with masculinity).
But what happens when that young boy has an average size to small penis? What happens when the boy looks nothing like the men he watches in porn or the celebrities that millions of young girls lose there voice screaming for? Is it okay to suppress his sexual desires because God made him this way? Is his desire for sex less important then a Hugh Hefner? according to society, Yes.
Men do not get sympathy is this world. Point blank.
Feminism is a wide branch of opinions and beliefs, any female from small, tall, fat, skinny, dark, light whatever, can be considered a feminist and a beautiful women (for the most part).
However a four foot man, with a two and a half inch penis, will not be considered masculine, not by his peers (other men) and more importantly, not by women (who are engineered to be subjected to male power). No matter how big his self esteem may be.
Women are always sexually desired, that goes from them all. Many women feel they're not 'sexy' or 'desired' enough in today's over saturated society, but I can assure you that that is not true. In companionship perhaps, but most men will jump at the opportunity to sleep with just about any female they can. Except the few exceptional men who have options already available to them but as the rule of thumb between sexes go: Men are as faithful as their options and women are as faithful as their emotions.
If she loves you and you satisfy her, she will not leave.
If you love her and she satisfies you, you probably won't leave, but that doesn't mean you wouldn't have sex with another women.
That right there is what separates men and women.
And for the women reading this thesis, you may quickly respond with 'that's because all men care about is sex.' To that I respond, that may be true, but again the fingers are to be pointed at the society will live in; which feels no shame in exploiting men's sexual desires. The same cannot be said for women. Anyone who disagrees should look at the dynamics of 'teacher - student' relationships. When the teacher is a female with an underage boy (High school and up off course), it is still wrong! But the boy wants it! In fact, every male reading this, is lying to himself if he admits that he never fantasized about one of his teachers (which also happens to be one of the more popular pornographic role plays. for both men and women).
The truth is, women don't like to hear it but...
Men see sex (the ones that get a lot of it) as just getting off, no big deal. whereas to a women is always a deeper meaning or feelings of true affection when she has sex (although many modern feminist argue otherwise).
Females are always sexually desired from their male friends at school, to their colleagues at work, to their own cousins! The average female can have sex whenever she so chooses just as long as she's in the right location. For a man (most men) it does not work this way. That's because women have the choice all the time, at practically anytime. Men have to work with what they worked for.
However, through music, pornography, movies and just pop culture in general, these men who aren't getting 'it', or enough of 'it', are constantly demoralized by musicians and actors who seemingly get it in excess, not just from single women either, but we are constantly reminded by our favorite rappers that he has sex with multiple women everyday, that women beg for his attention and time, that even your very own wife will leave you in a flash if he gives her the opportunity to sleep 'with a star'. We presume that they do this everyday; have sex with faithful husbands wives. Not because the wives loves them per-say, but because he's a 'star' and your faithful wife will Gaul at the chance of just being near him.
It doesn't stop as rappers either.
Every advertisement board that has a topless male model with a hot actress grabbing on to his chest is the same from of psychological bashing; Exploiting male's number one desire for profit, causing insecurities on levels unfathomable to those who aren't in their shoes. The problem is, is that male insecurities are never discussed. Female's unite (or at least pretend to) and agree on such complications like the waist size and influence of models. But men, tell you to man up and 'get over it'. But you still have to go out there into the cruel world tomorrow. with the constant reminder on every corner, on the radio, on your spotify lists, on the advertisement boards etc. that you are not good enough or you're less then 'I' unless you're sleeping or desired by multiple women; the pinnacle of self esteem in this male dominant society is a man's desirability to women.
Add that on top of man's natural instinct to breed and you got ingredients for absolute psychological chaos.
Finally, Penis size is such a controversial topic that it deserves it's own book. We live in a society which penis shames without any remorse. Men, women even children are encouraged to laugh at a 'little willy'. Penis size discrimination is the ultimate vindication that differentiate the two human species, male and female.
If we lived in a 'equal' society, like the feminist dream off, women wouldn't have the privilege to discriminate against men based on the size of their penis, just as men don't discriminate against women's vaginas. This relates to my earlier point that women always have choice and options in choosing their sexual partner at any given time, men do not have that luxury. In a equal society, women would hunt for 'penis' like men hunt for 'tail', in other words, both genders will be the predators and the prey will be monogamy. In this world, Men would too openly discriminate against women's vagina's; on the size, appearance, hairiness etc. Men would chose their sexual partners solely based on the appearance of their genitals. Something they have no control over.
Females would instantly counter argue expressing that 'men discriminate against women all the time in many different fields'; economically with jobs and pay rates and psychologically and physically by defining what a 'desirable women looks like', i.e. big breasts, big butt, slim waist, skinny arms etc.
Most women commonly agree that the social pressures from men are the cause for their obsession with 'looking pretty', Many other women would also argue that men have nothing to do with their appearance and that they 'do it for themselves, to feel good. Not to impress men!'
Women feel oppressed by men on so many different factors that they will never have sympathy for men arguing that they too oppress men in the same way.
But perhaps the most important thing these women side step is the fact that they are subjected to man's ego, man's perception of power. Otherwise male celebrities would not exist. Thus masculinity is the key attraction to a lot of women, at least sexually, but we cannot see masculinity, only sense it or perceive it, i.e. a tall man would be perceived as masculine, a strong street thug figure would be perceived as masculine, a man with a big penis would be perceived as masculine, even a rich man would be perceived as masculine. Although these perceptions are all psychical attractions; they have been embedded into the minds of women, programming them to believe that this is what masculinity looks like, BIG! and EXCESSIVE! (physically and mentally).
In reality, who can really define masculinity? if a man is a man, he is a man, thus he is masculine. His psychical or mental attributes cannot take that away. We do not judge females femininity based on the appearance of her vagina or the size of her breast. Those are only judged for sexual arousal. Her femininity is based on her intellect. And all women of all kinds and races can be considered feminine without debate.
Off course everyone is entitled to their own preferences thus men may be more attracted to a women with more bodacious attributes. But the bottom line remains, that men do not discriminate against genitals where as women do. Men would may be picky on the 'type' of girl he chooses but that would almost certainly not be based on, or dependent on the 'tightness' or the appearance of her vagina. A women would openly tell her friends that she was very disappointed because the guy she took home last night 'has a small dick', Que her friends bursting in laughter. He's not going to get a call back!
Again, Some women would counter argue that 'size doesn't matter', and that the insecurity a man has on the size of his own penis is in his own head because 'sex is the most important thing to him! just like all men! It's all they ever think about!'
But it's important to remember that, that man has been programmed by porn, movies and social peers to believe that his penis is not satisfactory enough for women (whom in porn constantly desire 'big cocks').
In fact, 'big dick' is the primary theme in pornography regarding the male part of the production. All men in porn (a vast majority) are well endowed, obviously, they are performers, it's there jobs. Consequently all females in porn, (which can range from anywhere between a eighteen year old with braces to a super overweight lady, to a eighty nine year old grandmother) are only satisfied by big dicks. Not only is that shown, but spoken, by the female porn stars, constantly.
The market for black people in pornography is entirely based around 'big dicks', and more often then not, it's sold to us as (mostly white) women who, no matter what, cannot stay away from big (black) dicks, and that they crave and dream about it all day whilst there 'puny husbands' have no desirable effect on them whatsoever. All the 'average' men are literally told and shown this three times a day since thirteen (depending on how much porn they watch). They are forced to believe that they will never be good enough.
Even further, their is entire porn companies based around 'small penis shaming'. The only time a man who has a small penis can see someone in porn that looks like himself is if he's getting shamed by women.
Even in the fantasy world of pure ecstasy escapism, men are still brutally discriminated against and forced to be entitled as 'pathetic losers' because of the size of their penis. So much so, that men with small penises watch this type of porn, and get off at women shaming them, why? Because they have been raised in a society where they are told from early that they are inferior to men with bigger penises, this has psychologically destroyed them to a point where they volunteer or masturbate to videos of what is essentially them being brutally shamed (a lot of times physically too). This is how openly the world penis discriminates. And how openly the world links masculinity with penis size.
Could you imagine women going on to porn websites and masturbating over men examining their vaginas with tools commenting 'Errr! I would never stick my dick anywhere near that flabby disgusting pussy! You should be ashamed of yourself for walking around with that many flaps in between your legs!'. Could you imagine the outcry if tomorrow men openly vagina shamed, and it became common knowledge that men only want women with tucked in vagina's. Imagine if porn stopped showing women with normal vagina's, unless they were being shamed. Imagine little school girls mocking their girl friends in the playground about their 'disgusting looking pussy's!'. What would that poor mocked girl grow up believing about herself? This is what the world is like for a male with a small penis.
The world is afraid to have this discussion because no man wants to discredit his masculinity by admitting the size of his penis, although it's probably one of the biggest factors that's causing him to be insecure around women; this is what leads men to feel incel. Through no fault of their own, at the cost of the economy (exploitation of people for profit) and at the hands of women who are too oppressed by men themselves to sympathize with men, these men with small penises are automatically counted out of society and their greatest desire; sex, is robbed off them. Or at least that's what they believe because that's all they've ever been told, from jokes in school, to penis size jokes in films, to general societal humor, to the escapism of porn.
But the truth is, their is no escaping for a man that feels indolent in a society that mocks and dictates his manhood by a body part he cannot chose or customize. And from his point of view, women are to blame, who have told him his entire life that they have a deep desire for big dicks (be it on porn, in movies, or real life). Or that they, just like the rest of the world, find small penises joke-able.
In order to sexually satisfy a women (although their is multiple ways) the stimulation of the clitoris (which is on the outside of a vagina!) is the most likely to achieve success. Technically speaking, a man only needs a two inch erect penis in order to make his sexual partner achieve an orgasm.
Women like big penises for the same reason they like big muscles, or tall guys; it's the perception of masculinity. And also programming from porn (where the men only have big penises for the purpose of the camera capturing the penetration not for the pleasure of women!) Women may think a larger penis is more sexually satisfying but that's only because they too have been programmed to believe that's so. In reality, a tiny penis can do the trick just as well. Remember, forty percent of a women's orgasm is in her head. That's a scientific fact.
During Roman times, a man with a small penis was the most desirable to women. and men with big penises (not referencing race here! since that came much later) were mocked and deemed undesirable, sometimes even regarded as animals (sub humans. Again this is not referencing Africans but white males in Europe at the time.)
Women are made to be objective (in terms of appearance) thinkers from a very young age. Their existence is based around their appearance. They perceive the world from this perspective. The very moment they learn the difference between a princess and a servant in child fairy tales like Cinderella, they are subconsciously setting levels of desire and expectations in their minds. No young girl wants to be the witch, or the servant, they all want to be the princess. They all want the prince charming. It's all imagery for females. From a very young age, to every make up billboard.
By the time these young girls who dreamt of being princesses reach adulthood, they have seen so many images of what female beauty looks like that they compete to be the 'princess'. For the rest of their lives, with every swipe of make up. This is why women look at men the same way they look at each other. Based on appearance first. And the bigger the male appearance and self esteem (in terms of height, status, wealth, body and penis size), the more desirable he is to women.
If big penises is just a particular woman's preference, then the man with a small penis is too entitled to define her genitals, deciding for her, whats good enough for him and what isn't. Otherwise we can just end this discussion about gender equality right now. Because that is equality.
All women have deep insecurities, lets say nose size for example, most of them will be traumatized for life if their potential sexual partners counted them out from companionship due to their nose being to big, as if he had said whilst in the missionary position, 'oh my god you're nose is to big, I'm not going to enjoy this sex'. Imagine these same girls also had to face 'big nose jokes' in films, on the internet, everywhere in the world. Imagine whenever anyone makes a reference to something big or huge like 'Yo I wanted to eat the sub in one go but it was HUGE, I couldn't fit it in my mouth.' Everyone, including you, instantly linked that sentence as a reference to a penis, even though I was talking about a sand which.
Needless to say these women could never feel like 'true women' and their self esteem would be diminished due to them automatically being undesirable because of the size of their nose. And even if they brought it up expecting sympathy like 'guys don't want me because of the size of my nose', they would receive the response 'ha! Look everyone, she has a big nose!'. Yesterday, today and tomorrow big nosed girls are just not 'women' enough.
Women need to understand that in this male dominant world, a man's self esteem is entirely based around his masculinity, which in turn is dependent on his desirability to other women, or at least his need to fulfill his desires. When you emasculate a man over something he has no control over you are suppressing his desires. And he can only see you (women) to blame. Suppressing and dictating people's natural universal desires is what causes inceldom. Penis discrimination needs to be eliminated from society in the same way race discrimination should be.
But I'm here to tell you inceldom it doesn't exist. You're a man. Nothing less.
Do not let the economy which is exploiting your desires for profit grind you down. Do not be convinced that manhood is defined by masculinity. Do not let a few naive women who drown in their own insecurities define who you are. You have been programmed to believe you're inferior through no fault of your own. that my friend's is the way of the world. Be better then that.
If she discriminates against the size of your penis, don't get mad, don't use violence, don't even shout. just reciprocate. show her the same energy; make her feel ashamed for having six pieces of out of date ham slices sticking out in between her legs!
Peace
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2018.08.07 00:45 MrWizard111 DoughnutGate... Help add to the research if you like. All info and archival data I have collected.

Damn it... this has ended up becoming a bit of a distraction for me honestly. I spent the past couple of days making sure everything related to Voodoo Doughnuts and its owners were archived so we did not lose anything. I have not really came across any posts where all relevant info has been collected and presented in a forum like this so I am collecting the data and archiving as I go along. I have not as of yet sifted through all the information available but at first glance this seems much larger in scope than Pizzagate was and seems to be tied into together as there are some connections. If you like researching and want to help it would be appreciated because there seems to be a lot.
The video that started me down this was broadcast live tonight on youtube and it's pretty long so I will break it down for you or watch if you like...
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VxlQmHD6tqw&t=921s
The video involves a victim known as Mikey Whalen who lives in Portland and has come forward detailing his experience with ritualistic abuse as a child in Scotsdale Az, a male by the name of Micheal Kohler. He witnessed parties of wealthy people who would drug children and have hunting parties. He came forward as a child and was a whistleblower on this guy and supposedly he fled that area. I only mention this as a summary to the video and to point out that he knows what ritualistic abuse looks like and how they do it. He then goes on to tell how after moving to Portland he fell in with a group who invited him to a party that turned out to be at the house of Voodoo Doughnut co owner Tres Shannon. During this party he witnessed children being dragged into a back room of the house. He started to feel uncomfortable and wants to leave immediately which he tries to do but his friends tell him that isn't allowed but they have his back and make up and excuse for them to leave. During another night his same friends take him to another party this time at the house of Voodoo Doughnut co owner Kenneth “Cat Daddy” Pogson. Same thing happens only he stays longer this time. He meets a girl he only alludes to a Julie. Julie claimed that she used to work at Comet Ping Pong when she used to live in DC. He at the time could not remember her last name. He claims to have had conversations with people there that brought up about how they were abusing children. To me it seemed like he was being tested to feel him out and see how far he would go. He never ends up participating in or witnessing any ritual. Since then those friends have disowned him and he started getting threats. First his house was robbed, then his bank account was empties, he is being followed and threatened by people he doesnt know, next someone killed his dog, and finally he has been evicted from his house for no reason. Oregon has great laws protecting tenants and as there was no lawful way to evict him he goes to court and the judge doesn't let him speak. Two men approached the judge and whisper something to him and then he holds Mikey in contempt of court an give him till Aug 8 to leave his house. He is being attacked on every level of his life and came forward because he saw Isaac Kappy and it inspired him to come forward and get this info out to as many people as possible because he fears for his life. There is supposed to be a part 2 coming up where he details a murder he witnessed.
you can find his twitter here...
https://twitter.com/veganmikey?lang=en
Ok let's research this place...
No doubt this place has a boy lover pedo symbol on its logo.
http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-LaHGFBE0jlA/UZxiMblfEsI/AAAAAAAAHzQ/B3XrbN65i_I/s1600/voodoodoughnut.jpg
It has a stake through its heart and could be what is known as a changeling notice the round teeth...
http://img1.wikia.nocookie.net/__cb20121017130203/creepypasta/images/9/9c/Creepypastaq.png
Found this on Instagram when compared to google image search of changeling this creature pops up...
https://www.instagram.com/p/BeZJgq6lXD0/?hl=en&taken-by=voodoodoughnut
A changeling is known as...
A Changeling is a fairy substitute. In folklore, fairies are said to kidnap babies, small children and attractive young people. When the fairies kidnap a person, they leave one of their own deformed or weak offspring behind. This fairy substitute is known as a Changeling.
I have personally been suspicious of child trafficking in the area and on the lookout for a while. Satanic symbolism is very pervasive in the area. No this is not me being paranoid there are tons of businesses using symbolism in the area which may tie in later but lets start with Voodoo Doughnuts. They have locations all over the place and are expanding fast...
Strange that there is a location in Taiwan and is not mentioned hardly at all online.
https://www.voodoodoughnut.com/
Website has been changed since Pizzagate so I will dig through their archives later. We have their logo which has the boy lover symbol and a person with a stake through its heart. This is pretty disturbing already.
Slogan is
The magic is in the hole.
They just announced they are partnering with Hollywood...
Learn about how their relationship with Universal Studios Hollywood began, and the opening of Voodoo Doughnut Universal Resort Orlando this spring!
Voodoo Instagram Sketchness
https://www.instagram.com/voodoodoughnut/
https://web.archive.org/web/20180806070744/https://www.instagram.com/voodoodoughnut/
Congressman Earl Blumenauer
https://www.instagram.com/p/Ba9g_0CFjr5/?taken-by=voodoodoughnut
Strange symbol
https://www.instagram.com/p/BRtC_6fFX7q/?taken-by=voodoodoughnut
https://www.instagram.com/p/BRt0H7pFm8C/?taken-by=voodoodoughnut
Michael Jackson
https://www.instagram.com/p/BNxCgxqDamA/?taken-by=voodoodoughnut
Strange monster concert poster
https://www.instagram.com/p/BM9mcFHD5Ma/?taken-by=voodoodoughnut
Child coffin
https://www.instagram.com/p/BLynQe3DdDW/?taken-by=voodoodoughnut
Child coffin
https://www.instagram.com/p/BLcDHqNDBHf/?taken-by=voodoodoughnut
Spiral doughnut design
https://www.instagram.com/p/BJ1UhOkDy74/?taken-by=voodoodoughnut
Holly Madison (Hugh Hefners wife)
https://www.instagram.com/p/BHAwZLDFMVF/?taken-by=voodoodoughnut
Bernie Sanders
https://www.instagram.com/p/BEwmxhSFMRg/?taken-by=voodoodoughnut
Demon concert poster
https://www.instagram.com/p/BDym0g7lMa_/?taken-by=voodoodoughnut
Anthony Bourdain
https://www.instagram.com/p/-1_DakFMXs/?taken-by=voodoodoughnut
Taylor Swift
https://www.instagram.com/p/-R04aIFMRI/?taken-by=voodoodoughnut
Jason Segel
https://www.instagram.com/p/9pCSCjlMb7/?taken-by=voodoodoughnut
Blood filled doughnut
https://www.instagram.com/p/9J3Yf3lMb2/?taken-by=voodoodoughnut
Shia Labeouf was arrested at Austin location
https://www.instagram.com/p/8rcPqilMeA/?taken-by=voodoodoughnut
Double heart doughnut
https://www.instagram.com/p/7x4ak7FMV?taken-by=voodoodoughnut
Taipei location???
https://www.instagram.com/p/5afBNolMV?taken-by=voodoodoughnut
Pee Wee Herman
https://www.instagram.com/p/BV22N9sF13Z/?taken-by=voodoodoughnut
John Leguizamo
https://www.instagram.com/p/BV22N9sF13Z/?taken-by=voodoodoughnut
Yes they sell a child size coffin full of doughnuts for $139...
http://coaster-nation.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/03/voodoo-donut-soft-opening-9-coaster-nation.jpg
Yes they sell pentagram dougnuts...
http://coaster-nation.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/03/Diablos-rex-e1522167174272.jpg
Umm is that Macaulay Culkin getting a special bunny ears doughnut? Why yes it is...
https://www.instagram.com/p/BlZEYNyFmpv/?taken-by=voodoodoughnut
You can see what kind of America they envision here...
https://www.instagram.com/p/Bkpy95pFaz9/?taken-by=voodoodoughnut
Goat demon...
https://www.instagram.com/p/Bjaz-Mdhaph/?taken-by=voodoodoughnut
Yes that is a baby in a doughnut box. Check the comments
https://www.instagram.com/p/BjX4HNmBfCp/?taken-by=voodoodoughnut
Triple Chocolate Penetration?
https://www.instagram.com/p/BjV3uJ7BfCq/?taken-by=voodoodoughnut
https://www.instagram.com/p/BjYXMTDheva/?taken-by=voodoodoughnut
Anthony Bourdain visits Voodoo Doughnuts...
https://www.dailymotion.com/video/x2e5jwc
Oregon governor Ted Kulongoski...
https://www.instagram.com/p/Bi24VgclhmL/?taken-by=voodoodoughnut
Penis Doughnut...
https://www.instagram.com/p/BhwpWLIl3pS/?taken-by=voodoodoughnut
Mention of having some sort of ceremony
https://www.instagram.com/p/Bd3n6ZIlVkO/?taken-by=voodoodoughnut
Seems like most social media accounts they have are using the same photos through out. Voodoo Facebook has a vast amount of info that needs to be dug through. I have personally went through their Twitter and not a lot to report. All of this has been archived so we will not lose any data.
Underground tunnels...
http://www.shanghaitunnels.info/
These tunnels go underneath Voodoo Donuts and a music venue/bar directly across the street called Dante's. Behind Voodoo and attached is a strip club called the Kit Kat Club. Yes I have verified the tunnels unlike Comet Pizza.
https://danteslive.com/
So could this get any more like Pizzagate?
This guy has been making videos about this since last year but has no views on his videos...
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xS47abiLvsg&feature=youtu.be&has_verified=1
Music video is of a young boy who is kidnapped and drugged then wakes up in California.
There is some limited Voat research already done. Doesn't seem to have gotten far...
https://voat.co/v/pizzagate/1780379
https://voat.co/v/pizzagate/2660386
To me this seems like a much larger operation or more likely may just be a piece to a larger network of child traffickers. They don't seem to be advertising children online like Comet Pizza was and all comments other than a few have all been pretty normal. Seems more like a brand that has a lot of followers and this gives the whole operation much better cover for there nefarious dealings.
Voodoo Doughnuts Facebook archive…
http://archive.is/f5S1s
https://web.archive.org/web/20180806080054/https://www.facebook.com/Voodoo-Doughnut-119262244761342/
Tres Shannon does not use social media I read. He doesn't even own a smart phone
Tres Shannon fan created Facebook archive…
http://archive.is/iqpa0
Kenneth Pogson Twitter
https://twitter.com/kennethpogson?lang=en
https://web.archive.org/web/20180806064426/https://twitter.com/kennethpogson?lang=en
His Facebook is set to private. Has not accepted my friend request. Try contacting him if you like.
Some of the other businesses owned are...
Voodoo Doughnut Recordings... https://www.voodoodoughnutrecordings.com/
X-Ray Cafe (closed)...
https://www.facebook.com/pages/X-Ray-Cafe/113768418673115
http://archive.is/V5JPM
Portland P Palace (failed to open)...
https://www.facebook.com/portland.p.palace/
http://archive.is/9Rw3i
Articles written
https://www.wweek.com/portland/article-18573-voodoo-child.html
This summer, Shannon and Pogson set a Guinness world record for the largest box of doughnuts: 666 pounds.
https://theknow.denverpost.com/2018/07/19/macaulay-culkin-home-alone-visits-denve190029/
https://pizzagatesite.wordpress.com/2016/12/07/disturbing-evidence-that-portlands-voodoo-donuts-may-be-a-child-sex-trafficking-front-pizzagate/
West Coast Wrestling Connection
http://www.wc-wc.com/
This is all of the businesses I have found there may be more...
Child trafficking in Portland strip club called Club Rogue. The video suggests it is connected to Voodoo it is not. The Kit Kat Club is connected to Voodoo. Club Rogue is a couple of blocks away. Interesting to not that this news report cannot be found through the news channel any longer.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UVz6HrUdrFw&feature=youtu.be
This is all I have got and waited to present it to people until it was archived. I used bother archive.is and web.archive.org to do this. If you come across some new info please consider archiving it or post it here and I will do it for you. I hope someone finds this useful. I have been distracted for long enough but needed to insure that these people are brought into the light so they do not escape justice. Last time I checked Oregon had one of the lowest number of sealed indictments and I would have hated it if they had escaped justice. Back to Q for me.
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2018.06.11 05:15 Copypastefreak Cognitive function descriptions

**Extraverted Sensing (Se) Explained

By Michael T. Robinson Founder CareerPlanner.com Inc.
Ni Ne Si Se Ti Te Fi Fe Overview
Extraverted Sensing (Se) is one of your 8 cognitive functions. How you experience it and how useful it is for you depends on how well it is developed and that depends on mostly your age and what your 4 letter personality type is.
Click here for a simple explanation of cognitive functions
People whose dominant function is Extraverted Sensing usually experience the world as:
You prefer to live in the present moment, rather than dwelling on the past or day dreaming about the future. "Be Here Now" comes naturally to you. You are almost always tuned into the present moment, and you wonder why other people seem so spaced out.
Keep in mind that you are used to this and you probably take it for granted. You probably think everyone sees the world they way you do. But they don't. Only people whose dominant or auxiliary function is Se will see the world as you do.
You experience what your 5 senses tell you directly, accurately, and in real time. You notice sounds, sights and smells before other people do.
You probably move gracefully and with ease. You might even have quick reflexes.
Driving or piloting vehicles probably comes naturally to you. When you drive a car you probably notice all the details of driving. The bumps in the road, the sound of the engine, and odd sounds coming from the car.
When you drive you really tune into it. You wonder why some drivers seem to be day dreaming while driving, it seems their minds are somewhere else. You are not like that.
You most likely have a better sense of direction than most people you know. It's like you have a GPS in your head.
You might also be physically adept in some way. Good at dancing, martial arts or physical sports.
You probably have a tremendous amount of physical energy. People may have even commented on how much energy you have.
Click here to find the perfect career You might even feel jittery and jumpy if you have to sit still for too long - like at a desk or on an airplane. You probably like to be on the go all day, but the minute the physical activity slows down you get bored and fall asleep. You are definately the type of person who goes, goes, goes, and then shuts down fast.
You like to be engaged with the physical world around you.
People with Se as their dominant cognitive function know what is going on around them at all times. They can sense any change in physical movement in the room.
Imagine a police detective or a soldier having to enter a dark room where there might be enemies or armed criminals. You've seen this on TV. They have to be totally focused on moving safely through the room. They are listening for the slightest sounds. They are looking for the slightest signs of movement. That is extraverted sensing at it's best.
If Se is your dominant function, please realize that not everyone is going to be like you. In fact there are certain personality types that are just going to make you crazy. But that's another subject.
A good example of people who have extraverted sensing as either their dominant or auxiliary function would be martial arts experts like Bruce Lee and actor Tom Cruise.
To be so good at martial arts like Bruce Lee, you must be totally focused in the present. Your reflexes must be lightning quick. And you need to know what is going on around you, in the room, at all times. If you are in a fight with another martial artist, and you take a second to day dream, or to think about the past, or the future, you are going to get hurt.
For Tom Cruise it's driving those high speed motorcycles. He does it in his spare time and he even does his own stunts.
Personality Types where Se is dominant are: ESFP and ESTP.
Personality Types where Se is auxiliary are: ISFP and ISTP.
Angelina Jolie (ESTP) Actress Madonna (ESTP) Singer, Entertainer Taylor Swift (ESTP) Singer-songwriter Bill Clinton (ESFP) U.S. President (D) Hugh Hefner (ESFP) Founder of Playboy Magazine Lady Gaga (ESFP) Singer-songwriter Introverted Intuiting (Ni) Explained By Michael T. Robinson Founder CareerPlanner.com Inc.
Ni Ne Si Se Ti Te Fi Fe Overview
Introverted Intuiting (Ni) is one of your 8 cognitive functions. How you experience it and how useful it is for you depends on how well it is developed and that depends on mostly your age and what your 4 letter personality type is.
Click here for a simple explanation of cognitive functions
Introverted Intuiting is 1 or 4 ways for you to perceive information. The other 3 are: Extraverted Intuiting, Extraverted Sensing, and Introverted Sensing.
You will only be good at using 1 of these 4 cognitive functions.
People whose dominant function is Introverted Intuiting (Ni) usually experience the world as such:
You are used to having insights and hunches that frequently turn out to be correct. These "aha" moments are introverted intuiting at work.
What happens is this. You feed your mind with information and data. You let your unconscious mind process the data. Then, perhaps when you are in the shower, or jogging, the answer just pops into your mind.
It's not magical nor mystical. It's simply that, of the 4 ways to get information (the 4 perceiving functions), Ni is the only one that easily taps into the unconscious. In fact, Ni is the only perceiving function that is not under conscious control.
So unlike someone whose dominant function is say Extraverted Sensing (Se) where they get their information directly from their five senses, a person with dominant Introverted Intuition gets much of their information after it has been processed in the unconscious.
Job Satisfaction - One Secret To Achieving It Introverted Intuition is focused inwards, on the internal world of thoughts, ideas, and concepts as opposed to an extraverted function which is focused on the world that is external to the mind. i.e. the real physical world.
Those with Ni as their dominant function prefer to focus on the future. They are adept at analyzing the past, but they only do so when looking for clues to the future.
Dominant Ni's have trouble focusing in the present moment. You will frequently notice that dominant Ni's will be mentally elsewhere, even when they are driving a car.
Dominant Ni's are big picture people. Details are their weakness. They can handle details like bookkeeping and accounting but it takes a lot of extra energy and it's stressful.
They are driven to see the big picture and to understand how thing work down at a fundamental, root cause level. They love theories, concepts, and complex systems. They tend to be strategic.
Those with Ni as their dominant function are good at spotting trends and patterns. They can easily connect the dots. Tell them what actions you have been taking and they will tell you what the future implications are for you. This is not hocus pocus magic. Their brains are simply wired to process data this way. They are experts at connecting the dots and telling you what will probably happen.
In the past, people with introverted intuiting have been known to act as oracles, fortune tellers, shamans and medicine men. In fact many people with dominant Ni will tell you that while growing up they did have mystical experiences.
When Ni is combined with a feeling function such as Fe, as is the case with INFJ, or ENFJ the individual will probably be good at understanding people, relationships, human issues and such.
When Ni is combined with extraverted thinking (Te), as in the case of INTJ or ENTJ, the insights, hunches etc will probably be focused more on complex systems, concepts, things, products rather than people and human issues.
If Ni is your dominant function, please realize that not everyone is going to be like you. But you have probably already noticed this. In fact there are certain personality types that are just going to make you crazy. But that's another subject.
Leaders and CEO types should always have a dominant intuitive around to keep an eye on the future and to help prevent serious missteps because they dominant Ni's can foresee the implications of your actions.
A good example of people or movie characters who have Introverted Intuition as their dominant function would be the fictional Merlin the Magician in King Arthur's Court and Gandalf the Wizard in Lord of the Rings.
These characters seem to understand how nature works at a fundamental level. Their deep understanding baffles others who are not able to "perceive" the world at that level. Extraverted Intuiting (Ne) Explained By Michael T. Robinson Founder CareerPlanner.com Inc.
Ni Ne Si Se Ti Te Fi Fe Overview
Extraverted Intuiting (Ne) is one of your 8 cognitive functions. How you experience it and how useful it is for you depends on how well it is developed and that depends on mostly your age and what your 4 letter personality type is.
Click here for a simple explanation of cognitive functions
There are 4 functions in your mind devoted to taking in information. These are called the perceiving functions. Extraverted Intuiting is one of these.
People with dominant Extroverted Intuition (Ne) have an infinite number of ideas and suggestions on how to make the future better.
They can see several possible futures.
When you want to do brainstorming, you need someone with a dominant Ne function. Their minds will shoot out new ideas faster than most people can absorb them. It's like a rapid fire machine gun but instead of bullets its new ideas for the future.
Those with dominant Ne are big picture people. They don't enjoy the details, but will handle them when necessary.
Dominant Ne's can see trends and patterns. They are especially good as seeing how things, events and people are connected. They can see the meaning behind people's actions.
People with a dominant Ne function tend to be very articulate speakers who can speak quickly, fluidly and with ease. When speaking, ideas come easily to them and they rapidly turn those into words, whole sentences and complete stories.
If Ne is your dominant function, please realize that not everyone is going to be like you. But you probably already know that. In fact there are certain personality types that are just going to make you crazy. But that's another subject.
Click here for The 5 Keys To Job Satisfaction The two personality types where Ne is dominant are ENFP and ENTP.
The two personality types where Ne is auxiliary are INFP and INTP.
The following people are thought to have dominant extraverted feeling:
Benjamin Franklin (ENTP) - inventor, writer, publisher, diplomat Steve Wozniak (ENTP) - co-founder of Apple Computer Bill Maher (ENTP) - political talk show host Tom Hanks (ENTP) - actor, movie producer Julian Assange (ENFP) - outspoken founder of Wiki Leaks Arianna Huffington (ENFP) - outspoken founder of Huffington Post Ellen DeGeneres (ENFP) - talk show host Rachel Maddow (ENFP) - talk show host Introverted Sensing (Si) Explained By Michael T. Robinson Founder CareerPlanner.com Inc.
Ni Ne Si Se Ti Te Fi Fe Overview
Introverted Sensing (Si) is one of your 8 cognitive functions. How you experience it and how useful it is for you depends on how well it is developed and that depends on mostly your age and what your 4 letter personality type is.
Click here for a simple explanation of cognitive functions
Introverted Sensing (Si) is one of the 4 ways to take in (perceive) information. The other ways are: Extraverted Sensing, Extraverted Intuiting, and Introverted Intuiting.
Introverted Sensing is best understood when compared to Extraverted Sensing. With Se, the individual perceives exactly what the senses are telling it, live and in real time.
With Si, the individual perceives mostly stored memories of previous sensory experiences.
Thus the person with dominant Introverted Sensing will experience something real time, but then they will quickly compare it to stored memories in their minds.
The perfect example is a quality assurance inspector in a widget factory. Their job is to look at widgets coming off the production line and then compare those widgets to a known perfect widget, an image of which they have stored in their minds.
They can easily detect any widgets coming off the production line that do not match the stored image of a perfect widget. Introverted Sensor's brains are wired for this.
Another example is a personal trainer in a gym who has been trained in anatomy and who knows the precise way to perform each exercise. When they are training someone on how to exercise, they have an image in their mind of how the person should move. How they should lift a weight. How they should hold their body. How they should be breathing. The Introverted Sensor trainer can then instruct the person in how to do the exercise perfectly and safely.
What makes Si so interested is that the individual's brain is wired make this comparison and to show them what is different between the new widget off the line and the memorized image.
Thus people with dominant Si usually have the ability to recall a past experience in great vivid detail, complete with any stored emotions. A dominant Si can re-experience a past event just as if it was happening live, complete with memories of how they were feeling at the time.
Click here to discover your best career choices Some dominant Introverted Sensors describe this as if a movie was playing in their head, and it takes them back to the original event which they experience as if it were real.
Some Introverted Sensors also see the world in a surrealistic way. This is where images of the original event appear slightly skewed and distorted. Think of surrealistic paintings.
Introverted Sensors tend to have very good memories for details. They can easily recall details of things they are interested in: names of movies, actors in movies, names of football players, numbers, percentages, specifications, financial results and prices.
Remember that Introverted Sensing is focused internally. It's happening inside one's mind and is therefore difficult to observe from the outside.
Personality Types where Si is the dominant function are: ISTJ and ISFJ.
Personality Types where Si is the auxiliary function are: ESTJ and ESFJ.
Examples of well known people with dominant Introverted Sensing are:
Warren Buffett (ISTJ) Super-investor and author Hillary Clinton (ISTJ) U.S. Secretary of State (D) Sean Connery (ISTJ) Actor - played James Bond 007 Jeff Bezos (ISTJ) Founder of Amazon Bruce Willis (ISFJ) Actor Jimmy Carter (ISFJ) U.S. President (D) Mother Teresa (ISFJ) Catholic nun and charity worker Tiger Woods (ISFJ) Golf champion Introverted Thinking (Ti) Explained By Michael T. Robinson Founder CareerPlanner.com Inc.
Ni Ne Si Se Ti Te Fi Fe Overview
Introverted Thinking (Ti) is one of your 8 cognitive functions. How you experience it and how useful it is for you depends on how well it is developed and that depends on mostly your age and what your 4 letter personality type is.
Click here for a simple explanation of cognitive functions
Introverted Thinking (Ti) is one of the 4 judging / decision making processes in the brain. The other judging functions are: Extraverted Thinking, Extraverted Feeling, and Introverted Feeling.
People whose dominant function is Ti are known for being very analytical, very logical and very objective. Their brains are wired to for that.
Introverted Thinkers develop complex systems and models in their heads. These models explain how things work. Whenever a dominant Ti comes across new information, they test it against their internal models to see if it fits. If it does, they store the new information in the correct category. If it does not fit, but they think it still might be correct information, they will completely re-evaluate their mental model to understand why it does not accommodate the new information.
People with dominant Ti tend to use precise language, and they dislike it if you use words and terminology incorrectly. As such, Ti's tend to have a strong vocabulary and they excel at remembering terminology.
Dominant Introverted Thinkers have been known for creating or inventing entirely new systems, models and theories.
They have a need to know how things work, down at the deepest level.
If you wanted help coming up with a fresh new name for something, like a new product, or a new company name, a person with Introverted Thinking in their dominant or auxiliary position would be the best to help you. Their brains are wired for coming up with fresh new names.
Click here for a Career Test that will show you your best career choices Same for new theories and new inventions, and even just new words and new ways of saying things. Introverted Thinking is the cognitive functions that does this the best.
If you want help thinking through a problem you have, and you want very clear, logical and emotion free analysis, use someone with either dominant or auxiliary Introverted Thinking.
One place you will see a lot of people with a strong Introverted Thinking function is the people who design analog electronic circuits. These folks study electrical engineering where they learn the theories about how electronic circuits work. Then, with the model of how things work firmly in their minds, they go out an apply it to the real world. People with a strong Ti function can learn the complex theories and then apply them.
Personality Types where Ti is the dominant function are: INTP, ISTP.
Personality Types where Ti is the auxiliary function are: ENTP, ESTP.
Albert Einstein (INTP) scientist Charles Darwin (INTP) scientist Larry Page (INTP) Google co-founder Tina Fey (INTP) comedy writer and actress Simon Cowell (ISTP) Judge on American Idol Bruce Lee (ISTP) Martial arts expert and actor Tom Cruze (ISTP) action movie star Extraverted Thinking (Te) By Michael T. Robinson Founder CareerPlanner.com Inc.
Ni Ne Si Se Ti Te Fi Fe Overview
Extraverted Thinking (Te) is one of your 8 cognitive functions. How you experience it and how useful it is for you depends on how well it is developed and that depends on mostly your age and what your 4 letter personality type is.
Click here for a simple explanation of cognitive functions
Extraverted Thinking is one of the 4 judging functions the brain uses to make decisions. The other 3 judging functions are Introverted Thinking, Extraverted Feeling and INtroverted Feeling.
With Extraverted Thinking, the judging is done based on facts and logic, rather than emotions and values.
Extraverted Thinkers are able to set aside how they feel about something, so they can separate out the objective facts from their emotions.
We all experience emotions when making decisions. In fact if you watch your thought process closely enough you will notice that when it's time to decide something, you first have a gut feel for what to do. But this gut feel is based on your emotions. What Extraverted Thinkers do is that they recognize the emotional content, but then they set it aside to focus on the facts.
Extraverted Thinkers tend to be logical, objective and fair.
For example, in a management role, when it comes time to review an employee, the Te manager will look at the measurable data and the facts. They will be fair with the employee even if they don't like them. They will set aside emotion and try to base their judgment on concrete results.
Because of this objective, fact based style, Extraverted Thinkers can look like they are cold and unfriendly. They also can appear to be bossy. However deep inside they may not really be cold, unfriendly and bossy.
Dominant Extraverted Thinkers tend to be very organized. Their thought process is focused on the external, real world, rather than the inner world as it is for Introverted Thinkers. Thus they try to arrange the real world to suit their needs.
Our Personality Test will show you your top career choices They use their energy to make an impact in the real world. They are driven to achieve their goals and objectives.
Extraverted Thinkers can be so organized and so driven towards achieving results that they frequently end up being promoted to work in management. Once they have organized themselves, they are ready to organize everyone else around them.
The need to organize and achieve one's goals results in the Extraverted Thinker establishing procedures and protocols. They can easily create written instructions for others to follow.
If you wanted someone to help plan and organize a project, and to keep the project on schedule for you, you would want to ask someone with either a dominant or auxiliary Extraverted Thinking to help you. That's what their brains are wired to do.
Types where Extraverted Thinking is dominant are ENTJ and ESTJ.
Types where Extraverted Thinking is auxiliary are INTJ and ISTJ.
Examples of well known dominant Extraverted Thinking types are:
Napoleon Bonaparte (ENTJ) Emperor of France Julius Caesar (ENTJ) Dictator of Rome Nancy Pelosi (ENTJ) US Speaker of the House (Democrat) Jack Welch (ENTJ) CEO of General Electric Dr. Phil (ESTJ) Psychologist and talk show host Martha Stewart (ESTJ) Business magnate Uma Thurman (ESTJ) Actress Judge Judy (ESTJ) Television judge and author Introverted Feeling (Fi) Explained By Michael T. Robinson Founder CareerPlanner.com Inc.
Ni Ne Si Se Ti Te Fi Fe Overview
Introverted Feeling (Fi) is one of your 8 cognitive functions. How you experience it and how useful it is for you depends on how well it is developed and that depends on mostly your age and what your 4 letter personality type is.
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Introverted Feeling (Fi) is one of the hardest cognitive functions to understand, explain and observe.
Because it's an introverted function, it's hard to observe it in people. It's taking place in side the mind where others can't see it.
Unfortunately, the time Fi becomes easy to observe is when it's in its negative aspect and people are acting selfishly and emotionally.
Let's explore this.
Fi is a judging function where the individual makes decisions based on their own personal value system.
Thus people with a dominant Introverted Feeling function will normally be making decisions based on emotions rather than objective facts and data.
Many times, people with Fi do not recognize or understand their own personal values until someone accidentally steps all over them.
Introverted Feelers are the most sensitive of all types. They can react emotionally for no obvious reason. It takes some effort to drill down and uncover these personal values that are so easily insulted.
Now if that all sounds bleak and negative, it's because we have not talked about the strongest benefits of having a dominant Fi.
Introverted Feelers are able to tune into individuals who are in need of help. They can have the highest level of empathy of any types. Why? Because they know what it's like to be hurt, or to be in pain.
Thus Introverted Feelers are often found in nursing, healthcare and counseling careers where they can help people in a one on one fashion.
How does it work? If a person is emotionally mistreated or hurt by a spouse or partner, the Fi can look deep inside themselves and relate to how that must feel.
Because Introverted Feelers are so easily insulted or offended, they know what it's like to be hurt and they will treat others with sensitivity, caring and warmth.
If you wanted someone to empathize with you, a person with dominant or auxiliary Introverted Feeling would be a good choice.
Click here to find the perfect career Let's say you were feeling down because your significant other did something to hurt your feelings or your boss picked on you. You can tell your story to an Introverted Feeler and they will relate to you better than most other types.
Personality Types where Fi is dominant are: INFP and ISFP.
Personality Types where Fi is auxiliary are: ENFP and ESFP.
If Fi is your dominant function, please realize that not everyone is going to be like you. In fact there are certain personality types that are just going to make you crazy. But that's another subject.
Well known people with dominant Introverted Feeling are:
John Kerry (INFP) US Secretary of State J.K. Rowling (INFP) author of the Harry Potter series John Lenon (INFP) singer, song writer, member of the Beatles Jonathan Ive (ISFP) leader designer at Apple Michael Jackson (ISFP) singer song writer Beyonce (ISFP) singer song writer Extraverted Feeling (Fe) Explained By Michael T. Robinson Founder CareerPlanner.com Inc.
Ni Ne Si Se Ti Te Fi Fe Overview
Extraverted Feeling (Fe) is one of your 8 cognitive functions. How you experience it and how useful it is for you depends on how well it is developed and that depends on mostly your age and what your 4 letter personality type is.
Click here for a simple explanation of cognitive functions
There are 4 functions in your mind devoted to making decisions. These are called the judging functions. Extraverted Feeling is one of these.
People whose dominant function is Extraverted Feeling, focus their decision making on the external world (outside the mind) and the primary focus is on people and human kind.
They are all about connecting with other people.
When people with dominant Fe go to make a decision, the first decision criteria they use is values rather than objective facts. For extraverted feeling these values are more cultural values and values relating to human kind as a whole, rather than personal values which is what introverted feeling (Fi) is about.
Thus people with dominant Fe will fist consider the impact a decision may have on the greater good, and the people around them. They do this instinctively.
Contrast this to extraverted thinking (Te), where the decision criteria is based on just facts. "Just give me the facts" and keep any emotion or feeling out of it. I just want objective facts and data.
Because people are so important to those with dominant Fe, they will actually organize their lives so that they can connect with more people. Relationships and connecting with friends, neighbors, coworkers and colleagues is a big part of an Fe's life.
Click here to find the perfect career Dominant Fe's have the natural ability to tune into the group to know what they are thinking and feeling. They are sensitive to the morale of the people around them. Leaders and CEO's should always have a dominant Fe around to tell them how the people are feeling.
Having a dominant Fe function is especially useful in the entertainment industry where you are entertaining and connecting with the audience either by acting, interviewing, singing, or telling jokes. It can also help in politics and any public position.
If Fe is your dominant function you probably have a very strong sense of what is right and wrong, good and bad. You understand ethics.
People with a dominant Fe strive for harmony of the group. In fact Fe's will often sacrifice themselves for the betterment of the group. Achieving and maintaining harmony is crucial for Fe's. Connecting and building relationships for Fe's is of the utmost importance.
Dominant Fe's also tend to be very well organized.
Dominant Fe's are all about helping people. This would be everything from being a doctor, to writing self help books.
If Fe is your dominant function, please realize that not everyone is going to be like you. But you probably already know that. In fact there are certain personality types that are just going to make you crazy. But that's another subject.
You can typically spot an Fe in a group because they are doing things to organize and help the group. They are usually not selfish. They live for the group.
The two personality types where Fe is dominant are ENFJ and ESFJ.
The two personality types where Fe is auxiliary are INFJ and ISFJ.
The following people are thought to have dominant extraverted feeling:
Larry King (ESFJ) - talk show host and famous interviewer Barbara Walters (ESFJ) - talk show host and famous interviewer Elton John (ESFJ) - song writer Whitney Houston (ESFJ) - singer Shania Twain (ESFJ) - singer - song writer Woody Harrelson (ESFJ)- Actor Martin Luther King Jr. (ENFJ) civil rights leader Ronald Reagan (ENFJ) - US President Michael Moore (ENFJ) - documentarian and Filmmaker Oprah Winfrey (ENFJ) - talk show host
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2018.01.03 06:40 autotldr Playboy might kill magazine in post-Hefner era. The previous deal agreed to continue publishing Playboy for the remainder of Hefner's life until he died

This is the best tl;dr I could make, original reduced by 37%. (I'm a bot)
Playboy has helped launch, sustain, and tarnish careers.
The death of Playboy founder Hugh Hefner is ushering in a new era for the adult-entertainment enterprise in more ways than one.
Playboy Enterprises Inc.'s controlling shareholder-private-equity firm Rizvi Traverse-is in talks to acquire the 35% stake Mr. Hefner left in trust to his heirs, a person familiar with the matter said.
At the same time, the company says it is doubling down on efforts to make money from brand partnerships and licensing deals built around the Playboy name, ethos and bunny logo, with increasingly less focus on its editorial roots.
"We want to focus on what we call the 'World of Playboy' which is so much larger than a small, legacy print publication," said Ben Kohn, a managing partner at Rizvi who took over as Playboy Enterprises' chief executive in May 2016.
Rizvi, which helped him take Playboy private in 2011 in return for control of nearly two-thirds of the company, had agreed to continue publishing its flagship magazine while he remained alive.
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2017.10.31 23:39 RampagingKoala Theorycrafting: A Bachelor Halloween

tl;dr don't dress up as Hugh Hefner, costume tips, and someone looks like a pedophile. also candy is great
Hi everyone, and welcome to another episode of Theorycrafting, in which I discuss things that may or may not be important to Bachelor Nation because I am bored at work. This week, our theorycrafting falls on a very important day in Bachelor Nation: Halloween. Halloween is important because a) it reminds us that despite this grueling offseason, we still have two more months before we see any more Bachelor content, b) we get to see what kind of ridiculous costumes our favorite Bachelor Nation people decide to bring out. And oh boy do we have some doozies this year. Apparently, I dunno. Also I'm gonna have a rant about how much I love candy. Keep an eye out.
So believe it or not, most of the people in Bachelor nation did not in fact dress up for Halloween (I know this because I actually looked through a bunch of their instagrams hoping someone would do something stupid but nope). However there were a couple of parties that were of note. Rachel, Bryan, Rachel's Squad and significant others were at a party...somewhere. Also Rubby, Iggy, Jef, Demario, and Chase showed up at the Maxim Halloween party because...of course they did, how could they not.
But the big news is...RUBBY AND BRYAN WORE THE SAME COSTUME!!!!! This is huge everyone. Rubby and Bryan have the same sensibilities. Bryan and Rubby, mentioned in the same sentence...who would have thought? I would have, but I don't want to brag.
Here's a tip for all you wannabe Hefners out there (yeah that's what they went as): Don't.
Why should you not go as Hugh Hefner? Well, there are lot of reasons, so let's walk through them:
1) It gives off the impression that you think you're a playboy. You're not. Plus even if you were, why would you wear that costume intending to advertise to women "I sleep around with a lot of people so you should totally hop in bed with me"?? Bryan sort of sidesteps this one by being engaged, and Rachel is his bunny. Which is cute, I guess. Dammit Bryan, how am I supposed to criticize you for this one? It's too hard, so I'll go for the easy target. Single men who dress up like Hugh Hefner want to think they're actually capable of doing what Hugh Hefner did. Unless you plan on fouding a journalism empire, you're probably not gonna do that. So stick to something like Tarzan which allows you to be equally shirtless while not being as dickish.
2) A lot of women think Hugh Hefner is a jerkoff and is super offensive. Look I'm not gonna get into whether or not Hugh Hefner is a scumbag because I really don't care. If you want to, you can have that argument. But people will probably give you shit for your costume. And make fun of you. And call you things like "offensive" and "sexist" and say things like "it's 2017, don't you know playboy is degrading to women?". And if you're someone who's super insecure (Rubby), you probably wouldn't take that very well. If you're someone who doesn't give a rat's ass and is living his best life, maybe you might care a little less. But if you're trying to get people to like you, dressing up as a controversial figure is probably not going to garner much sympathy.
3) The man just died. I'm not super sanctimonious about this one, but I'm getting to the end of my list so I had to throw one in there. I personally always think it's a little funny when people dress up as someone who just died to "honor them" or to pick someone topical. Like you're not honoring shit, you're dressing up as a topical figure to get more attention (and hopefully sex if you're Rubby). Just admit that. If Hugh Hefner didn't die, you'd probably be wearing some shirtless Bob the Builder costume or something.
RK, who wore it better? Bryan. Hands down Bryan wore it better.
Shoutout to Wells and Sarah Hyland for their dope Eleven and other kid from Stranger Things couples costume.
Also shoutout to Chase for wearing a costume that actually has him mostly clothed.
Props to Alexis and Astrid for being serial killers together, that was a bold move Cotton let's see how it plays out for them.
Noteworthy people who did not have a good Halloween costume: Alex. I expected more.
Shoutout to Derek Peth for going as Jim Halpert, or should I say shoutout to John Krasinski for going as Derek Peth.
I would also like to call out special consideration to Jef Holm for looking like an actual sex offender. If that was your costume, you have achieved peak immersion.
Now, I would like to expand the scope of this writing a bit to allow for advice that can help YOU, the reader (lol we all know you just looked at the tl;dr and then posted something to indicate you read it). So without further ado, here are RK's Koality Kostume Tips (albeit wayy too late to actually matter):
These costume tips will come with modifiers indicating who they are there for (so that if you read conflicting information, you won't post in the comments saying "But RK you told me two different things so I ended up being sexy Barney the Dinosaur" even though that is a GREAT costume).
1) Couples: do not assume that the other partner will immediately have a Halloween costume idea or else you will be rummaging through your closet the night before the party. Granted, you may still look really sexy as Danny and Sandy, but it could have been better.
2) Everyone: There is in fact a thing as too risque. I'm talking to you, topless nun with inverted crosses taped over your nipples.
3) Single guys: Don't assume that everyone saw that cool movie you liked and drew inspiration from because you magically had the same jacket that dude had in the movie. Also adding a name tag to it so that people know who you are is not a good substitute for a costume.
4) Everyone: Fun onesies, while they seem like a fun costume idea (and have practical applications after Halloween), are not as original as you'd think because anyone can buy them. More props to Wells and Sarah Hyland for their home-cooked ideas (albeit done with lots of help) than to Peter who literally wore a teddy bear onesie plus a Dodgers cap (go stros).
5) Everyone: you don't have to go as a character. You could just be...a demon, or a ghost, or a zombie or something. That way it's more clear what you are as opposed to that dude who is wearing some old rock band tshirt while calling himself Wayne from Wayne's world.
6) Everyone: don't wear the same costume two years in a row. Everyone can tell that you've done it before, and it's like rewearing the same shirt twice: it's tacky and kind of weird.
7) Single guys and girls: Don't be that person who dresses up as one half of a couples costume wandering around looking for their "other half". Or do it, I dunno the success rate on these things.
8) Everyone: make sure that your costume is not too grandiose such that your props or your accoutrements keep bumping into people. Like if you want to go as the pope or something (?????) and people keep tripping on your robe or they keep knocking over your hat, you might be doing something wrong. Keep it clean, keep it tight.
9) Single guys and girls: if you plan on getting frisky with someone later on, make sure your costume is easy to take off. Nothing kills the mood you've built up with that sexy Handmaiden than finding out her corset takes 20 minutes to undo. Or alternatively, nothing makes it harder to pass out on the bathroom floor than realizing your outfit needs 30 minutes of deconstruction beforehand. Waking up in that uncomfortable costume is going to suuuuck.
and most importantly:
10) Everyone: have fun with your costume. Duh.
Side note, because I am sitting at my desk besides a top hat full of my favorite candy so that the trick or treaters who come through the office have stuff to eat, I love candy. It's delicious. There are people who say that candy is gross or too sweet or whatever, but those people are wrong and have their heads stuck up their ass. Candy is designed to be delicious. There are people who spend their entire lives making candy the best that it can be. And for the most part, they have succeeded (looking at you, Mike and Ike). Looking at this top hat full of Reese's cups and other chocolates is literal torture because it's so good and I want to eat it all but I "can't". I know a lot of you are probably going out for Halloween or have already gone out, but honestly sitting at home with a bag of candy watching "scary" movies/shows sounds freaking amazing.
Other side note (because this week was horrendously dull for math-related Bachelor news) can we please stop doing Christmas advertisments before Halloween? I personally believe that nobody should be doing any Christmas decorating before Thanksgiving, but Christmas Creep is really getting bad that we start advertising in October.
Thank you for bearing with me during this trying time of nothing happening. Hopefully I am more creative next week. Or I might be in a diabetic coma. It's a tossup at this point.
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2017.08.02 04:15 drabwave Radial polycule with masculine person in middle anyone? How do you deal with accusations of being a narcissist or misogynist?

I am a masculine person with two female partners— we are a "V" and not a triangle. The potential for a third female partner has been discussed recently. One of my partners jokingly asked me what the difference would be in my forming an "asterisk" as I call it, where my partners and I share a radial relationship— and a "modern day harem." My partners have each chosen to not have other partners due to not identifying as poly (but being supportive of me), prioritizing work, or prioritizing friends and family over a partnership. I enjoy being the hub of the wheel, and spend careful time and energy making sure they feel secure, loved, and valued. They know, of course, that they can always choose to date other folks and leave the wheel. It just isn't an issue since they have mindfully chosen this configuration. I find the phrase "modern day harem" to be hurtful, since feminism is super important to me and something I engage with every day to actively cultivate. Not to mention the fact that a queer poly identity requires engaging in gender dynamics in a way in which one is continually valuing learning and growth. Anyone else a masculine person or individual with femme partners who only date you? What do you call your polycule that is less atrocious than "harem"? Also, would like to hear if anyone has faced attitudes about trying to be some kind of Hugh Hefner figure or "player."
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2016.12.15 20:34 luckie_duckie Sexy sleepwear choices for men [clothing]

I feel like this subject has been beat to death on the female side. However I want to know mainly from the partner's perspective of what they like their men to wear to look sexy in bed. Typically I wear Underarmor Boxerjock's (Link) and they look very sexy, but I prefer to sleep in something more than just underwear.
I looked around at options and it seems for the most part there are two options, a Hugh Hefner style bathrobe which I am not interested in, and the typically PJs, normally I end up wearing something like this (Link) but I was hoping others would have better ideas/options that would look sexy in bed. Thoughts?
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2015.10.28 02:03 tabledresser [Table] IAmA director of best-selling porn parodies. My name is Axel Braun. Ask Me Anything!

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Are you still doing Empire Strikes Back XXX? Other than that, what's next on your list of parodies? Yes, I will do Empire :) I just don't know when. The script has been ready for a year, and I've cast all the major roles, but to do it right there are a million things that need to come together at the same time. I was about ready to start a few months ago, but delays in the VFX department on Batman v Superman XXX made me fear that I wouldn't have been ready for a September 30 release (that's the deadline for AVN awards consideration), so I opted to do Peter Pan XXX instead. And even that BARELY made it.
Cool! Looking forward to it, I am a huge fan of the first one. Can you tell us what your next parody is going to be?! Please! I want to, but it's a secreeet!!! ;)
What was it like having a 'porn pioneer' for a dad growing up? Did you bring your father to career day in school? Are you gonna have Ronda Rousey in one of your, uh. Projects. Do you like/love your job/career? 1) It was, uh...different ;) 2) We don't have "career day" in Italy, but once I got caught drawing a very detailed picture of one of my teachers in a compromising position with the principal, and as punishment they made my mom sit next to me in class for a week. It was fucking horrifying. 3) I'd LOVE TO, but I'm afraid my $5M offer was not enough to make her throw away an amazing career in sports. 4) If I didn't, I would be doing something else. In life, you should always try to do whatever you want.
Seeing as how your father got into the porn industry, would you say that he was the main influence for you getting into it? Or did you want to get into another industry? I wanted to make mainstream movies, went to film school, moved to L.A., thought I was gonna be the next Spielberg...then quickly realized that there were about a million people WAY more talented than me. Saw an opportunity to follow in my dad's footsteps and build a career using what I knew, and took it. Doors were open. I wanted to make him proud, and one day to win "Director of the Year" at the AVN awards... ;)
With parodies, you have about the only profitable angle in porn any more, aside from celebrity sex tapes? I don't think it's about the genre, otherwise everybody would be making parodies...and not all sex tapes make the kind of money that Kim Kardashian made. I only do parodies of source material that I have an emotional connection to, and because I approach these projects with a fan mentality it's easier to make them resonate among people who are fans like me. Plus I'm just awesome, and really really lucky ;)
At what age did your dad bring you into the business? He never really encouraged me until I started to show an interest in it, which is in 1986. I was 20 years old. I started collaborating with him on scripts, and a couple years later I began to write my own. My first script that was produced was "Fantasy Nights" in 1990.
How was it growing up with a dad that directed and produced adult movies? How old were you when you realized/decided that’s what you wanted to do, continue in his footsteps? It was awesome as a teenager. Not so much when I had to explain to customs why I had a luggage full of dildos at the airport. 2. I decided I wanted to be a film director in 1973 after seeing "The Four Feathers" by Zoltan Korda...then in 1990 I realized porn was a more viable option.
What super hero or comic do you think would be the hardest (no pun intended) to parody in a porn? Well, I've been wanting to do The Fantastic Four for years, but I need to have the Thing in a sex scene and that's really difficult to pull off. Definitely a movie that requires a mainstream budget. And apparently even then it's easy to fuck it up #JoshTrank ;)
Axel, I think you're overthinking it. The Thing just needs to be immobilized by Dr Doom and you can have him as a static set piece and do a dildo scene with him and one of the girls to free him for...reasons. the rest of him can be dubbed over with voiceover not moving much. LOL.
Are you totally honest when people ask what you do for a living? Absolutely not :) I used to say "I make movies", just to keep the deception to a minimum, but that often elicited a dreaded "anything I've seen?". Nowadays I just say "I'm retired"
When you will shoot a parody to "Legally blonde" with Riley Steele in main role? Apparently Reese Witherspoon is in talks to do Legally Blonde 3, so if and when that happens and the franchise becomes relevant again, I'll do it. Riley would be perfect for the role!
Axel, I am interested in your approach on how you decide what to film. Do you have a list already in mind, or do you simply decide project to project? Do you have complete control on filming, or does the studio have a hand in it as well? Also, Archies and/or Fantastic Four XXX parodies! I always have a list, but it's pretty fluid. There are movies that I've been wanting to do for years, but the timing hasn't been right. Right now I have a schedule through 2017. And yes, I do have complete control because Wicked Pictures is an awesome company :)
Is there any way into the industry for someone who wants to write? Specifically feature length films. I must warn you, porn scripts don't pay that much...best way is to register your scripts with the WGA and send them to all the top directors in the business.
How big is drug use in the industry? I don't smoke, drink, or do drugs...so I'm seriously out of touch with that lifestyle. I am where fun goes to die ;)
What parody was your favorite to direct? It's like asking a father if he has a favorite son!!! LOL I'll give you three: Batman XXX 24 XXX Peter Pan XXX.
Congratulations on getting Riley Steele to re-up for another year. Any dream roles for Riley you can tease for the next year? I'm thinking Supergirl. Thank you! I've got some AWESOME roles coming up for Riley, in fact I literally sent her a pic of her next costume a couple hours ago. Is that enough of a tease? ;)
How about doing a NEW GIRL parody? I have never watched the show. If I ever do and become a fan, chances are I will parody it ;)
Ever meet anyone in the industry who you would describe as 'damaged' to any degree? I've been doing this for almost 26 years...I believe it's fair to say I've encountered a few damaged souls ;)
I had no idea that you grew up in Italy and are a member of MENSA. That's awesome! What languages do you speak? Italian, French, Spanish, German, and English. Plus Latin and ancient Greek (although I always flunked my Greek classes)
Do you have any job openings over at Axel Braun Productions? Not at the moment, but feel free to email me your CV at [email protected].
Who is @TheRikkiBraun that you have been tagging lately? Are you two related??? That's my son! He's 23 and devilishly handsome. Just like his dad ;)
Larry Flynt or Hugh Hefner? Who had a bigger impact? Neither. My father, Lasse Braun was my inspiration.
Can you fly me out to watch a filming? Only if you are a 6' tall supermodel with a degree from Yale :)
Shit, we can both pretend. I do run a multi million dollar company, but I failed out of junior college. LOL.
What’s the most rewarding thing about your job? The fact that I get to make fan films with sex in it.
What porn star gives the best blowjobs? I'm on the non-receiving end of the camera ;)
So you never got one off camera? If I had gotten into porn for the fringe benefits, I suspect I would have been far less successful. But there are plenty of great directors who are also performers, and that's a perfect example of verticalization (no pun intended).
What is the most outrageous thing you have seen happen during filming? The one time when nobody showed up late on set! :)
Your father had a huge role in abolishing a lot of censorship in Europe, and that echoed into the USA. Is he remembered as a cultural hero as much as a pornographer? He is an icon, no? We all owe him a bit of a debt. He definitely is an icon, and I'm not sure about the rest of the world, but I sure owe him a lot.
Hey Axel first I have to tell you that the first scene in Batman XXX (the Adam West one) is so good that I have trouble watching the rest of it. Kimberly Kane, what a treasure. Thank you! I love that movie :)
Do you think porn stars would benefit from taking stage fighting to better know how to move with your partner and other skills? Might reduce the times things pop out and break up a scene. I don't think stage combat is a much needed skill in porn, but some actors like Evan Stone, Derrick Pierce and Giovanni Francesco are actually trained fighters!
Axel, Big fan...I wanted to ask you how long you plan on directing? And what do you think of any of the new porn parody directors out there or are there any other porn parody directors to watch for in your opinion thanks - B. I'll keep doing it until it's not fun anymore...might be a while. What??? There are OTHER parody directors???!!! ;)
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2015.07.13 19:43 christkilla My Jokes for the Big Jay Roast....if any of the comics actually like them feel free to use them and not attribute them

KURT METZGER
Keep it going for Kurt. Kurt is one of the best comics in the city. He kills every night. Mostly naïve coeds asking for directions.
He might look familiar to you if you’ve ever gotten into an argument with an Albanian cabbie.
Kurt Metzger looks like if the NYPD asked a Boardwalk caricature artist to sketch a rapist.
You look a Frankenstein’s monster that was made from other Frankenstein’s monsters.
The only thing scarier than your face is that unmodulated yell-talk that you call a voice. You’d think someone who spends his days luring children into a van would learn how to whisper.
 . . . 
We’re here to roast Big Jay. Look at how far he’s come. Big Jay used to work driving strippers around to bachelor parties. I can’t even imagine what it must have been like driving those sad, miserable people around South Jersey at night, as they whore themselves out for shitty money before drunk morons. But that’s because I’m not Rich Vos’s opener. Speaking of Bonnie…
Bonnie Vos is here. I was going to write more jokes about her, but I thought reminding her that she's married to Rich Vos was punishment enough.
Bonnie is one of the funniest female comics around in 2003.
She's still hot though. If only you could say the same thing for her career.
She was a young comic in LA before Vos dragged her down to Central Jersey. I don't know how well your clever one-liners go over with drunk firemen from Manalapan.
It must have been very jarring when Vos told you how to make it in New York and it involved EZ Pass.
Everytime Amy Schumer makes $500,000 for a gig, Bonnie pushes her daughter down a flight of stairs.
MISCELLANEOUS
Ari Shaffir is here to round out the lineup of the world’s shittiest Jews. If you’ve never seen Ari’s act, congratulations. He’s filthy too. He’s like Andrew “Dice”Clay without the wit.
Pete Davidson couldn’t be here. He was busy getting blown by two sixteen year olds while he explained what 9/11 was like.
Your other friend, Nate Bargatze couldn’t be here. He’s busy scaling the wall of the capitol building in South Carolina trying to put the Confederate flag back up.
Dan Soder, the man of a thousand, very, very deep voices. He does a killer Rodney impression. Let’s hope he works his Robin Williams. Or Richard Jeni. Or Freddie Prinze…These are all comics who’ve killed themselves.
ANTHONY
Anthony Cumia left the compound to come here. If you don’t know what the compound is, it’s what he calls his gaudy McMansion in Long Island. It’s actually a pretty cool place from what I hear. If you go there, in the backyard there’s this creepy looking dinosaur. But don’t let it freak you out, it’s just Anthony ranting on twitter about black on black crime.
Anthony lives life like Hugh Hefner, except for the part where Hugh Hefner was a vocal advocate for civil rights and helped promote racial equality. But he does fuck young chicks and they're both usually up around 5 in the morning, Hef. because he's old, Ant because he his lawn sprinklers are on automatic timers and they usually wake him up when he's passed out on a pool float.
I’m glad Anthony was able to make a new career for himself, by doing the very thing that destroyed Mel Gibson’s career.
DEROSA
Joe DeRosa was supposed to be here. It’s a shame he isn’t because he and Ant had their whole falling out. DeRosa couldn’t make it…which I understand. He’s been going through some hard times. He just lost a major sponsor recently after the FBI raided his computers.
I was very heartbroken when Anthony and Joe broke up. You may not know this, DeRosa used to host a radio show on Sirius with Bill Burr. So, it’s kind of interesting that he and Anthony are both greasy wops who’s pale red headed partners left them behind in showbusiness.
LUIS J. GOMEZ A lot of people misinterpreted what Donald Trump said. When he was talking about Mexicans being criminals and rapists, he was just talking about Luis J. Gomez. He’s cool with the rest of them.
Luis calls himself the Puerto Rican rattle snake which is misleading, because people usually care when there’s a rattlesnake nearby.
Luis is a father which is surprising. He’s still struggling as a comic and it can’t be easy raising a kid. Do you know how difficult it’s going to be to drop James off at school when you’re not allowed within 1,000 feet of an elementary school.
BIG JAY
We’re all here to honor Big Jay.
Everyone knows you as Big Jay. They may not know that Jay is short for Jason. And big is short for bigot. People dismiss Big Jay because they don't think his comedy raises any serious questions. Which is bullshit, because he absolutely asks important questions in his act. Like, have you ever fucked a black guy? How many black guys have you fucked? How big were their black dicks? You know, hard hitting stuff.
People also give him shit for his fingerless gloves. They're not fingerless. They were regular gloves but his hands swelled up. He cannot get rid of those gloves. They're like the Incredible Hulk's shorts.
Big Jay is known for his crowd work. For DeRosa…a crowd is when multiple people are assembled to watch a comedian perform on stage. For Dave Smith, a stage is a platform which is elevated above the ground level so the comedian is a little more visible to the audience. For Luis, a comedian is a person who is paid to use humor to make people laugh. For Kurt, laughter is thing children are no longer capable of once you invade their dreamspace.
But for all the years of struggle, things are starting to pay off. Big Jay just got a deal to do a one hour special. I haven’t seen a struggling comic catch such a lucky break since Harris Stanton got his settlement check from Walmart.
(alternate joke: Big Jay has been trying to make it for years. I haven’t seen a comic get run over like that since Tracy Morgan)
Big Jay has been overlooked by the business. Maybe it's because he looks like the DJ at a child sex slavery auction. You look like an after photo of Joey Fatone after he gains a few more pounds for the before photo.
(I was too lazy to bother writing Dave Smith jokes)
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